I agree with @Hoppa . I came here not expecting anything and found friends and recently unintentionally found a mentor
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At least for different languages are spoken in Switzerland. 
German (actually, Swiss-German) is only one of them. There are French, Italian and Retro-Romanian too.
How old are you? 93?
Friendships are generally created over similarities or commonalities.
If you can’t find new people, it means you’re NOT exposing yourself to new people - with whom you may share some common interest, or goal.
Food for thought. 
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I think he meant the willingness to meet/find new people.
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@Sub.Zero I think this was where you were supposed to insert the picture of that elderly woman dancing.
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Umiem mówić we wszystkich językach 
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I wish I could hear your pronunciation!
I speak three only but I’m learning two more. I’m planning on running QL (+Alchmist) and I believe it should help me in my endeavours.
At 93, granny is making new friends, and also online fans. 
She is the perfect embodiment of Love Bomb.
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Guys @Simon @Malkuth @Sub.Zero @James @Palpatine @Hoppa
Thanks guys! Now I have realised one remaining faulty belief that is still left me.
Let me share a history.
Even though my parents loved me alot and wanted the best for me, when I was a kid they would fight alot, this fighting would get physical. All I could do during these times is wrap myself up and hide under a blanket. At a young age, repeated frequent instances like these, built me up into someone who cant express himself, who can only hide. By the age of 3, I became fearful of taking any action at all.
I remember vague instances of one of my first instances in school either preschool year 1 or 2.
I remember, the teacher would drop toys on the floor, and the students would have to play with what they could get. I just remember this one instance where I was afraid to take anything until everyone took what they wanted and i got hold of the worst remaining point.
Slowly I slipped into a comfort zone where I was okay with what people handed down to me. I didn’t have the drive to go get the best.
This transferred to making friends and forming relationships.
I remember not making any effort to make new friends, but only associate with 1 or 2 people who sat around around me.
I never developed the intuition to explore or make friends.
This was the case all throughout preschool and kindergarten.
By grade 1, I had developed a very naive character, who had no opinion of his own, who accepted anything life threw to him. Who accepted everything and did anything anyone told him to do.
This characteristic made things worse for me , in kindergarten, i unfortunately sat with a bully because he asked me to sit with him, he would tell me to sit at the back of class and talk to no one, I would do that. He would ask me to stare at the wall at all times, I would do that.he would ask me to give him my lunch I would do that. I would fear him alot. From kinderrgarten I started developing more fear of taking any action. I didn’t have a spine. I never complained about the bully to the teachers.
I was in the same class as the bully until grade 3. By this time all the damage to my reputation had been done. I made no friends, I had no image, I was 0. I was a nobody. I was in the same class with the most of the kids in grade 3 untill College. So I was put into a nobody frame all throughout school.
I made a few friends here and there, but made no friends who would be friends for the long term.
In grade 9, matters were made worse for me when I started watching porn. From grade 9 to end of college I had many new opportunities to make new friends. But I have more priority to stay home and watch porn and results were same.
I was above average with studies but I had no friend’s.
Same case in Australia
I had a ver low ow view of my self. I would fake it. Never be authentic. That’s why u could never make long term friends.
But now most of those internal shackles have been broken.
But externally results remain the same.
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First of all, man, I can’t count the number of faulty beliefs I have. We do our best, we grow, and we ‘work on them shits’. Sending you support as you work on yours. One not-faulty belief and practice is to give yourself compassion before you’re perfect (in other words, for your whole life 
). We need it now, so don’t wait.
What you wrote immediately reminded me of this:
You’re focused. So no need to add it now if you haven’t already done so. But next time you’re building a custom, might be a good idea to add that module.
Here’s an interesting thought-experiment that may or may not fly for you:
Imagine your self from 40 years in the future. Spend a couple of minutes thinking about what his life might be like. I don’t mean in terms of ‘good’ or ‘bad’ (that’s way too basic and simplistic), but in terms of specific details. Where might he be living? Who might he have lunch with? What might his hobbies or daily schedule be like? What might he care about? It’s not a test so just do it as long as you feel like.
Once you’ve got a sense of him (vague or not), imagine that he comes and sits down next to you and hears you talk about your story and how you feel (like what you typed above). And now imagine that he tells you just 2 things. What are those two things? They’re for you, not us. Remember them for yourself.
You can go back to hear his advice and guidance at any time. But we choose two things first just to avoid over-thinking it right now. He has 40 years more life experience and he understands and accepts you the way only someone who has experienced the exact same thing can do. He loves you and realizes that you’re a pretty cool guy. And he gives you some counsel to help you along your way.
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Give yourself a bit more time and step by step leave your comfort zone (social isolation). Enrolling on some yoga course or whatever you like could help massively. Having the same passion (or topics to discuss) and being in a group focused on the same purpose helps connect with people and apparently, that’s what you need. Build your social persona and social skills. I suffered from the same things you do for years since I had very similar experiences to yours… I started using subs six years ago and it’s changed me a lot but still, I need to stick to that step by step method.
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@SaintSovereign why do kids stare at me and then when i smile at them they start giggling but keep staring at me when using love bomb ?
Shit, dogs do the same to me, apart from giggling, that is. 
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Ya. Kids detect and respond to aura changes better than adults. 
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Kids also dont hide feelings like adults do. A lady will find you extremely hot and not look at you twice and totally ignore you.
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@pacman are you using love bomb ? please share your experiences ?
@James your comments would be greatly appreciated.
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Thats it Sim
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Same reason. Sensitive pack-based cooperative animals. Dogs are all about energy and auras.
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