Listening more than talking is a very effective way to be mysterious and fascinating.
I agree To a certain extent, but at some point, you have to bring actual value to the table.
If you are a boring person and just use listening to manipulate an outcome, it doesnāt really work. What the book fails to mention is that there is way more than just listening skills to make a significant influence.
Ultimately our biggest focus should always be elevating our own frame, and our own value, and build actual things of interest that bring value to others. Basically what a lot of the SC subs help us do.
Thereās really no gimmick that will influence friends and win people lol.
But it does hold some things we can take away, mainly perspective.
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Appreciate your take on it. I think if people donāt ask about you, then Iād say itās a red flag.
Theyāre reliving the moments as they tell you and your the one theyāre looking at while talking. Thatās why people say,
āI feel like Iāve known you my whole lifeā
Also Iām curious so have to ask, how is not talking manipulative?
Conversations are very much dynamic. Everyone is different, and we all connect differently. Some people prefer to do more talking, others prefer to listen, etc.
So instead of attempting to create a robotic outcome by using these techniques written in books, the best way we can learn is just getting experience. Connect to more people. The more people you talk to, the more we understand them. Make it organic, and be genuine. Its not about āNot talkingā or ātalkingā or overthinking too much of that stuff.
This is something I found posted online which resonated:
The path to actual mastery is paved with real-world experience.
I think itās time we all became more skeptical about the advice we read, and start learning what actually works for US.
My biggest takeaway from the book is to try and be considerate of the other party, and that their views will be different than yours.
My biggest takeaway was that remembering their name goes a long way lol.
Just remembering and using their name gives them the perception youāre an excellent conversationalist
Yep, I agree. It adds to the whole perspective of "being considerate of other people"Itās a two-way street.
Would running Primal along with WB be sort of redundant since WB has similar scripting in terms of sexual and masculine healing, social etc? @AnswerGroup
I think it will mesh well, and be a healthy balance of attract and approach.
WB has the magnetism that does a lot of the leg work for us in attracting people to us.
Primal is the aggressiveness that allows us to approach with fearlessness and courage.
Imagine.
Imagine you hang out with this super hot female. Rihanna, Bella Hadid or whatever flows your boat. You are having a good fun, she laugh to your jokes you feel amazing.
Then you hear a guy coming, he doesnāt acknowledge you and talk to her. She just chat then she tells you itās a guy she met. The guy greets and leave. You shrug it off.
Still having fun with the girl, rocking, she is having a good time. Then you both leave. As you are outside the premise, you get ready to say something nice to the hot babe. Maybe inviting her to another place another day, why not maybe continue to your place.
But the you hear the same voice. Damn the same fucking guy. You donāt know what he says. But she answers, āI am here with my good friendā. And you are dead. She leaves you and go to the man, he is in his car. She goes talking to the man in his car by his window. She is hapyp, she speaks with him. You see her giving him her phone number and say call me anytime. You feel dead inside. You are sad. You see the guy leaving in his crappy fucking car. The guy doesnt even acknowledge you, or her. Because he won. And you know he will bang her. You hear your female friend speaking shit but you donāt care because you know youāve lost. Again. To whom?
Lol
But letās imagine you are the other guy, the man who left in the crappy car with your Rihanna phone number and a sure fuck. Yeah you are the other guy.
The John fuckin WIngliss!
Damn thatās what I pull, I was the other guy. After I did that I find the whole situation funny. I was really selfish and I would usually feel bad for the guy friend but I did not care. I was dick driven lol.
I pulled some out of space atomic bomb. She is so hot. I could have bang her just outside my car in daylight. To be honest I mean no idea how I did it.
But fuck inside I am so anxious and all one-ities lol. I have been thinking about this and her since 3 full days non stop. Full on recon.
Whats the context and comparison here? Whats your goal? or previous results? And yes WB is phenomenal haha
I just saw this. I didnāt know what L2K was when you posted about it. Iāve scoured Pherotruth.com since and see the goals of WANTED Black and Alpha Dreamās L2K pheromone are the same. There are questions whether the current version(s) v1 or v2 are still potent as before. I bought a bunch from PheromoneXS and Liquid Alchemy Labs this month⦠From zero to many. Boom.
Exactly, which is why I liked it. Iād like to think it just potentiates the aura from WB even further.
And I think KB and SPS: endocrine system would also prime the body for the mones. Symbiosis.
Hit em from all angles
So I made a custom with chosen and wanted black as a test for a cycle and Iām not sure what to think of it, people seem confused on how to react to me, I canāt tell i f they like me or not, especially with women, I get the most confusing reactions, they seem attracted but at the same time not is the best way I can describe it. Iāll put it on hold for now and Iām thinking on doing WB with either stark or LBFH, and see what happens, I seem to get women to be more open with me with these 2.
Can you elaborate? Thereās a lot of people who are thinking of testing this mix. When someone asked what stacks I wanted to see, I mentioned:
Reasoning: The Love Bomb aura acts as a mediator of sorts between Chosen and Wanted Black, which would most certainly clash when used alone. Youāre coming across as an absolute mystery, too much of a mystery to try and solve.
At work I travel to alot of different sites so I get to see a lot of new people and test how they react to my subliminals. On wanted black, although I donāt think I acted any different than usual, people really liked me alot and women would try and stay in my space until I speak with them.
On chosen-wanted black, itās like people donāt know what to make of me, Iām I friendly guy? or an asshole dude?. I would say Iām a pretty good manager, I always try and make things positive but today for example when I went to tell someone how to do something and teach them, they just shut down, like they didnāt want to listen to me anymore or I get ghosted kind of like when you use a too much of a pheromone and people donāt know what to do because of the crazy vibe you are giving off so they try and avoid you.
I also tried it when I went out and women are not avoiding me but also not really trying either, I have a decent face so they will look but like I said they are not sure what to make of me and it seems maybe too much a risk or a pain to try and figure it out. In general avoidance is what most people do unless they have to interact with me and then they find now Iām actually a really nice guy
For experimental purposes, I will add love bomb for a cycle before giving up on this custom and report what I observe
I have an incoming custom with both WB and Chosen. I havenāt tested out this combo, just with OG wanted. Hopefully they will still gel.