Y’all are making this too complicated.
Try a few different romance titles. See which one works best with you.
Unless you definitely want to become a certain someone. Then run that sub but be ready for more recon 
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Me reading this thread:
This is all too complicated. Let me run SSX with WB and see what happens.
I think the two can synergize well in an unexpected way.
WB is getting NRE treatment for sure, but have they stated it that it will also get NWE treatment? 
Saint did
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This statement begs for unpacking. (When you have time.)
Is it that you don’t believe that narratives are organized around patterns of genre and trope?
Or is it that you don’t believe that human minds are organized around narratives?
Or is it something else entirely?
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It is meant fairly narrowly: I don’t think what the subs do is push you towards sone archetype. The objectives of WB for example are what they are, they are not turn someone into James abond or John Wingliss. I prefer this theory of subs:
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Got it.
So how I read this is:
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You prefer to pragmatically focus on specific developmental objectives and to leave the rest of the picture to sort itself out; and
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When it comes to archetypes, you reject the notion of conforming to Static, Fixed, Ready-Made formulae that are externally imposed upon one’s mind by the subliminal program.
This relationship to Archetype seems to be well-aligned with the Unfolding, Free-will approach that increasingly characterizes the programs here.
It seems, to me, less a disbelief in Archetype than an affirmation of the immanence and internally-generated aspects of Archetype.
(But that’s also me translating things into my preferred terms.)
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I guess you refer to things like Jungian archetypes. I don’t know enough about that to form a solid opinion.
Irrespective of that, I think the subs allow for much more individuality snd variety than they offen receive credit for.
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(or at least a mechanism of effect similar to that described by Jung. In other words, archetypes as comprising the structural latticework around which my personality and our social forms develop.)
and, again,
I agree
(I suspect that, in general, a person’ll be allotted just as much individual freedom and variety as they insist upon. One who abdicates personal choice and freedom will always find tons of voices ready to provide ‘answers’ and who are quite happy to make the decisions one has opted to avoid.)
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There is no reason why you cant run WB once a week and continue running SSX on a regular basis.
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@AnswerGroup how would SSX stack with RoS?
I know the RoS pro-tips say it likely won’t stack well with a seduction title, but since the NRE is basically the unfolding concept applied to romance, I am wondering if this might actually be quite a synergistic stack?
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When is PS getting its upgrade ?
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The following objective of SSX:
“Elimination of self-doubt, bolstering your confidence in any romantic or sensual setting”
How does the script work to reach this goal? Is that considered a little healing in the title?
I had many memories of past failed romantic experiences, from the distant past, so I wondered if it was SSX who was acting up, and if he was using those experiences to heal me.
Through the NRE’s positive manifestations. As you have more and positive experiences, you’ll let go of the past.
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So I microloop this title once or twice a week just to see what it would do and honestly I have had some really good growth.
- So I have this coworker that has feelings for me and when I started working at this job I will admit I was attracted to her and went out for a drink with her and then idk I just lost feelings I guess so I decided to no longer pursue. Long story short over the course of a few months she still clearly has feelings for me and while I am friendly with her, I don’t flirt with her for obvious reasons to the point where the manager had to lie about something about me (she had my blessing) to get her over me, and it worked…until it didn’t. Anyways about a week ago I started to talk to someone new, nothing crazy just getting to know each other and somehow she found out about it. She confronted our other coworker about it (also my close friend) and is basically not happy about it. I mean it’s her problem but it is annoying the shit out of me but I’m on my way out anyways.
Now here is where the real result comes in….her behavior towards me is the same behavior that I have exhibited my whole life towards women that I fall for and now that it’s being done to me, I know now just how suffocating I can be and have been and ngl that is a hard pill to swallow. I’m taking this as a realization and using it grow and mature, and GLM is helping tremendously in this regard as well! I’m actually very happy with this result.
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Speaking of talking to someone it’s goin pretty well, and it kinda correlates with point 1. Her and I are kinda in the same boat in regards that we are both very busy and dating is a challenge. Basically it’s just getting to know each other and have no expectations on outcomes and tbh it’s really nice. In a weird way I see this as training for my recent realization lol it is a bit of a struggle but this is the easiest time I have had with my co dependency or whatever it is and I’m happy with that.
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For the love of god don’t shit where you eat unless both of you are mature. I literally just had a drink with her, and look at point 1 lol and I didn’t even go into full details
While I haven’t gotten crazy romance results (yet 
) I will say that for only running a few microloops I feel that it’s putting me into a direction of growing into a much emotionally healthier version of my self. Thank you SubClub
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How long do you listen?
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30secs - 1:30 with any sub I microloop btw not just this title
I mainly just follow my intuition tbh. That post was all from yesterdays loop and I believe it was 1:30
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Wondering how’s everyone experiences with microloop?
Like 1 mins, 3 mins, 5 mins, vs original 15 mins.
How did the experience differ? Which gives the best results?
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I had a great sexual happening the other day, but I cannot really discern if it was S&S, because it happened a day before. Might’ve been presults, or my Stark QTKS.
Anyway, outside of that, the biggest thing for me is the ABSOLUTE acceptance of myself and what I want.
Sexually, as well as with the direction of my life.
For example, I always was a judgmental bastard. And for the longest time I thought I should change that, its not a good thing and all that.
Today I realized, its just who I am. Its a part of me.
And the best thing, some people DO LIKE it because I always gave it a funny spin.
Might sound weird, but it feels absolutely right.
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Ok, there is some recon going on.
Right now I feel like I should just “give up” on chasing her all the time.
It’s the kind of childish “well, you dont suck me dick, so I dont talk to you” red pill bs.
It’s more from a position of abundance and, “I cant force her, if she doesnt want to, I focus on other things.”
But its also a bit of a painful progress because I FEEL like some feelings are dying out or my heart is closing. Maybe its literally just recon right now, but I am honestly not interested in pursuing her anymore. I have tried for 5 years now. There were ups and downs, and especially OG Wanted testing phase had some REALLY hot moments, but like, this is stealing so much energy from me all the time with a REALLY bad ROI in terms of what she does.
I feel like this might be me letting go of my neediness.
Then again, right now I feel like I should run Wanted again. Not even from a sexual position, but because its good for my streaming business. Maybe I am lying to myself there.
I am not considering a divorce here, I am just giving up on constantly chasing her. I am not even being mean to her or anything.
Maybe this was better fitted in my journal haha, but I feel like those are deep insights from S&S.
Or am I trippin?
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