Auras are the result of focused thought. You focus your thoughts, your body language, your natural energetic biofield all reflect whatever you’re focused on. If you’re running a title pumping you with inspiration to become a more loving person, you’re going to reflect that, even if your conscious mind is experiencing the conscious reconciliation.
It is your job to resolve this by taking action. Regardless, since the SUBCONSCIOUS is processing self-worth and self-love, naturally you will begin to experience it from others so you can take action.
It’s not a complicated concept.