Another point, maybe some people can relate to this, we have a variety of subs here. All different goals, all different ways of living. Iād often fall into the trap of feeling like eventually I had to āgraduateā to a bigger title. As much as the variety is great, I absolutely suck with making choices when given a lot of options. I can honestly say youād never see me running Khan or Emperor, despite their comprehensiveness I donāt feel I align with the goals.
So working backwards is always ideal. Find out what you really want and who to be, then choose titles that support that. Easier said than done, as outlined in saints journal recently how trauma can really influence your decision making. Knowing what you want has to be identified from your core, not the insecurity or experiences that influenced you.