Look for when the legs move past the ears.
Edit: Happy to remove if not approriate
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@SaintSovereign what do you think about New Wanted + Alchemist:Singularity ? My gut feeling says it would be a broken stack of only 2
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I know I’m asking this for the third time but will try again…
What is the balance to strike between approaching and letting her approach?
Hey Michel, I can’t remember the previous posts you mentioned, but I’ll have a go at answering the question.
I suspect one of the reasons why you might not have received a response is simply that it’s one of those ‘how long is a piece of string’ type questions lol. There’s so many variables which could influence the answer.
For example, you could completely cold approach someone simply because you like and find them attractive. They might not have even noticed you.
And in such cases, there’s still the decision about whether to go indirect or super-direct.
I’ve done both and gotten some successes and some failures.
And with regards to striking a balance between approaching and letting her approach, it’s again a kind of ‘how far are you willing to go’ sort of question.
For example, if you have subtle indications of interest from the other person (that may still be open to interpretation), are you comfortable just going in and starting a conversation?
In the spirit of new Wanted, you could simply just wait for occasions where the girl actively approaches you and is clearly showing interest.
Indeed, to some extent with Wanted, maybe not going around opening people or showing any indications of interest in others yourself might align with the tone of the Sub, and serve to make you more ‘wanted’ and have more people approaching you!
But I guess the most moderate and high-probability answer would be, when someone is directly approaching or opening you, or deliberately brushing up against you or showing other indications of interest (IOI’s) that are almost impossible to miss, go ahead and engage with them.
If that’s enough for you, or all that you feel comfortable doing right now, then no problem.
But there will be people who show IOI’s but are still too shy and/or socially conditioned to approach you or make any more overt signs of interest. In those cases, to get the maximum out of this Sub, you can approach them yourself. I believe the Sub includes scripting that helps you to adaptively learn and grow in your skills of approaching and seduction, and every interaction will thus be a learning experience.
Nonchalance should help you in trying not to worry about the outcome but simply to enjoy the process.
Hope some of this is helpful 
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Hi @RockyHandsome
You replaced Stark and Limitless with Wanted? How does it help you for your work?
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@Layman thank you, that was the super detailed answer I was looking for!
So the difference is really between just approaching without any prior indication and “helping things along” …?
I’m bad at helping things along when it comes to seduction, maybe because of little experience doing so in such a setting. But put me in a non high-stakes environment and there’s absolutely no problem engaging with desk staff, customers, random people when something funny happens. Maybe there’s a hangup from the friendzoned days that gets triggered?
Today there was a situation where a woman sitting opposite had a sticker underneath her shoe. Playing along, I pointed it out to her with my feet, which got a funny thank you. But then maybe I should have followed up with conversation… 
Don’t laugh, I’m a novice 
Could Wanted help with this?
Don’t worry, I’m far from an expert myself. I learned and practiced some PUA stuff years back, but since I don’t drink (no particular reason, just choose not to) and don’t like clubs and bars, I was always more drawn to ‘natural’ game or ‘daygame’.
And I think to some extent, it just boils down to just trying to make yourself happy and doing your best to live your best life.
That may sound trite or cliched, but my meaning is that so much of early PUA stuff was about memorising lines and routines (at least on the surface), but really it’s about becoming the kind of person who is Alpha, naturally socially adept, attractive and leading an attractive life generally.
And I think that the pursuit of those goals is a perfect activity to immerse yourself in, alongside running one or more of the subs here, since now you’d be doing exactly what is recommended and taking actions aligned with the purposes of the sub
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Also, to address this question, my impression of Wanted is that, whilst it will be great for someone who’s comfortable with both attention and approaching, it seems designed to be as accessible to beginners as possible, and designed also to ‘grow’ alongside the user, increasing results and complexity of concepts as you yourself progress.
So to answer your question in as succinct a way possible; ‘yes’ 
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That’s good to know. I shall let it play out.
Really this game of seduction is like learning a new language whilst learning to walk upright
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NB: I’m relatively new here so you might want to hold off on any decisions until more experienced members (or SaintSovereign or Fire) have given their responses!
What other Subs are you running (if any)?
And are you using customs or regular store titles?
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I’m using Wanted with GLM, both store bought titles. Was using Genesis: Joy for a half cycle too.
I’m awaiting a Name embedded WANTED + Perfection Manifestation to come through the mail on Monday, so that might help.
