How did you come to that conclusion? If you had it before, you can have it again. I don’t know what happened, but what I do know is what happened, no matter what it was that ruined your confidence, is only ruining your confidence because you are letting it.
Maybe not consciously, but subconsciously you attached a meaning to whatever happened: means me no confidence, to go on a date.
It’s just a part of you. It’s not the real you, no matter how much you believe it to be.
I hope I don’t sound like I’m trying to judge you or anything.
I just wanted to give you a nudge to question your own self-sabotage. Because ultimately, you choose what is true.
I used to believe I could not get girls because I had wonky teeth, and my two front teeth made me look like a hamster.
0 girls have commented about that. When I was young, I used to believe I could not get girls because I was a broke student.
0 girls cared about that too. Sure, it was not optimal, but still they just ended up paying for everything.
You are obviously running this title because you want to be confident with women. So you have the desire.
So just let the title push you a little bit at a time. Baby-step it, or go just all out and give your brain proof that nothing bad is gonna happen.
That part is really up to you. Like I walked up to two girls in broad light, asking them if they wanted a vacation threesome.
Did I expect a yes? No. Was it the most smooth, nice way to approach? No. But you know what they said.
“WHAAAT? No way, I gotta admit, it was extremely bold though.” Then I just wished them a wonderful day and was on my way.
I don’t know if this helps at all. If it does, great. If not, that’s all good too.
But if you had it before there are 0 reasons you can’t have it again.
Best of luck on your journey. 