Your whole story and posts really make me wanna see your face… lol
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Me too. Your story is very fascinating almost not real, but not in a bad way :).
To me, if you want to start off with a Q sub it’d be great to go with Daredevil. It pretty much has everything you want right on the box. It will develop your social skills and would allow you to improve both 1 and 2. Add that with True Social Ultima (which you are testing on right now). Try working with just those two to simplify everything. Almost any other additional Q/Ultima would help you (Quantum Limitless, Power Can Corrupt, Rebirth, Elixir, etc) but because of what you said here:
This is pretty important. If you add too many loops/different subliminals, you might get into reconciliation territory which has the potential to impact your work. So my advice would be to
- Run 1 loop of True Social Ultima every other day for a week. Evaluate your results and performance.
- Run 2 loops of True Social Ultima every other day for a week. Evaluate again.
- If you’re happy with what you’re seeing, add 1 loop of Daredevil every other day for a week.
- Then increase it to 2 loops every other day.
By the end of the month, you will be running 2 loops of True Social Ultima and 2 loops of Daredevil every other day. You can see a slow increase in the number of loops while evaluating if it impacts your work performance in either a positive or negative manner. Then you can start thinking of what to do next. You may extend each stage longer if you wish to be more cautious.
EDIT:
I’ve noticed you said you listened to this on your phone. Are you listening to this with good quality earphones/headphones? Ultimas are special in that you need proper earphones/headphones to work.
Here’s a support article:
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Right, you have now detailed your actual problem.
You have social anxiety.
You need to run AM for a year or two and then change to Emp for a couple of years.
Then you simply won’t give a fuck if people look at you or not and you will be able to interact with them without thinking about it.
Then you can think about getting better social skills/getting laid etc.
Walk before you can run.
Not that I expect you will take notice of this but nonetheless this is the answer you are looking for.
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no its way worst then that.
if i had just social anxiety then i think things would be much easier.
but i have asperger,ocd and adhd as well. i think the asperger and ocd especially are big trouble.
for example, i have tried things like therapy, beta blockers, serious meditation, phenibut, getting drunk…none of those things helped in any noticeable way for me. if i had just social anxiety im pretty sure one of these would have made significant impact.
my situation is way more difficult then just social anxiety.
I have often seen you advice people running a sub for 1 year +
May I know why ?
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A lot of people don’t take/take enough action, running for a year ameliorates that.
And even if one does take action the gains will be cumulative and are there to be had, ie a years worth of change will be much more than 6 months worth of change.
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to be 100% honest in my experience things in life that work usually work very fast.
im talking all areas of life here.
so to me if subliminals are viable technology for my problems it will be obvious very quickly…i have never really seen anything in any aspect of my life where for 3 months no obvious benefit and then suddenly on 4th month things get significantly better.
for example at work, last year i spent 4 months on this investment losing money and making nothing that entire time. then i finally gave up took the loss and moved to another opportunity and that investment made me 18 000 profit in 2 weeks.
all my best investments at work have always worked pretty much right away and all my catastrophic mistakes where i lost huge amounts like 6 figures lost in months …all of these where situations where i kept pushing and pushing and pushing hoping an investment would eventually turn around and they never do.
so i guess this is my long way to say im not planning to stick to subliminals for long if i dont see obvious benefit in first 2-3 weeks max.
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I knew you say something like that.
Your social anxiety is the easiest thing to change [Moderator Edit and Warning: Please stop name calling. This is a forum centered on respect, tact, and kindness. This might be your last warning.]
So now you have two things to think about.
- What I have explained is the best way for you to improve.
- How did I know you would react like that?
I won’t be responding to you again.
Good luck.
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yeah i definitely agree that maximum 2 subs is wise.
true social i have started and im looking to add another ultima.
i want to stick to ultima until i see evidence this is a viable technology for my problems.
which ultima would you recommend to add to true social?
or maybe if i want to do just ultima i should just run true social solo for now?
im really intrigued by rebirth but i have a gut feeling it might cause me some mental funk that disturb my work.
True
And 1 second later they forget because they watch someone else
So relax
Stick to true social Ultima for the first month.
Did you realize that even what you Wright here after your first 2 loops have a more human undertone?
Les robotic
Compare it for yourself and see it
no it does not work like that at all.
girls are actually very creepy in the nightlife.
all those cringy creepy things men are blamed for, girls are exactly the same but its just not talked about much because only like 5% of men experience it compared to like 40% of women get creeped on.
i went out last night to a nightclub.
i had to dress all out for this place as its friday night so cannot even get in if not dressed all out.
what girls do is not what you seem to think at all.
girls stare like creeps like blatantly…its not like a quick look then look away like you read about when people talk about signs girls give.
girls are way more blatant then that and also there is the girls who actually will engage me themselves…i get approached by random girls anytime im in a party/nightlife environment…was approached by 5 different girls last night…and then there is the girls who will literally do the super cringe sequence of stare then stare…then walk halfway towards me…then i guess get scared and go back to friends…then stare some more as she talks with the friends…then try again…girls are just as cringy and creepy as guys…they do all the exact same things guys are accused of
so no its definitely not what you think…literally anytime last night i was in that club there was someone staring at me usually multiple different groups…and also wherever i went would suddenly become a dancefloor…i can literally go stand near the exit of the club and within 2 min there will suddenly be girls dancing around me…like 100% of the time you can point to any less busy or empty area of the club and be like “go stand there alexander” and as long as its an area where im visible, within 2-3 min the area will be packed with girls dancing all around me…like 10/10 every single time…
again this is why i always feel its just a waste of time for me to seek help from other people when no one can help except myself since most people cannot relate…im very familiar with the whole PUA advice that “girls will show interest by giving you a quick look then quickly looking away”…yeah definitely NOT what happens with me…im literally stared at from the moment i walk in to walk out…like i said its like im on stage…im always being watched and i know i am which makes it hard to relax since its kind of like i always have to be aware not to do anything to look bad as people are always watching.
