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One book I suggest that really helped me out was David Deida…
Especially this passage that I think you should read:
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That is a very good book
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Yeah man im just re-reading it rn
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Funny you mention that cause I have been thinking about re-reading it myself lately
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You should read Alabaster Girl
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Just looked into it, and tbh I think you’re right. I should read this book.
Zan !
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Tha GOAT.
Lol man after reading that book I was never the same with girls
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I never read much of Alabaster Girl…
quite a tome
it read like pretty poetry… but I like Zan
Who doesn’t? I listened to older courses of his
I’ll have to give it another go
And Deida! I have never finished any of his works either… I have quite a few in my library
Glad to see these guys mentioned here
More men should be exposed to them
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I actually remember this phrase from Zan often
“A man who loves women is loved by women”
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Yup man.
Book will help you land Model typa girls like your 10/10 girl
Not really a good book if the girl is average or energetically not untuned
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Cause some of the things in the book are so “unalpha and simpy “
But it’s just super high level stuff
Like for example “wow your so fucking gorgeous like wow girl” is hella simpy but that exact line with the right energy and intent can get you an instant make out
Will work on a 10 but you could say the same thing to like your avg looking girl and she will reject it and you cause of her self esteem and inability to see your authenticity
Does that make sense?
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Yeah I can hear him saying that ha
But yeah, it’s ‘where’ he’s coming from that makes the difference
He’s just showing appreciation
I think another line of his:
Beauty needs a witness
And when making decisions…
He goes for what makes the best memories
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EXACTLY. Exactly that.
That place of appreciation can be misinterpreted as worship lol
By the wrong girl.
But 10s they can tell the difference.
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I have a question about the quoted statement:
Isn’t the whole goal of WANTED that you just go to places where women can see you and then it is up to them to pursue you?
Isn’t that what a super desired woman also does?
She just goes somewhere and “is” there.
Then men approach and pursue her left and right.
By going to places where a lot of women are, I am already taking the action. Then it should be up to WANTED to make those women act and pursue me, right?
I cannot be “WANTED” if it is me who does the pursuing.
Because if I still have to pursue them, then I could very well run PS and Khan instead?
Wouldn’t the act of actually pursuing women be the type of counterproductive action that would signal to your subconscious mind that you still have to chase them and that it is not you who is being chased?
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Sometimes they’re too shy
To make first move
Maybe introducing yourself in natural way could be all that’s needed to open door 
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I think the key is to be yourself as Wanted expresses through you. Not chasing, but just being.
My thinking is that Wanted and WB identify the parts of you women are most likely to respond favorably to and put that forth through your words and nonverbal/body language.
So you don’t chase, you just go be yourself.
Edit. Changed ‘but’ to ‘not’
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The aura in this must be like catnip to the right woman
Attractive, Mysterious & Wealthy
So long as you’re congruent
I’m going to just chime in here with a few thoughts and one disclaimer. Mainly because I have found this thread fascinating and even more so with the recent update.
I have not personally ran Wanted Black yet, I do own the sub, picked it up when it first came out and slotted it as something to be run sometime next year.
The reason why I chimed in is primarily because of what @unusualfellow just said in his last post about being congruent, which I think perfectly sums everything anyone could want into one word. Congruence.
Wanted Black, and by it’s extension John Wingless, reminds me of a friend of mine. He embodies the Wanted Black Archetype perfectly - slightly mysterious, charming, a hint of danger. Women literally throw themselves at him in a way that blows my mind, and I’ve seen it happen to him so often it’s comical.
I asked him about it once a while back, as I was coming out of my divorce and dealing with the idea of going “out there” again into the dating pool, feeling the way a lot of guys do, like the odds are stacked heavily against me.
He told me something I have taken to heart completely. He said that he feels like women respond to him the way they do is because he is just a conduit for a woman to express her own desires. He’s the outlet, not necessarily the target itself. What he likes to call right place, right time.
I mention him because his history was interesting; he was anything but a ladies man when he was younger. He had his heart broken more than once and he was a doormat for one particular woman that he was in love with for years. I saw him at his worst through that period of time and it often broke my heart watching him suffer the way he did. Not that I was doing that much better, hence my own divorce, but, it was rougher for him because it was unreciprocated love. He said his shift came to him when he first learned to love himself, then to love women for what they were, not what he wanted them to be. He still aggressively pursued women as the initiatior, before having enough of those experiences being positive ones where he landed the girls more frequently, to the point where he slowly allowed himself to grow into a position where he became the pursued.
I guess the point of this is that there was an evolution he went through himself. It started with him though, learning to love himself first.
So if I were to sum up his own growth utilizing Sub Club titles, his trajectory would be Love Bomb or LBFH, Khan/Emperor, and then finally Wanted Black.
Now, that being said, I think anyone who runs Wanted Black for a long enough period of time will get there, possibly with a lot of recon thrown into the mix as the person goes through the stages. But, one very huge factor of his own success he always credits is that he learned to love himself, flaws and scars, and that allowed him to appreciate the woman with all of her flaws and scars as well.
I believe that it’s difficult for most women to allow themselves to be vulnerable enough to throw themselves at a man as most of the time they are generally on a defensive. Let alone allowing themselves to experience their desires so openly.
I suppose that’s my long roundabout way of saying that congruence comes through lived experiences, so no matter where you’re starting from, as @Fire and @SaintSovereign always say, take action. I think that’s the point, the more action you take, even if you’re the one chasing while running Wanted Black, that constant feedback mechanism is what will eventually allow you to fulfill the entirety of the subs goals. And with the New Romance Experience, Experience being the keyword in that sentence, it effectively takes you through the stages that my friend went through to become who he has. I should also state that not only did he become successful with women, but just super successful in general. His entire life turned around. I love talking about him because I’ve known the guy almost 26 years and I’m so proud of who he’s become. He’s part of who I looked at in my own immediate circle and thought, yeah, I can grow as well and be my best version.
Again, I haven’t run Wanted Black yet myself, however I intend to in the very near future as part of an ongoing stack or in a custom once the rest of the titles I want have been fully updated. So take what I wrote not specifically about that sub, but more of a generalization from my own witnessed experiences. I hope some of this helps a few of you stay the course, especially @WinglissStark. It’s only going to get better for you my man, the longer you stay your path.
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