Is that similar to PCC or different?
Nice insights!
Like this type of shit, I mean, I donât know the context for sure, but why did she told you all this? Isinât there a list, does she need your help? Idk if ot would be possible to ask her why of her behavior.
But will need more info, itâs veru hard anyway in a middle of emotions to realise whatâs going on and call out someone on their behavior.
Youll be alright king
Naw.
But, my lady is a fashionista who has a penchant for pushing me into indulgence, so if I do mention that I want to buy something that I donât need, sheâs the bad influence urging me to just do it under the guise of âself care.â Then once I make that purchase, she gets all dolled and sexied up and says, âsince weâre spending money, can I have [x]???â
She usually gets it.
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My wife and I are very transparent with each other. We are a team that doesnât really have defined roles.
We have joint checking and saving accounts and our own checking. Both of our paychecks go into joint checking then the automation takes over, we each have our personal paid biweekly as an allowance and then automatically money is dispersed to savings, investments etc.
Both of us know exactly what is paid out of our joint accounts. No need on personal ones. She also likes working around the house with Power tools and is good at it.
If you combine your talents and assets together, you have a lot of leverage to use in life compared to most people. We are working towards the same goals. Also we do monthly couples counciling as a check in to make sure we are attacking the problems that need to be solved.
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Itâs the new habits and behaviors getting rewritten by your subconscious. There also that globus sensation sometimes.
When ypu were running CFW for example you would have reacted with a different faciap expression, more caring maybe? Now that ypu are doing this non-reaction thing, there is friction in the subconscious mind. That is why you experience it. After doing it a few times, itâll vanish. Itâs definitely not for anxiety or stress. Itâs just the friction of change, which can also be stress but not in the sense of anxiety.
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Well, more money definitely would make that easier for me.
No need to discuss that kinda stuff when money is not a problem.
Then again, what you described is exactly the kinda femininity Iâm looking for.
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I know everyone is in love with WB, but HS really seems like it will deliver what you want more than WB. Maybe a combination of the two would work for you even, although depending on what you want you may need to drop WB at some point to focus on the person HS brought to you.
E: Pursuing your own personal interests and goals while not getting totally monk mode, and specifically not chasing companionship directly, is a great way to keep space open for someone in alignment with who you are to enter your life.
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I can relate to all of it, buddy. Stay true to your beliefs, stand your ground, and youâll exude an irresistible confidence. Just remember, even if sheâs mad and wonât admit it, sheâs secretly drawn to that sexy quality. 
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WB is like a custom in of itself, it has so much condensed in one: aura, physical shifting, s@x related performance, social, masculinity etc
Itâs like stark, lots and wanted combined
My new staple.
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In an LDR and Iâm not married but it sounds like she wants to be more included in your life. Her asking about the bills youâre paying and fixing the stuff without telling her makes me think that she feels left out.
It sounds like you think sheâs complaining that youâre doing things, correct me if Iâm wrong. To me it seems that sheâs the type of person that wants to know what youâre doing if it involves the both of you (the home, in this example). Not that youâre actually doing these things, sheâs probably happy with that. Sheâs just not being straightforward about her actual reason.
You know her better than I do but thatâs what it seems like from my POV. Maybe have a talk with her about her feeling left out/excluded from household stuff.
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Back in 2020 during my first Emperor run, when I had my last semi LTR which I was going to move state for, this was what really became the deal breaker under the surface. She began giving commandments and value judgements on how I spent my money; probably I over shared in the relationship and just should have not told her about shit. She would criticise me over spending on hygiene or hair products, or self care decisions. I eventually got frustrated and basically told her in no uncertain terms that this was a boundary she wasnât going to cross.
Not long after that, she found an excuse to end the relationship, trying to use every guilting trick under the book to try to break my frame and accept that I was a bad person when it was clear the reason for her decision.
Beyond personal joint decisions on finance about keeping the household afloat, or putting a certain amount aside, decisions made in advance within the relationship, itâs my firm position you donât want to give a woman that much control over your own finances. If you buy things for them, its a personal decision, but things you buy for yourself with your own paycheck should be nobodyâs business but your own.
That was one of the things that Emperor did for me, was learning how to set healthy boundaries and have an iron frame in the areas that mattered to me.
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Thanks everyone for your insight! 
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its good stuff man. i went through the same thing on emperor, butted heads with my alpha wife and came out on top and weâre in a good place. youll get through it
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Why should I?
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Exactly. I donât see a reason. And Iâm not Tue guy for it.
I run Khan. So should be fine long term 
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My frame of mind is pretty simple: if youâre not helping me make my money you donât get to tell me what to do with it (as long as the bills are paid). Iâm certainly not worried about her money, why would she be watching mine? 
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@AlexanderGraves This is all in theory and could be completely wrong.
Maybe with your new WANTED energy, sheâs getting nervous that she canât fully âlock you downâ anymore?
When you spent time alone on Sunday, you did what you wanted to do which I would say is reasonable behaviour unless you promised you would do something that day with her.
Very logical but perhaps in her world you doing that meant you donât like her as much anymore so the âargumentsâ are to try to get you to care more.
Women: X means Y
Men: X causes Y
as the OG David Snyder teaches. Again I could be completely off the mark and arenât the best person to âdiagnoseâ the problem but just something to consider perhapsâŚ
Best of luck!
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Hahahahaha
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I canât speak for bombayduck, and please correct me if Iâm wrong, but Heartsong doesnât have self love. You need to love yourself before you can love another. Heartsong doesnât have self confidence. You need self confidence to be with a woman. Heartsong doesnât have verbal allure. You need to be comfortable and smooth talking to women. Heartsong doesnât have sexual stamina and imprinting. You need to be able to satisfy a woman in bed and have her coming back for more. WB has those things.
The only thing is itâs focused on attracting a harem instead of the love of your life. This might be challenging on the subconscious if you have insecurities and difficulties attracting just one woman let alone hoards of them. This is why Iâve been asking @AnswerGroup for a title like WB, but instead of attracting sex youâre attracting love or the love of your life like HS.
Besides WB, is there any other title that has been mentioned more on this thread than HS? I would need to run HS, LBFH, Ascension, SMX, S&S, and who knows what else just to do what a Heartsong version of WB would do. Thatâs too many titles and a kitchen-sink custom.
Not everyone is like Invictus. Not everyone has a flow factor that can accept all of those cores. Not everyone gets results from running just one loop. Not everyone has the time and patience to run all of those titles just so they can accomplish what WB does. Thatâs why WB is so appealing. It has everything in one title.
@AnswerGroup @SaintSovereign @Fire Can you please acknowledge this concern? Can we or will we get a title like WB that is more catered to HS? I know this is the STKS era and youâre all about surprises these days, but man give us something. I am patiently waiting for the King to Speak on this.
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