Stick with wanted black and/or try Heartsong, you may get what you’re looking for. I know I did
(No dating apps needed)
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Sending a bro hug your way
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I’m surprised by the quick reaction I’ve had to this post, and the support I’ve received so quickly.
I mentioned how I hadn’t felt this low in over 2 years but the biggest difference between the these 2 moments is that I had no one 2 years ago, whereas today that one post led to so many people lending me their love, support and advice. Thank you all, truly.
I’m still hurt, I’m still in pain emotionally, but I feel a bit better thanks to you guys. I want to keep running Wanted Black because it’s exposed to me a huge self-image problem that I need to drastically rvise ASAP, as I’ve had 4 people within the span of this week tell me how I need to stop pedestalizing everyone else around me. This isn’t a coincidence, and is probably one of the greatest sources of my lifelong mental health struggles.
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I’m really excited on Rebirth getting upgraded to the newest tech. I think almost all of us struggle with deep self-image/identity crises at least once per lifetime. Especially when changing as fast as it is possible thanks to STKS.
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Sounds like you stumbled upon some real stuff with your run of WB.
Strongest thing you can do is own that pain and be open about it. I think we’ve all been there man. This shit it tough, but it’s even tougher going it alone.
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If it helps, Heartsong helps me get over this exact recon that WB gives, especially when used With WB
Made me a lot more attractive too, because now, I’m both fboy and hubby (or potential)
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Bro, Would you call yourself a Mr. Nice guy?
Oh, man, oh, boy. You will feel a thousand folds more terrible if you do what you keep doing, now that you know how it is, and I’m certain that you were already aware of how it is beforehand, not as if its a newfound revelation. In fact, I bet my left ancestral gem that you’d end up hating yourself and lead a miserable life if you were to just bow your head down and do what everyone else is doing just because thats what everyone else is doing. I mean, if you keep doing what you’re doing, which is doing what almost everyone else is doing, you’d only get what they’re getting, which is zilch.
You date and meet many other women, or whatever it is you fancy, to know what you like and what you dislike. To know what you want aboard your life, and what empty weight to throw off the plank.
Please don’t 
Those apps are not where you’re going to find what you’re looking for. They’re for smashing 
and guess whose pic they’re gonna swipe right on. In fact, some higher ups behind the scenes from those apps said that the percentile of men that get swiped right are miserably low.
Listen, its tough, I get it. Doesn’t mean it will always be so. It will always be so if you remain in that state, and sounds like you want change, desire it, crave it and reject the otherwise meritocracy.
Women will come, don’t worry about that. They’re freaking everywhere, man. In fact, we’re out numbered, hahaha.
For now, place their priority in the back burner. Start, if you aren’t already, I apologize, I have been off for a long while and haven’t been snooping around the clubs’ journals; start adding more activities in your life, whatever outside hobbies you have and try out new ones, you never know. Start lifting weights if you aren’t already, you really have to get a nice physique, what if that girl that you’re supposed to connect with is nearby but you didn’t arouse an interest, they’re not blessed with a seer’s soul glare, and you’d need something to attract the crowds, you;re gonna want to get physical anyway. Plus the unbelievably amazing benefits to your whole system that it carries with it. Find a martial arts that you enjoy and join a dojo/club, that human connection can also come from other men, and it might be the connection that you truly need; you’re not gonna want to splurge out all of your emotion on the poor girl 
she ain’t mama lol. Whatever activities you’d enjoy, however much silly you might think it is at first. Doesn’t have to be just action based, could be creative as well, the whole canvas is yours, so are the brushes, the paints, the paper dishes where you pour the pain onto, the gesso for the canvas, the easel, everything, except for Bob Ross, I have him booked and the queue is long.
They’ll all build character, help you out socializing, they’re great places for dates when the times comes and you set them (always go with action dates when feasible) and overall makes you more desirable. You’ll be the one swiping left.
Lastly, seriously, give yourself a break, you’d be surprised how uncommon it is for guys just to feel and realize what you’re going through. Its just a single phase that will pass and you’ll emerge better than before, a subtle metamorphosis if you will 
Just keep going, head high, shoulders back and chest out, man. That cycle of misery that you were talking about, the rinse, wash and repeat, is insufferable so keep doing something about it until its not. You’re 28, you haven’t even peaked yet. KEEP TAKING ACTION, you are alive.
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The Subliminal Bloom
From the way I’m having the John Wingless Experience, it seems as his character is cultivated a lot in the background through my colleagues. I planted the intention of being J.W. the Wanted man, and gradually we built the pressure up to doing that.
- Style updates.
- Grooming updates, which I pointed out, many forum users and I that were running Wanted Black all got a haircut in mass synchronicity.
- A very challenging physical training regimen with my group.
All that process really sucked, but I see the residual effects and the picture the subliminal is painting, even after I move on from it.
Those fundamental tweaks combined with the physical shifting, and I’m loving the change in physique and strength.
