Funny how the word “wanted” also made it into this explanation as I remember that you’ve explained the same principle with regards to the goals of WANTED:
People start listening to WANTED because they are desperate to feel desired and “wanted” by everyone.
But then, ironically, WANTED heals their internal framework and their desperate need for validation, and they become actually “wanted” but at the same time lose their initial reason of why they started listening to WANTED in the first place. Lol.
Desires that we have while still being traumatized are not the same desires that our true self has when finally being healed.
Once we are truly internally healed and become high self-esteem, the desire to dominate or look down on others, vanishes.
The historical Genghis Khan might have been a powerful and dominant person, but still super low self-esteem, fully controlled by ego and the external validation seeking.
Once we are truly high self-esteem, the only acceptable way to achieve our goals becomes through manifestation.
