Yes, I’m a very sensitive guy.
I get disruptive recon with 5s loops.
Yes, I’m a very sensitive guy.
I get disruptive recon with 5s loops.
Lol takes me at least 30sec when i put play to get into comfortable position to start listening with focus
Intoxicating
I’m going to reply here since the topic has changed from talking about Ascension to talking about PS. For anyone new to this conversation, please follow the link in the quoted text to understand it.
So you mean that I should go and ask for directions, or leave the phone in the car and ask what time is it?
One thing I normally do for practicing approaching, but I don’t consider that really “cold approaching”, is to go to shops which have something I’m looking to buy (ex: clothes) and ask for help to the women there or tell them what I’m looking for and start a conversation from there.
There are lot of approaches you can do, maybe check some youtube stuff.
I am sure some of the ways will sit right with you and easier to be executed.
You can start slow like this at first and keep adding more stuff into the conversation till you get a phone number or two…
Even the rejection happens reframe it as a learning tool and start the grind More you step out of your comfort zone the more your horizon expands…
Magic words, this is really what I should do…
Good luck brother.
I’ve been reading on this thread and can’t understand exactly what is a reality bubble.
Is it a moment where you are so connected with the person you are seducing that it looks like you both get inside a bubble and isolated from the rest of the world?
I think it’s more the feeling the two get inside their “bubble”, it’s a little reality within reality. A little reality apart from the world, just you and them.
This sounds like it would be an exceptional Q module, especially if you were some kind of performing artist
I’ve been interacting with women at the gym (and other places like coffee shops) with my body language, but my instinct tells me to not talk to them, unless I already know them for some time.
Now my question is: is this because I just listened to 2 loops so far, or because I’m stacking PS with Ascension?
I say this because without using subs I’m naturally a social and playful guy, but when I started using Ascension I started behaving in a mysterious way and being very quiet. Ascension has helped me develop my mysterious, stoic, and keep calm side, and that is a good thing, because now I can use that side of me when it’s useful, but that is not who I really am and I don’t want to be that guy that behaves like a secret agent. I see myself more like Leonardo DiCaprio in the Wolf of Wall Street (without using drugs and prostitutes of course ).
bro just be however you wanna be. You run PS so you don’t have to care about anything. Just be playful, the sub is dynamic, it adapts to whatever you do
Some more results (listening to PS + HS):
Anyone wants to comment on the bubble?
I used PS few months ago
I think it was 1 loop maybe 2 not more not on the same days…
Went to yoga class and the yoga teacher was a replacement for that class…
After class I was the last one to put my shoes on and just said something about how long has she being or teacher or something like that
I was not interested at all even though she’s attractive she’s not what I’m looking for.
She followed me outside to my car and didn’t want to leave.
At the time I didn’t understand what was going on or why she acted this way.
Tbh I thought she’s crazy.
It took me few weeks or months to understand it might had to do with the Reality Bubble
It was surreal and super weird how everything went dwn.
She was immediately completely totally interested in me and everything I said.
It caught me by surprise because:
Just speaka to da females.
Any seduction sub that calls to you will help, no need to overthink. Primal seduction is an excellent choice for cold approaching.
My recommendation would be Primal Seduction, and then make it your goal to simply talk to women with no pretense of Seduction or trying to get a girl. Just talk to them, as often as you can. Grocery store, gym, whatever.
Talking to older women who you have no romantic interest in is also really, really helpful.
Just like they say men never grow up, women don’t either, lol. Sounds weird but I’m serious, talk to old ladies and make them laugh. It’ll make their day, and it’ll soothe your nerves.
Talk to women, get to understand their humor, how they think, what they like, watch their memes.
What is the point in making the goal to simply talk to women with no pretense of Seduction?
Sometimes I do it with women I’m not interested in, with the others I go with the intent of seducing.
I can see that removing the intent takes pressure off and would allow me to not feel anxious and be more natural, but I suppose if doing that I’m not going to cold approach and say “Hi, I think you’re beautiful”, but just talk about something involving the current context/situation of both of you.
Anyway I think you’re advice is too go for the kill, when we start feeling confident enough, right?
Also how would you go about cold approaching on the street without intention of seducing? What would you say?
Cold approaching on the street by stopping a beautiful girl with the intention of seducing is the bravest move I can think of.
What a coincidence. I also started going to Yoga classes and I’m not interested on the Yoga teacher. I am always one of the last to put the shoes on, and approached her to discuss the spiritual teachings from the class (something about that we should use our ego).
It was a good conversation, but I didn’t feel anything special, like happened to you. That’s why I’m questioning if the bubble is working with me.
What I also started noticing is that when I get a girl engaged in the conversation, even if initially she was not interested, is that we are constantly interrupted. There is always someone who shows up to “pop the bubble” (if you call engagement in the conversation the creation of a bubble). The last time it happened, I noticed it was another girl (a friend) with a mix of jealousy and trying to protect her friend.
Damn thanks, I’ve done this a few times, and you for sure feel like you’ve grown some chest hairs afterwards, but almost every time the girl did not look as good close up. Just an observation.
It’s advice for someone who has a block with cold approaching.
If you’re scared of cold approaching women, then you’re overthinking, putting pressure where it doesn’t need to be, and increasing your chances of getting awkward.
When you take the pressure off, treat it like a game, and build your comfort talking to women, suddenly cold approaching doesn’t mean anything to you, it’s just another day.
Then you start to win.