Thanks
I wonder if it leads to delusion and complacency
Wouldn’t it be more productive to reframe it in a way that suggests possible improvements through action; rather than simple “I’m good at this”?
Like “I’m not good at this” → “I’m in the process of learning; failure precedes success; if I do it enough times, I’ll get good at this”
Or that woman example: “what are the potential reasons for that? Bad looks/bad communication skills/etc? I can work on all of these and get even better women than that one anyway”
Thoughts?





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