However if there was a need to address approaching (like Daredevil-style), which modules would add to that Wanted spice?
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It feels like they’ve already taken care of this with New Wanted, so there might be no need to add something like Panther, unless you really want to emphasize that aspect.
Am on the 7th or 8th loop of Wanted, and one thing I have really noticed is that even if I don’t see an IOI, I feel like there would no crippling hesitation to approach if needed. This is something new for me, as I have approached various people(like girls in the gym or employees) and not felt too much anxiety before doing so, and anything unhelpful that I felt I could control easily. As this is the opposite of what it had been like for me before, I can only conclude that this is related to this part of the scripting:
Notice this in the copy. And the reason it is in there is because there were many discussions here before about Wanted vs Primal(Seduction); you don’t need to wait to approach, it is practically up to you and your sensibilities to do what you want. If you feel that it’s right to approach, you will, and you will likely not think much of it. On other days, you might just be laid back and be open to approaches.
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Well, there’s Synergy: Secrets of Seduction, [Edit: but as @GoldenBird just said] I think this kind of scripted is already there in wanted. I think the new GLM is a terrific sub for you to run alongside Wanted.
It seems to me that something like Lovebomb (or possibly continuing with Genesis AoH&J) would be helpful in your case, as anything that boosts self-love and acceptance is going to help you with approach anxiety and also with simply experiencing being Wanted and being more and more comfortable with that, and owning it to an increasing degree
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One more tip to add is perhaps just try to approach people generally in daily life, in a non-seduction way?
It’s quite normal for me to just joke around with baristas, or other customers standing in a queue, or random people in the supermarket, train station etc. Just striking up conversations for nothing more than to simply connect in a positive way with other people.
This in itself should help you gain more social skills and, with time, help to reduce any anxiety about opening in a seduction-based situation.
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So does one get all of the modules/objectives in just 30 seconds of Wanted?
I do that and am quite comfortable doing that…when something unexpected or funny happens. But just speaking to people without an external prompt? Nope. Maybe I’m used to identifying as shy and keeping my mouth shut (talking = chatting back = bad). Ooh this is a sore point for me…
Sort of, yes.
Basically, the titles are constructed in a kind of fractal way, meaning that all the basic modules and topics are covered in that 30 seconds, but the longer the listening duration (e.g. 1min, 7mins), the more in-depth the scripting/teaching becomes.
And of course, you need to learn to walk before you can run. So it’s why we’re recommended to start with microloops and build up at a pace that is manageable to each individual, based on whether you are noticing recon along the way.
See this thread for lots of explanations and details from SaintSovereign:
https://www.subliminalresults.com/t/experimental-microloop-zpu-listening-instructions/26195/156
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This, exactly. When you do this, pay attention to your state and any part of your behavior you can remain conscious of while in the heat of it. I recently did this and noticed I was doing quite a few self-calming ticks such as massaging my own hands while talking or rubbing them together, and taught myself to relax with that. Eventually, you basically signal to your subconscious that it is okay, that this is nothing special or crazy as you might have imagined, which in turn makes you get closer to a relaxed, amused state.
The cool thing about these recent sub releases is that they feel so all-encompassing for what they specifically address that just the main store title or the name embedded major is more than enough for most people for long periods of time. At least for me, one year ago, I put much thought into crafting some huge 20 module custom because I assumed that either the title wasn’t doing all I wanted it to help with, or I felt I needed to combine certain things more to be satisfied. But now, this thought no longer occurs to me and even at 30s microloops, subs like GLM and Wanted feel like they not only cover everything I need, but also give more than I can even chew.
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So perhaps if you could try to gently start chatting to people (even just an opener about the weather, or something that catches your eye or whatever), then this would help you to start healing with regards to the issue you just mentioned?
Remember, a lot of people would welcome a bit of human interaction. You might just say something lame, but they actively engage with you and strike up a conversation. You might be pleasantly surprised
[Edit: I’m conscious of not wanting to derail the thread with such a specific topic; this would probably be best posted as a question in the official Questions section of the forum, where people can answer and share their experiences and advice]
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OG Wanted and Wanted Black has always gotten me good haircuts but with New Wanted I feel like I got the best haircut in a good while. A friend I haven’t seen in a lil over a month says I look brighter too since she last saw me. Btw shortly after starting New Wanted I trimmed my beard and took a lot of length off and it looks better now than when it was longer.
Lost a few pounds and started working out again. Yoga, Pilates and weight lifting to build an all around strong body.
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