I’m curious about this book. How many pages it is? Does he cover anything about the shadow/unconscious?
No matter how much people say that shadow work doesn’t matter, I don’t believe you can bypass your shadow side 100%. Maybe I’m wrong but I most certainly know I wouldn’t be where I am today without diving into my shadow side. My dark side. I see where things are showing up still and becoming more curious of how those experiences have come to pass. It’s all by my doing or some other dark kinky persons doing. I was open to it and accepted their gift. 

I am currently reading a book called Existential Kink where she explains why people aren’t having success with LOA or other new age practices.
Their shadow. The unconscious. The dark kinky desires.
The parts of ourselves that most don’t want to look at or acknowledge. The parts that are resisted. Repressed. Hidden but revealed in many ways if you really pay attention.
She basically explains that in order to get what you truly want you must get off on what you don’t want that you’re currently experiencing. We may consciously think we don’t want those things but deep inside there’s a part of us that does want it. We essentially do get everything we want but may not be enjoying those things consciously. Some part of us wanted those things and got them.
Our most dominate beliefs conscious or unconscious are manifested.
Once we get really honest with ourselves by noticing what we currently are experiencing, become aroused by all of it, something magical happens.
We learn to love all of ourselves. Every single dirty kinky fucked up part. From that place, freedom awaits us. To actually start enjoying and manifesting more effortlessly what we consciously want coming from a different place.
Quote from book: We do always get what we deeply desire, but most of us aren’t that aware that much of what we deeply desire is some highly unpleasant, painful, secret, repressed, fucked up shit.