Make money and fix marriage?

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#24

I see things the same way, depending of course on the definition of gaming.
The first thing I think about is: do I really want to game someone for my entire life? Fuck no!

In the long term run, everyone will have better or worst periods, that’s ok. It matters how you handle them. As long as you are (bluntly) honest about it, that’s pretty much all one should do.
Like: “baby, I’m focused to finish this and I’m not really in the mood for sex. most likely its going to be the same for the next week or so. I’ll fuck you when I can devour you”. I mean: things happen, what am I supposed to do in that situation: have sex with her to keep her, as an obligation? Do this and you’ll both lose: she’ll feel sex it’s not hot like usual, you’ don’t focus on what you really want. Trying to control the outcome in a long term relationship it’s just too much work.
On the other hand, if you are honest, and she gets upset because you’re focused on something else - well you got an even more important answer: it’s always going to be her way.

I love a saying I heard from DavidX: “My life is like a train: I can’t change directions. You are welcomed to hop on the train and if you don’t like the direction, feel free to hop off at the next station.” That’s what women want(in my experience): a man with a direction, who does not try to “please” her.

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#25

Feel free to elucidate then.

Perhaps you could also comment on your lack of “connection ability”.

Perhaps you are now manifesting your neediness by being vulnerable?

Perhaps your wife responds to your vulnerableness well, because she has a mothering instinct and she would respond to some other stimulus to a greater extent?

Do you think you lack significance? And in what way did you become vulnerable?

Perhaps if you extended your vulnerability or showed it in another area she would be repulsed?

How do you know?

Can you know?

#26

:sleepy:you disappoint me.

“ Only thing missing now is the connection part, I can do it over time but at the start, I must really like you for that to just happen on spot”

Anywho, about the soul thing… that ship has sailed.

Back to this…

Your reasoning is fault. Did you properly check the link I said go through. Combining subs and the course is what’s manifesting a passionate relationship, that’s the real secret behind it… but anyway, no use explaining to someone that’s not interested in learning.

Enjoy your night.

#27

Idk why we’re talking about @Myster s wife but anyway.

One key thing I notice with you and @ksub

Scarcity mindset.

You try TOO HARD to get it working with THAT specific woman.
And that is coming from someone who is married himself.

The key really (as with everything) is to live in abundance.

Be how you want to be. Run Khan ST1 or DR to find that person. And then, you have to be FINE with whatever decision SHE makes on her life.
If she wants to be on your dick, good. If she doesn’t, find someone else.

Because if you are focused on that one woman you ARE needy BY DEFINITION.
You HAVE to make it work.

As opposed to me who would be totally fine if the marriage broke down, I spend time with my wife and kid because I WANT to, not because I HAVE to to make her feel good and stay.

Abundance, gentlemen.

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#28

Dude, I agree with you in theory. But I don’t think either @Myster or @ksub fall under that category.
It’s more about rekindling the connection between 2 people, not about doing monkey dances for her.

I had months when I was working 16-18 hours a day, and for sure the passion/connection part of the relationship took a dive. Doesn’t matter though, I knew she is supporting me however she could. Of course, she always had the option (and my blessing) go out, meet other men because she does have needs. So yeah, ups and downs are a given, just a matter of priorities. Your priorities, that you make clear to her.

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#29

I do think you have to constantly ‘game’ your wife nowdays.
Connection is important too, ofcourse.

If you can sustain your frame, hence not showing weaknesses and be on your grind, she will keep her respect high for you.

And if she respects you, she will automatically be attracted to you.

My ex told me when she broke up with me “You know i love you right”?

yea… she might have loved me, but her respect for me had dropped significatly in comparison our first date when she was kissing and grabbing me all night in my car Lol.

What i learned from this is, always keep the respect higher then her love for you, and if she denies sex from you, guess what? her respect for you dwindles.

I also dont think more cuddling/being with her will raise attraction, maybe she will take you more for granted.

You have to set boundries, be firm. if she doesnt comply, divorce her.

There are tons of women around, like @AlexanderGraves said, abundance is key .

Don’t tolerate being with someone who doesnt fulfill your needs,.
if needs be, find someone who cant stop herself from touching you all day.( PSITU can help :smile:)

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#30

To get back to the original post.

It might make sense to replace (Emperor Qv2, God Like Masculinity Qv2, Commander v2, and even RICH v2) with Ascended Mogul Qv2.

That one program will hit what you’re trying to hit using four programs. (I think you were trying to hit Alpha and Financial Success.) Compared to four programs, one program will work more efficiently, with potentially faster, deeper, and more powerful results.

Love Bomb v2 seems like a great choice.

Dragon Reborn Qv2. That could go a number of ways, but my gut says that it would be a good choice.

I haven’t started DR yet. I’ve just read about it and have followed the adventures of the various Dragoneers on the forum.

It sounds like you’re feeling stuck (it happens) and would like to reinvigorate various aspects of your life. Dragon Reborn will facilitate that, and, it seems, will do much, much more on top of that.

but…first just do a gut check and see if you feel that you’re ready for it right now.

So, I’d recommend:

Ascended Mogul (later evolving to Emperor: House of Medici and/or Khan)
Love Bomb (and possibly Libertine)
Dragon Reborn

But I’m really into focused stacks at this point.

Eventually, if you get around to making a marriage custom, maybe take the best parts of all of the advice up above and pay attention to both Alpha development and empathic awareness.

