Rogue
module helped me tons with this.
If I were you, running WB (or else) as major, I´d consider name embedding this one with it.
Other modules may play into it too, but from the few loops I had from my Custom with At the Top and Rogue Focus, I feel it helping massively to the point where I had an (unrelated) discussion with relatives, where they mentioned that I am “violent” in my communication (something I´ve been accused of for years now) and me stating outright that I will not continue taking responsibility for how people feel or think about objective statements of mine.
0 sense of being emotionally “triggered”, feeling guilty for setting this boundary whatsoever, just the realization that I am simply unable and unwilling to overcompensate for other peoples insecurities that they refuse to adress.
All this wasn´t me actively intending to set boundaries either, it was a subconscious perceptual shift that resulted in me understanding what´s healthy for me (and by extension for the people around me), what I require in my life, having the words almost flowing by themselves, in a calm and self assured manner.
