Insufficient valuing of and observation of their individual, internal process and characteristics.
Not listening to themselves; only focusing on listening to the subliminal.
The subliminal is one-half of a partnership. You provide the rest.
Thus, once you have successfully chosen and engaged an effective subliminal strategy, your job is not finished. It’s not just ‘press play and coast the rest of the way’.
Rather than ending at that point, the real learning begins at that point. But it’s a celebratory learning, because, as long as you try, you are pretty much guaranteed eventual success.
If a person continues to work on herself and to learn himself, I feel that the reconciliation may still occur at times (it is a natural part of life after all), but it will not be chronic.