Some people experiencing similar things with Wanted, does not necessarily means thats a Wanted feature or lack of. More often than not those experiences are really speaking about the person having them.
On the other hand people who likes to pursue/seduce or want to learn more about it, have titles like PS, specifically tailored for that. Wanted is for people who like to attract, thats a different style of personality, each title presuppose a different set of skills to be there in order for that sub to yield better results.
Now, the beauty of customs is that you can still make a Wanted custom and consider modules like Panther, Secrets of Seduction, etc.
I used to really vibe with Wanted because it mirrored the idea that I had about myself, later on I realized that Wanted kept me in the comfort zone, helped me attract women, but never pulled the trigger, not because of Wanted, but because of my own issues.
Now Im doing Daredevil and also EmpD and talking to women is no longer an issue for me… What has become an “issue”, yet a good one, is finding one thats worthy of my time.
One of the bigger lessons since I began using SC products was and still is, to be very aware of what it is that I need to learn and develop, in order to achieve what I want and look for a sub that specifically helps with that. Before I was selecting subs that matched what I wanted, but without any awareness of the blind spots in myself, even though I was pretty sure I was very aware of them.
You know Emotions and Ideas vs Evidence and Facts when it comes to make decisions.