and im talking about girls only here, even guys are affected by someone like me; you would be surprised at the strange things that random men will do when im in a party or nightlife situation.
anyways, i suspect i wasted my time writing this post and you probably will not believe anything i say since its so out of the norm given your life experience.
i think the biggest problem is most humans significantly overestimate their physical attractiveness. so there are probably people reading this who are like “this guy is trolling im a 8 out 10 in looks and i get none of these things not even close”…when in reality that guy is almost certainly a 6/10 at best.
i remember reading an article where the guy called himself a 9/10 male because he had random girls approach him “once in a while” in the nightclife…when in reality even an 8/10 male would get approached pretty much too many times to count…so that guy was probably a 6.5 to 7 at best.
thats why i love photofeeler…anyone can go there , put your pictures and see what girls think…if someone reading this gets 9.5+ on photofeeler then they should have very similar levels of attention in public.
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Have you ever tried going out and making you be the most fool possible? Like purposely trying to get rejected or embarrassed when everybody is watching?
This often helps greatly with social anxiety as you will notice that it wasn’t that bad. And also that it is actually very hard.
wow really?
i will check later since im operating on like 3 hours of sleep today since i went out last night.
i hope its true…would be amazing if really that noticeable already.
something did feel different last night as i think i felt less self conscious wth the nice clothes then i am usually…usually i get thoughts like “maybe people will think im trying too hard”…and also the increased attention from clothing usually increases anxiety but i think yesterday it did not…so maybe true social did help…but i also forgot to take my ocd medication yesterday so maybe that was factor as its very strong medication and i take high doses.
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i tried that when i was younger before i could go to nightlife.
i would walk around campus and just ask people random things like to guys “do you like big boobs or nice ass”…or i would sit at random tables in library and tell the girl “sorry im late”…its funny you say this because thinking back now i did meet girls doing this and even got laid…not sure why i stopped…actually i do remember doing the “sorry im late” and one girl who was this kind of nerdy looking girl who i suspect had her own similar issues to mine…she did not get the joke at all and literally freaked out and caused a scene…the vast majority of girls usually laughed and we would talk and then i would get number…only bad reaction i remember was this girl but it was big scene she caused…so i guess after that i stopped so not to get bad reputation at university
Hahah, sounds fun! And sounds like the anxiety was not so pronounced back then?
On what kind of diet are you currently? When you are taking so much medications, your body utilizes a lot of fat to produce hormones (made up mostly out of fat) and other particles to inactivate and detox the medications. Being deprived of fat is very often one of the main causes for anxiety in general.
So I would recommend you to stack up on those raw avocados, raw (unpasteurized) butter, eggs yolks preferably raw, etc.
its crazy you say this as well because my mom has been begging me for years to take a serious approach to my diet.
she is convinced that with diet alone i can pretty much solve all the ocd, adhd and asperger.
she’s always walking about how its all my diets fault and if i would trust her and just listen for 2 weeks i would be able to stop all medication and would be new human.
i have never taken her seriously and honestly my diet is all fast food like 100%.
specifically mcdolnalds literally 100% of meals.
because of my ocd im very paranoid about people touching my food and mcdonalds does a really good job of packaging food for delivery so i literally eact mcdonalds for every single meal.
like literally for the last 12-18 months 100% of my diet is mcdonalds ordered through uber eats.
i used to order starbucks because they also did good job packaging things but eventually their packaging got worst and i lost trust in them so now literally only eat mcdonalds and nothing else.
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i have ocd man.
im not able to grocery shop.
i cannot use the shopping carts since other people touched them.
i buy everything online.
literally 100% of my life is bought online because as long as i do not see another human touch my things im able to use it so online is only option.
been like this for years.
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I understand perfectly you situation.
because I am at the opposite world you are in
I am short 163 cm
Loking like a patatohead
And I get from women first a disgusting facial expression if I approach them.
So I did what I have to do
Learning what turns them on
And I can say arousal has nothing to do wit attraction (that’s what you get)
Arousal has to do with-who you are and if you can comunicate your sexual interest freely.
Now back to your problems
You have looks going for you 
You have women turning into willing fuck beast when they see you👍
You can stand there and they surround you👍
Bro develop a sense of humor
Next time one is staring, go over and say: Loking cost, you owen me 10 dollars
Or take your cell phone out and photograph them
Have fun
Turn the fucking game around
Wright a text on your phone : I lost a bet with my father,i could have won 100k but I lost my punishment is: I can’t speak for 1 month, but I find you irresistible erotic. If you like to spend the night with me touch me
Give them an opportunity to be sexual with you
That’s so easy
Do some funky shit
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holy shiet there are some really smart people in this forum.
you are 100% right.
attraction is insanely overrated and its all about arousal.,
you are 100% right and im surprised to meet someone aware of this.
only thing i will say is that some girls do sort of become aroused just looking at me…so there are still big advantages in ability to generate arousal when you are in like top 10% looks or maybe top 5%.
but yeah arousal is like the great equalizer…its why i know guys 5 foot 7 and honestly ugly who gets laid a lot…because he just knows how to get girls aroused.
so in my opinion almost anyone can get laid a lot with hot girls because of arousal you do not need attraction.
but again be aware that someone like does get a lot of girls who literally seem to just instantly get wet on sight.