I am picking up brains here from everybody, people with high and low self esteem.
I am often comparing myself to people and this means that sometimes I come out above and sometimes below people. And I get my self esteem from that : I know it is bad.
I am curious if people of high and low self esteem if they compare themselves. I guess people with low self esteem compare themselves but people with high self esteem what is your tough process? Do you compare themselves to other or you just don’t because you don’t care about others?
I read some of @friday posts where he says he believes he can reach any level giving enough time. Does that mean he compare himself to other and think he is superior?
Note I am trying to understand high self esteem people tough process to high jack my not high enough self esteem.
And I know everybody likes to say don’t compare yourself to other but let’s be honest here. This is a safe place to share honestly.