I am extremely introverted and have a very serious demeanor. I think a lot before I act or speak. I am also quite studious and love reading and learning new things. I also dislike small talk and communicate to the point.
I am thinking Wanted + Limitless + Emperor: Art of War to be more in line with my personality.
Or maybe Wanted + Inner Circle + True Social to help me crawl out of my shell.
I can attest to this stack. I’ve been running something similar for months now, with WB instead and only recently with Wanted (still prefer WB).
If you are a dreamer, a visionary, a creative, a hopeless romantic, or an artistical spirit; then this is the combo you want.
Not much female attention today (I think), but I did approach one girl at the gym and proposed exchanging info towards the end of the convo to which she declined, but she seemed totally comfortable/smiley and kept shaking my hand lol… approached another woman after the gym with a canned opener and she was smiling and kinda giggling uncontrollably while I talked to her lol.
@SaintSovereign @Fire I have mentioned about recommended stacks of Wanted before, but the post got lost. Could you spend time to come up what is good to complement Wanted for each archetype?
I asked for recommended stack before because I know each user has their own ZeroPoint to choose their stack, and their stack won’t be suitable for other users.
Plus because Wanted is recently updated, most of the posts are hyped (maybe wrong word) and fast because active users are eager to try and test to see how New Wanted is.
In 1 way, their are reviews and results of New Wanted sharing, however after awhile there are certain users keep sharing own results all over this thread and have a bias view of how Wanted should be for other users. It is obviously not good to the point you jump in and write this post.
So again, could spend time and come up with recommended stack for Wanted?
Much thank
lol I hope I don’t fit that description. I just post what happens to me and other people might have totally different experiences.
So far these
Thank you.
I think in the longterm the following romance stack would fit me well:
WANTED + Stark Black + KHAN Black + Inner Circle + my own natural very spiritual personality (for which I don’t need to run a ZP title for)
(with the long term goal of replacing WANTED with either WANTED Black or Heartsong)
What archetype would that get me?
That idea to later switch to WB or HS is because I want either the experience of being a male 10 (wanted, famous and desired), or, be together with my super-ideal soulmate (not sure if this can happen, since there is infinite growth to do on myself first before I can manifest someone alike, which means HS will trigger eternal recon).
Why not PS or SSX? Because I am too lazy to proactively seduce and too impatient for doing that activity.
Why not KHAN? KHAN is nice and I like its status boost, boldness and dominance, but I would already have 4 titles in the stack above and dominance and status is also covered by ASBR.
Why not Love Bomb? Something I could run forever but my stack above already has 4 titles in it…
Why not GLM? I see GLM only as a necessary foundation builder for the really cool stuff afterwards. Being masculine is not the end goal but just a means to the end on the way to better things. Embodying masculine traits is just a tool for my soul.
Why not RotNW or PN? Stack above is already full… 
Why not True Social or Daredevil? Inner Circle and ASBR have enough social skills for me, everything else is redundant.
What do you think?
Is this all too much cope and just an unhealed need for being seen?
And therefore instead, I only need to run Love Bomb forever?
Because as Luther once said, the paradox of wanting to be wanted is what prevents one from actually becoming wanted in the first place…
Thanks in advance.
I have this thinking too.
The risk in waiting until you feel perfectly ready is that you could spend your entire life chasing some ideal level of growth, never allowing yourself the chance to actually meet and grow with that person.
And given that, I’m trying to ditch this kind of thinking that I gotta be evoled/healed/highest version before I can meet my soulmate.
For me it’s always Khan+
New Wanted &/or Wanted Black
Tap into the feeling of having the reality where you are with that
Is that the actual pinnacle of human experience for you?
Does this JCDenton still desire to make the
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If you´d had to chose, right now, without overthinking, would you go for that perfect soulmate?
Would being desired, wanted and pursued by others still matter to you?
To the same degree?
How much?
Why?
Or is it cope for feeling unable to manifest “the one”, the sense of lack for not having that authentic, honest, spiritual, understanding, deep, loyal, loving, intense, passionate connection that you seek?
I think that´s the actual underlying question for you, and once you´re clear on that, chosing the subs that work most effectively for your Zero Point should be alot easier.
Yeah, I would choose that soulmate option.
And with that being desired, wanted and pursued by others would no longer be as relevant anymore, merely a nice-to-have and maybe for business opportunities and that’s it.
This is a good point.
Thank you, I will reflect on that.
Lately I’ve been pondering what it would be like if that perfect soulmate wandered into my life right now?
How would I actually respond to that?
Also why do I want that soulmate so badly?
Is it because I’m lonely? Do I want her to save me from myself and make the pain of not being chosen go away?
Would she even love me as I am now?
My therapist, in response to my apparent desperation for someone to love me, suggested I shift my perception and focus towards preparing myself and my life for that soulmate to enter it.