Even during my low times, I got a massive uptick in respect from my social group.
I’m on a new cycle of Genesis, GLM:TC, and Stark now and may rotate one of those for Wanted Black. Wanted Black is blooming right now and I’ll integrate the new.
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So my wife insisted I should go see her accypuncture therapist for general well being, so I decided sure why not. When I reach there, I went Holy Smokes! She’s gorgeous!!! Okay, I go in and after the general meet and greet I get a compliment on my jumper. No big deal, many people get a basic compliments on what they’re wearing. Then I was pulling my sleeves up for her to be able to stick needles on my forearms and thats when I get “Wow! You’ve got a Beauuuutiful muscle tone”. Now that’s when my Wingliss sense tingled and I was like oh this isn’t normal. Long story short, we ended up having an absolutely amazing conversation during the treatment, mostly philosophical but very interesting and I got a hug when I was leaving.
The best thing about this sub is that I just have to be myself!
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Hey man! I’ve been through what you’re going through and what helped me was the revelation that magnetism and charm doesn’t come from chasing people or things, it comes from a belief in self and finding comfort in solitude. Once that happens, wherever you go, you’re in a trance of your own passion and bliss for life that you act as a beacon that attracts people towards you.
Find a purpose if you don’t have one, find some hobby if you don’t have one, try to be in the flow and be authentic and meet people in the flesh. Let your presence, body language, aura, speech and everything about you do the trick, don’t rely on dating apps.
As far as your recon goes, what helped me during recon was just getting out of my mind and taking a few deep breaths and just accepting the feeling for what it was, that feeling soon changes once you acknowledge and accept it. Learn to be instead of resisting.
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I have a sense that WB is guiding me toward finding ways to heal and develop my masculinity.
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Funny some of the guys on here talk about haircuts. I’m pretty much the opposite route, embracing my longer hair more.
I’m less James Bond smooth refined gentleman on this and more rogue artist aesthetic. Been thinking about saying screw it and finally add onto my tattoo. Possibly have it run down my arm. I’ve always been like “what if they don’t want to hire me?” My first and only tattoo was gonna be on my forearm but I chickened out because of societal pressure and got it on my shoulder. The plan was always to keep adding as I reached achievements in my life and I’m overdue.
Definitely some refinement in how I come across though. Still trying to find my own expression.
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im the vp of sales for saas company and i have full arm sleeves, leg sleeves, and torso. no one cares about that stuff anymore
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So I’ve heard. Had a ton of people in my life tell me while growing up I would be unemployable lol
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Does WB have anything in it for cold reading or generally reading people @answer_group ?
Because its SO EASY for me to read my wife now.
We’ve been “fighting” (her being pissed) for the last days because I decided to spend time alone on Sunday, and I see through all the bs.
All the lies, manipulation, and games she’s playing to get her way.
Which doesn’t work anymore.
It’s obvious af what’s going on.
Also, WB doesn’t actively ruin your relationship, but I see why it’s dangerous in LTRs. Because you suddenly clearly see what’s TRULY going on lol
The funny thing is. I am not mad at her.
I am in abundance. I am fine, but I am also not taking shit from anyone anymore.
Interesting revelation though:
Do you guys tell your girl any single purchase you make?
This is basically what came out after those 4 days, when she said she feels like she is never asked about anything in the marriage. What I do with the house, bills, etc.
Now, I might be traditional there but I keep this away from her intentionally, so she can focus on other things.
However, I remember a masculinity guru once saying, “If your wife has no agency over her life or anything in the marriage, rest assured, she will use the agency she has to not have sex with you.”
To me, her claim seems like an excuse, because she’s free to whatever the fuck she wants with her life, I never stopped her from anything, and small purchases, I don’t see why I would mention this.
Or even repairing the fucking heating in the house. I just went and had it fixed by myself. She was pissed because I didn’t call someone to do it.
This kinda shit.
Still, curious how you guys do it.
On another note, there ARE a bunch of hot girls popping up everywhere
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You mean the power dynamics become visible to you just like the code to Neo in Matrix?
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Im in a samilar boat like you and i think i will
Add heartsong to the stack after this washout
Not that obvious but it’s just easily noticeable.
For example she wanted to talk yesterday and brought up a bunch of things. While that happened my heart was pumping.
I was confused why.
Then after I didn’t budge and she realized it it all came forth. She didn’t actually want to talk. Just wanted me to budge with tricks.
After I realized that my heart went to normal again.
So my body told me.
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Such a surreal sub. Every time I look in the mirror even when I just wake up… you handsome devil…. Awesome stuff
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Yooo @AlexanderGraves I’ve never been in a longer term relationship.
Mine is a year long and we are sometime discussing innapropriate behaviors on her part when she is snappy or acting wierd because she lives frustration or different negatives emotions.
Negative emotions can make them act a bit out of line sometime, and as long as it doesn’t cross certain lines, I believe it’s possible to talk about specific behaviors.