I was wondering if there are more foundational titles that deal with such issues about sexuality. Only one I can think of is Khan or Khan Black.
Yeah religious conditioning has been embedded deeply in a vast amount of people, even if one has never been anywhere close to religion and has nothing to do with it.
I found RotNW very strong for pure sexual confidence.
So a perfect stack for this could be Wanted + KB St1 + RotNW
Stacking The New GLM with any seduction title might help. It really gives you this I don’t care what anyone thinks, I’m gonna do what I want to do attitude.
Primal but I’d also say the sexual titles like PN and RotNW
Primal for me did as it says and releases the chains
I ran PN for 4 odd months and it permanently increased my overall confidence in regards to sex. Also, got rid of a lot of insecurities as well
What PN results did you get in the bedroom as it’s more so for sex etc
umm…quite a lot now that I think about it. I’m pretty sure I got a lot of healing from it in terms of whether I’m good enough performance wise, penis size etc.
It also really altered my style of having sex, from a tender loving way to a much much rougher and faster style. Think hardcore pounding after plenty of foreplay
Sex was almost bdsm like, more toys were involved (paddles, straps to the bed, butt plugs), orgasms were stronger for her. More kinks were explored (hardcore spanking etc). Probably would have ventured into threesomes if I was still with her
I’m pretty sure PN was pushing me to learn sex techniques at the time as well from videos and courses. So, I was continually learning for a while. Probably would have ventured into tantra if I continued with it
Her orgasms started getting so strong that she would keep asking how I’d do the things I was doing. She would mention a lot that they were the best orgasms of her life. I was able to start chaining them together as well one after the other
So yesterday I was at a party and I kissed a co worker.
Now I kind of don’t want to run Wanted anymore, why do I even want sexual attraction? Why do I even want attention from ladies?
I just feel shame now.
Full on the lips? Were both parties drunk?
You say you feel shame, for the act happening or self shame? Why do you want sexual attraction? Only you know that answer to that one.
Hey man it’s OK and it happens to me too after I have a sexual encounter with a woman, particularly if it’s my co worker or a friend or basically a girl I’ve known for some time and sex happened all of a sudden.
I still don’t quite get why I feel shame about it but just letting you know you’re not alone in this and you don’t have to stop WANTED. Try to understand why you feel shame about it - that’s what I’m trying to do as well
Interesting, I haven’t done any sex yet so I have nothing to “feel shame” over, maybe that’s why I unconsciously sabotage myself, fear of feeling shame?… but then I feel jealous and fear that I’m wasting my youth etc. fuck lol.
I think the shame is essentially stepping from breaking your own inner rule as in I am a professional person, I don’t have sex around where I work or if she is a friend you may feel you have crossed the boundary as a friend.
Full on with the tongue, we both were drunk, I think I almost fucked her with clothes on while kissing her lmao.
I feel shame because everyone from work saw this, also I feel shame because I think she is not on my level.
If it was just a regular kiss it would have been less shameful but it was very sexual and intense and I don’t want people to me like this, should happen only in private.
But I also don’t real care, it’s weird that I both don’t care and feel shame, I also feel disgusted that I kissed her because I don’t find her attractive at all.
Also day after that happened I seem to be much more social, relaxed, confident, authentic etc at work, maybe the healing effect from being with a female on Wanted.
Edit: I think it’s was a good transformative experience, will keep using Wanted.
Apparently that’s a big thing in the US
like it’s a massive taboo (and a sackable offence). Maybe that’s where the shame is coming from?
I’m in the UK and work in a professional setting where I know of at least two colleagues who not only have had sex, but also live together and have children. Is it awkward? Maybe when there’s a power imbalance between colleagues, but I guess we’re trusted to remain professional (plus people aren’t stupid).
So, maybe what “society” says and what humans do naturally don’t always line up. I personally don’t align with the “don’t shit where you eat” edict (Hunter Hearst Helmsley is in trouble
). Also sex is sex - if you don’t like the person you bumped hips with, then just chalk it up to a learning experience. Would you care who gave you a fat stack of dollar bills?
Actually in my country it’s not taboo, it’s ok if you work in an office and even more acceptable in my job, I work as a waiter in a restaurant and most of the waiters are between the ages of 20-26 so it’s even kind of encourage, there are many couples in the restaurant.
I just feel shame because of how intense and sexual the kiss was and how public it was, also I feel shame because the girl is below my standards and usually I date more beautiful girls.
I also made her understand that we were just both drunk and nothing will be between us, I think she would like it to be but I’m not interested.
Did your female coworker initiate and just go wild?
Yes, I think it’s a bit absurd here how something so natural is stigmatized. Many times, it’s frowned upon and in the worst scenario grounds for discipline or dismissal. The problem usually happens at management level.
I think we just danced together and we got closer and closer mutually and I kissed her and we both went wild.
I think, I drank so much I barley remember.
Energetically you may be a real match, or she may genuinely be attracted to you.
She is attracted to me I’m just not attracted to her
Lol I felt the same kind of shame when I would kiss my first gf in high school in front of people. Since then, I try not to PDA (public display of affection), like every girl since then I do nothing in public with except hug maybe.
Sounds like the sexual shame you mentioned earlier in the thread bro
If she’s already yours, why feel scared of showing her love, affection, and desire? Even in public