So love bomb threw up an interesting question for me:
How do I put together unconditional self love and full self acceptance with the drive to improve and be become different than I am now?
I feel like this is one of my core issues and also plays in the area as my perfectionism @x3m …this drive to become the best version of myself and still doing so with loving kindness, softness and self acceptance and that it needs as much time as it needs and that this whole transformation doesn’t change anything regarding my worth. Up until now I used to overpush myself regarding self improvement, because I believed that only in that improved state I am worthy of love and lovable…to become loveable…rather than Simply being loveable all the way
Still there is an idea within me that the drive to improve doesn’t really fit with complete self acceptance in the now…as when I accept myself there is nothing to change…no subliminal to listen to looking for that missing link I have between there. I guess it has to do with my black and white thinking again.
Let’s see what the process brings in the next days…I already learned that answers come after asking the questions