Become the man who can instantly add value to her life when we finally meet, instead of the one desperately waiting for her to save him from his own lack of love.
Build a life full of purpose, satisfaction, mission, love, joy, drive, and a zest for living, to the point that I am ecstatic to finally meet her because I know she’ll be an amazing addition rather than the fix that makes the pain stop.
That’s why I listen to Wanted, tbh. Not for the sly glances, but so I feel Wanted in my bones for my own self
Synchronicity, I was just thinking of my “dream lover” like 15 minutes ago and wondering what she would even be like. Not long ago I would’ve probably not known, but now I do, I have a much clearer picture of what she would look like and what she would be like.
Lol I was asking myself this too tonight. For me the answer is yeah she would, and would support me in whatever I’m doing 
I might add also start behaving as you would if you had her.
I think mine would too, but I’d feel weird not having it all together for her.
Maybe that’s a limiting belief
The recon with New Wanted seems gone for now. It did something major, which i’ll cover in more detail in another post
My issue with New Wanted: I couldn’t perform. With WB my appeal spiked and built momentum. Small wins, attention, and signs created a snowball I could feel.
New Wanted? Nothing. Just “I Am the prize. Full stop.” No buildup. No presence.
I struggled hard, like everything I used to lean on was now backfiring. And i was drinking so much water its crazy. But I’m starting to break free. I was just able to embrace being the prize, at my most basic, boring & least preforming self… something magical happened
I was out with a friend in town in the evening. People seemed way more open to me, a couple of 2 old ladies asked me to take a pic of them within half a second of seeing me.
Later at night i went to the only club open in my small town which wasn’t a restaurant. It was next to lifeless since it’s the weekend before pay-day weekend. I was sitting comfortably feeling the vibe and i get approached by a group of 4 girls. One sat next to me and opened with ” could you do a tiktok with us? ”
I asked what it was about and politely rejected while continuing to talk to the main one hitting on me. She gave me doe eyes throughout, kept mentioning how single she is compared to her friends, talked about what made her unique and we vibed very very well.
The more time went on, the more she was touching me. We kissed for a while but resumed talking and vibing with an intensely emotional yet sexual energy. Her friends came back 20 min later and i take her insta. I was the nprize who got approached, she did 90% of the work and i was fully immersed & enjoyed every second of it
What about
Khan+ Wanted
or Khan + Wanted+ True Social?
I feel Khan is my natural archetype, with Wanted /Wanted Black a close second.
It gets a weird reputation, but Khan is the pinnacle of success, with discipline, oozing sexuality that has power, and a love of life in full. It’s executive, it’s sexual, it’s creative, it creates without permission, it has the chosen one and the one who chooses vibe. I feel so at home at Khan. It’s that mix of complete commitment to ambition with totally being, totally being one’s own and happy where one is.
I’ve learned to blend with Stark, ASBR , and would love to get better with Primal Seduction and Primal Romance Archetypes in the future.
Look for when the legs move past the ears.
Edit: Happy to remove if not approriate
@SaintSovereign what do you think about New Wanted + Alchemist:Singularity ? My gut feeling says it would be a broken stack of only 2
I know I’m asking this for the third time but will try again…
What is the balance to strike between approaching and letting her approach?
Hey Michel, I can’t remember the previous posts you mentioned, but I’ll have a go at answering the question.
I suspect one of the reasons why you might not have received a response is simply that it’s one of those ‘how long is a piece of string’ type questions lol. There’s so many variables which could influence the answer.
For example, you could completely cold approach someone simply because you like and find them attractive. They might not have even noticed you.
And in such cases, there’s still the decision about whether to go indirect or super-direct.
I’ve done both and gotten some successes and some failures.
And with regards to striking a balance between approaching and letting her approach, it’s again a kind of ‘how far are you willing to go’ sort of question.
For example, if you have subtle indications of interest from the other person (that may still be open to interpretation), are you comfortable just going in and starting a conversation?
In the spirit of new Wanted, you could simply just wait for occasions where the girl actively approaches you and is clearly showing interest.
Indeed, to some extent with Wanted, maybe not going around opening people or showing any indications of interest in others yourself might align with the tone of the Sub, and serve to make you more ‘wanted’ and have more people approaching you!
But I guess the most moderate and high-probability answer would be, when someone is directly approaching or opening you, or deliberately brushing up against you or showing other indications of interest (IOI’s) that are almost impossible to miss, go ahead and engage with them.
If that’s enough for you, or all that you feel comfortable doing right now, then no problem.
But there will be people who show IOI’s but are still too shy and/or socially conditioned to approach you or make any more overt signs of interest. In those cases, to get the maximum out of this Sub, you can approach them yourself. I believe the Sub includes scripting that helps you to adaptively learn and grow in your skills of approaching and seduction, and every interaction will thus be a learning experience.
Nonchalance should help you in trying not to worry about the outcome but simply to enjoy the process.
Hope some of this is helpful