If a person is in sales does asking someone to buy what you’re selling count as given away your power?
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This is nothing more than a 1:1 reflection of how strong your fear of rejection is.
Impressively strong, lol.
“The biggest loser on the planet”, being the level of shame, unworthiness, and inferiority you subconsciously associate with the idea of being rejected.
The beautiful thing about this, is that while it’s consciously irrational… subconsciously it isn’t so much, lol.
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No, It’s a proactive step to close a deal. This is not dominance over the other person. But then when on selling a balance between assertiveness and respect for the other person’s autonomy is essential.
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I found this kind of thinking all over the pick up community back in the days, that overthinking, and that always believing that everything is about one’s and zero’s. But what happened to just going out and doing whatever f you want, talking to new people, connecting, and having fun and truly not bothering about how you are perceived by others? Is that low status…?
Personally I’ve found that when I’m in my natural social zone, I literally don’t see more than a couple of yards in front of me, like I’m in a bubble. That means I don’t bother about what goes on around me more than in that bubble, because I used to be hyper aware of everything going on around me, and that pulled my attention all over place. Now a days I’m just present with what’s in front of me, and it’s just nice and liberating to be in my bubble, and not having my energy being pulled away by all the commotion around me.
To me it’s just Freedom that comes from within, that electrifying confidence to be that man that does whatever he feels like, but from a place of strength. And if that brings out thoughts like, but I can’t do that, or what would others think, or I’m a afraid I might, etc etc. If that is so, then you’re still in the grip of those deep seated beliefs, and no matter how much you’ll try it will show up in your life. It’s time to look at these beliefs, literally putting them naked in front of you and using your awareness.
Those kind of beliefs I would categorize as “introjects,” things put on you form the outside, and things that if just examined closely and with piercing awareness, is just found to be hollow, and can then just be dispelled from your beliefs systems, because they are simply not true as it’s not “You!” I found it literally that simple with those kind of beliefs when I truly understood it. Like, ahh I now I can see where this came form, but it was not something I personally came up with or thought through, so why would it have any grip over me? Bye bye!
Maybe it is that the truly high status man does not even think about status…? Because why would he, as he already has a deep seated belief and freedom from within to just be himself. It’s like a paradox, as when you want to get there you’re still in that old way of thinking, and when you’re there it does not even cross your mind.
A good example can be again from that good old Pick Up community… Like someone can have spent years becoming a master at PUA, and being able to sleep with tons of women, but it’s all coming from trying and not being true to yourself. I have seen this so many times, and they mostly go suicidal and are neurotic and nervous wrecks on the inside.
Then you have the man who from an early age just knew he was attractive and women were just as easy as running water, the illusive “natural” type that everyone in the PUA talked about. Talking to those guys almost always prompted them to say, I don’t know, I’m just being myself and having fun. Sounds super cheesy to the PUA guys, but it was so true. So the PUA guys go home and then go even harder pushing and pushing against these unwanted beliefs on the inside, approaching more and more women, but cannot understand why they are just feeling worse and worse…
So there’s definitely so many ways to get there, but some are just not as efficient and will have you on long detours that lasts for years and sometimes decades. But behind all these thoughts, schools, jadi jadi etc… Who’s always there? YOU! So start turning that attention you seek outwards inwards instead. Just dial down that noise coming from out there, and start listening to where it originated from instead.
A good set good questions to ask yourself is, who were you before all these beliefs that you picked up from your surroundings and culture? Who are you when you are completely relaxed? How would I act and think, and feel? What I mean is who you would be like when nobody is watching, who are you really, and why do you put up a charade when others are around? Also, how can I reintegrate all these split parts of me, that I pushed away, simply by accepting beliefs that were not true to me? That process is a bit more tricky as it’s wounded parts of yourself, that you will have to parent a bit, to have them grow up to be an adult and integrate them.
A good start that is so often overlooked for a man’s natural development and healing, is simply just relaxation (I went away form the city and lived in a forest cabin for 6 months, a bit extreme, but it worked wonders for me.) Masculine essence is stillness, not being swayed, pure presence etc. I would recommend practices that develops this such as meditation, relaxation practices, strong determination sitting (very tough practice, but will really show what I meant with presence if you do it,) and also simply titles such as Sanguine. When mind and body slows down and becomes still, guess what… These things comes to you naturally…
Emotions drive you to action, we all know that. That’s why silence and still is so powerful, as it slows down the negative talk with the accompanied emotions that drives us to act and feel in ways that are not really what we want. Don’t give a sharp knife to kid, his hands are not stable enough, and his mind is not matured enough to handle such a sharp knife with care. Develop your stillness, the platform, and only then introduce the knife.
Damn, every time I want to answer with a short paragraph… it just becomes a wall of text… Damn you Limitless 
Oh well that means I can use more of my favorite emote even more…
And BTW this wall of text is just opinions that I have formed, super neurological highways in my brain, habits! So take everything with a grain of salt, and form your own opinions… woop woop!
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Ok… I just had to add this… Meep Meep!
EDIT on the EDIT on the EDIT, found a cooler one…
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The rule of thumb is – the more intense reconciliation, the more intense the inner changes that are occurring.
When you find your sweet spot of not too much reconciliation but enough to be progressing steadily, you are golden.
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The tiger is the Apex predator of whatever habitat it happens to be in. And yet, the tiger pursues prey. Is the concept of “I like what I see, I should make it mine” and actually achieving it the… opposite of dominance?
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Yet hunting and mating are not the same. Tigers and humans, either.
Peacocking is the key.
Well the males with the most imposing physiques or beautiful plumage are often seen with the most sought after mates. Sounds a lot like a documentary narrated by David Attenborough to me
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I did a cycle of Khan1, Ascension and Godlike Masculinity.
After that I did 3x each of k2, k3, k4. Also with Ascension and GLM.
The nonchalant powerful feeling I got from doing this is almost beyond words.
After some other experiments, I’ll revisit Khan to lock it in even more.
Considering TWTP with Khan next go-round.
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I want to run Khan ST1 just to get rid of sh*tty potential programming from subliminals I ran before SubClub, and also for deprogramming any sexual blocks/belief structures I may have unwittingly “picked up” during my life.
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I actually want my first cycle of 2025 to be Khan+TWTP
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Stacking it with KB1?
+Sanguine, perhaps, to face all the critical shifts like a boss 
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Well that escalated fast 
I’m curious to see how your WB or Primal inspired art would look 
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I’m re-bringing this sorry but from old posts i saw that some users mentioned that khan contains scripts from limitless, is it still the thing?
It did originally include Limitless scripting…
The titles are made differently now
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Hey are you still running Khan ST1? How is it going?
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This sentence right here is speaking volumes to me. I’ve been holding off on running Khan for a long time, thinking I’m not ready to commit to it. But I’ve been getting drawn to it lately
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I keep reading that myself so I understand what you mean. I’m going to wait because I feel that Khan will be fun to run with Dragon Reborn Gold
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It’s worth it.
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Yeah just that sentence alone is pretty empowering
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