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#31

Just use emperor for now perhaps add other products in a few months.

#32

And this is where people like you go wrong.

I always explain why.

You might not like the logic, you may not agree with the conclusions.

You might not even understand my arguement.

But at least I explain.

You and people like you never do.

#33

I would recommend that too plus RebirthU run as a major program. Running RICH without solid foundations the Emperor builds (not only the Emperor) doesn’t make much sense to me.

#34

Still works for me.

I ran RICH before I added EoG to my stack, and granted I already had a business (but wasn’t crazily successful) but I still ran it as one of the first subs and it worked and still does.

Just my experience.

Generally I guess it would still be better to have a foundation.

Which is why I got EoG.

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#36

Out of curiosity, what do you mean by gaming your wife specifically?

#37

What i mean is, don’t be too predictable.
Try new stuff out with her, don’t get sucked into a boring routine.

if her ego gets a bit too high, subtly lower it(don’t tell her she is fat :joy:) so she realize that she is lucky to be with you, and you have other better options then her.

the attraction will always remains when she feels you are above her and she will lose big time by losing you.

also, very important: if she throw hissy fists or show some kind of mocking(not jokingly) then you must put her in her place. She has to know the boundries and that respect comes above all.
if not her, others better will.

#38

Wish you all the best on your journey

#39

marathon training versus sprint training

#41

I took yesterday off. I’m catching up. Everyone please remember that when you post you always have the choice to post something that might de-escalate the situation, even if you know you’re in the right, and even if you think me posting this isn’t fair.

You can also ignore. The only person you have to explain yourself to is yourself. And as of late, I have a hard time explaining myself to myself, so there goes that idea.

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#42

There’s a saying in Romania: when the cat is not at home, the mouse is playing on the table" :smiley:

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#43

Hi guys. I appreciate all the replies and even the verbal fights. :joy:
I actually started using these subs 2 years ago. I started with Ascended Mogul and Rebirth. It did wonders. Completely erased my lifelong anxiety. It also tremendously upped my self confidence. After that, I started running Emperor. I have ran Emperor for close to 2 years now. But not very consistently. I started being consistent with it when Emperor Q came out. Now Emperor Qv2 is digging deep. People could be surprised that I’ve ran Emperor for that long with little to no results. Actually the results are here. There are two things that I know. Internally, I was very very far from being the type of person the Emperor sub could turn me into. Like veeeery far. :joy:
So in my case, that sub actually has a looooot of work to do. And some times I wasn’t consistent, like I would stop running the sub for weeks then start again. Consistency came with Emperor Q. And I made it a daily habit starting January of this year. Now, I can see that I still have a long way to go but I’m getting there.

I was fired from my job at the beginning of the pandemic. Which was a blessing is disguise anyway. I hated the job. I focused on building my online business. I’m running a marketing agency. It’s a one man show so far but I’m loving it. It took me awhile to get it right but some money is coming in. Now I want to take it to 6 figures. Which I know I will. That’s a part of the reason why I’m running Emperor. This time I’m being more disciplined. I can feel the changes but some of them are hard to pinpoint since it’s a sub that covers so much ground. It is simply going to take time to completely go from someone who had an employee mindset to someone who see himself as an independent self made wealthy business man. Emperor has completely killed off the employee mindset. I can’t see myself work for someone else again. Not for a long time at least. But I don’t see myself as an emperor yet.

The marriage was already struggling for some time mainly due to me not being able to step up and be a confident leader. I confess that I was sometimes weak and indecisive. And broke too. The money I was making from the job was too little.
When I lost that job and the bills started to pile up and I couldn’t buy things for my wife and our children. The marriage really started to suffer and and the disrespect started to become more obvious.
Once thing, I came too understand is this : It is amazing how much women are motivated by money!!! The crazy thing is that they don’t even know they are.

There is still potential is that marriage but it largely depends on my ability to step up and lead. It also depends largely on the money I bring in. Bills need to be paid and kids need to eat. I’m bringing some money in but I want to grow that income faster.

I believe it’s pointless to try to save a relationship while not being able to fully provide for the family.
I’m not totally against moving on from the relationship but at least I’d like to make sure that I did everything I could before throwing the towel in. Right now, walking away like a weak and broke loser would be the easy solution. And that’s not me.
Those the reason why I thought this stack could work.
Emperor Qv2 => For leadership, money and internal strength.
Dragon Reborn Qv2 => For finally getting rid of those things that keeping me stuck.
God Like Masculinity Qv2 => To improve my male presence and come off as the dominant and strong family man I need to be.
RICH v2 => For money
Commander v2 => Same reason as God Like Masculinity Qv2
Love Bomb v2 => I need to rekindle the flame and bring her back to my bed.

By the way, though I’m not putting that woman on a pedestal, she knows it. It want to get back to a point where respect was there, intimacy was there and money was flowing. But right now, money and financial stability in priority. I know it will unlock a lot of things. Women like money. Women like men who are successful. My wife is no different.

Sorry for the long post, guys.

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#44

My apologies. I’ll defuse the situation should a moment like what happened arise.

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#45

No need to apologize. Now I got a clear picture of your marriage, I’d say stick with Emperor. What is it exactly that you’re struggling with in terms of your agency? cause I used to have one till I shut it down in pursuit for something else

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