Money first vs Sex first

The Emperor's Lounge
#21

Someone actually said it out loud.

Having a good financial setup is more for survival and security for yourself and a level of enjoyment of life. But that doesn’t necessarily mean you need to achieve a certain level of money in order to be good at attracting women. That idea seeps into the mainstream through movies, adverts and YouTube but doesn’t bear out in observed life.

You don’t need money to get women.

How many men have you seen in real life that aren’t financially comfortable yet able to snag women?

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#22

You hit the nail on the head with this one

Money first

Dating becomes so much easier because you suddenly have the time and finances to do what you want

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#23

Yet prioritizing making money in the hope of getting laid like a king (one of the alternatives given in the opening post) is not only a fatal mistake but also points to underlying issues, such as a lack of self-worth or a need for external validation.

On top of that, there are certain types of women who only care about money. I don’t take those women into account at all.

I don’t want to go off topic, but I’d consider why it can be a fallacy in many cases—for example, being born into money and still ending up a total loser or a psychological mess.

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#24

Money while doing sex like a gigolo or a stripper with a side hustle.

#25

I guess what the OP meant boils down to the most common question when it comes to getting women: What do women really want?

Now think, everyone.

Hint: if only she could suffer for love instead of being trapped in the emptiness of her daily life…

#26

it is obvious
:eggplant:

#27

Grow up. lol

#28

I agree. I think you are making great observations.

I just want to make sure we keep things nuanced.

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#29

You can not grow up after 20 or something, your spine is just closed.

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#30

Women want the WANTED man—the one who is successful with women—because surely there must be a reason for his success. Whatever that reason may be.

Why is that so? Perhaps women want their offspring to inherit the trait (the gene) that makes the WANTED man so successful with women (and thus in reproduction). Money is not a gene, and linking it to genetics is highly doubtful.

Although, we could argue that money can be inherited.

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Main Dev. Thread - NEW WANTED
#31

My understanding is:

  • Money does not increase sexual attractiveness
  • You don’t need money to get laid
  • Money buys you free time
  • Money can buy sex, but that is just a financial transaction

Money first → more free time and more options in life

Sex first → you can get laid but that’s it, you won’t have more free time and any many more options in life (exception: you get together with a rich girl)

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#32

Yeah, exactly. Money doesn’t make men more attractive, it doesn’t. What it does do is give you the freedom to live life on better terms, which makes you happier, and ultimately more attractive.

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#33

I know it’s not always deep, but it actually is, and, you most likely won’t like my answer. So

What are your unique constraints?

From your question, I can tell that you’re looking for people’s experiences to craft a “decision matrix” which you can then use to make a decision on what to focus on now.

Which is good in a way, but ultimately, paths differ, even though they may be similar on some grander scale.

Now, you know you want both sex and money.

Next, identify which is the bigger constraint, why it is and how working on it will improve the other aspect, at the same time.

Alternate periods of focus between them. Sure the higher the focus allotted to one, the faster growth will be, but constraints shift from time to time. You don’t have to completely sacrifice one. As growth in one area, will inevitably feed into the other area.

My direct answer?

Most of my focus will be biased towards money, for now, due to my desire for more “freedom/expanded lifestyle options.” Which is my biggest constraint right now.

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#34

Why not both run New Wanted with Revelation of Wealth

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#35

Are you financially independent and living comfortably? If the answer is no, then focus on money until you are. This is exactly what I did, and it’s the route I tell every young man to take.

The secret is that if you go monk mode and begin directing all of that sexual energy (think sexual transmutation) towards your financial success - you will get there in a blink of an eye. Think of it like speed-running while everyone else is playing the game at normal pace. This is especially true if you’re on the younger side and don’t have a ton of responsibilities.

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#36

You can just make 2 customs with 2 cores each and make sure they synergestic