Combine it with Love Bomb, LBFH, Chosen, or something similar and you are safe.
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I have mainly ran TB for a cycle from time to time. Mainly for growth as I dont plan to dedicate time to Khan at this point in time anyways, can it make you more aggressive? Yes. Just like Emperor, Ascension, Primal, Stark, etc…if you are someone that has had a hard time setting boundaries with others and you listen to an alpha sub and all of a sudden you get blasted with confidence, can understandably lead to aggression if not handled properly.
I have had moments like that myself to where I caught myself and calmed down before I did/said something stupid and there were times where I didn’t. That said on Khan when I have my emotions in check I am actually very well spoken and I become a gentleman that is not a “nice guy” in any shape or form
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No subliminal over here (including Khan) will make you an asshols. But what possibly could is the recon.
When the mind feels overloaded, it can also feel irritated and this usually leads to an outburst.
If you are running Khan (and especially Total Breakdown which tends to give recon the first time you run it), it would be better to run microloops to reduce the recon and hence the “assholeness”. Either that or save it until the holidays are over.
If you are running Khan, you could take a washout during that time and resume OGK after the season is over.
Another idea is to stack it with titles like LBH or the new AoH which will make recon more bareable. I think DD is also a good idea. Helps you be more social.
Happy holidays!
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It technically could make you into an asshole if you see the archetype as some sort of type like that. Personally I think people have the most recon on khan because they have a hard time when they are told they come off as mean or as some sort of “bad guy” to others. Beware those who might feel insecure around you can also use this as a weapon against you. Try to bully you into submission by pointing fingers. Nothing wrong with coming off as an asshole in it of itself. Just because you look like one to someone else doesn’t mean you are. You know who you are and you know your values. And hey! Even if you actually did act immaturely and fucked up, how the hell can you master yourself and be better at “being just” if you run away from that literal training ground called khan. If anything, with time you will grow in maturity immensely I could imagine. As long as you keep it in the back of your mind.
Love me some khan : )
no h8 guys you all have great points.
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Khan might have a polarizing effect.
From the sales page:
“You will become intimately aware of your innermost sides, good and bad, and you will likely become a polarizing individual – some will love you, some will hate you, but all will respect you. Your relationships will be changed for the better, but people will inevitably test you to see whether the changes and growth occurring within you are real.”
So some people might think you are an asshole. However as people have said above, you are the one who chooses how to act and treat others.
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Please put it in this thread, my friend::
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Oops sorry, i was thinking that i wrote it in that exact page.
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Just run it along with art of happiness. You won’t be an asshole.
For me on k st1, i was deeply introspective. I was always polite with others. I came off as serious. And I walked with a plan in mind.
People will begin to respect you more.
I don’t think I ever was an asshole and im gonna start st4 after washout.
And remember, a sub can never make you do anything that you dont want to
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It definitely won’t turn you into a complete a-hole and make you act crazy. You might become a bit more blunt in your conversations, but you won’t lose control. In fact, in my case, Khan made me gain much greater control of my emotions. Even if someone were to say to me something that I don’t like, I have enough control to take a second to address their comment and respond accordingly. But no aggression.
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No, it won’t “make you” anything. However, yes, running Khan ST1 can cause some difficult emotions to surface. Most likely you have some difficult emotions about your family members (most people do) and they might surface while your around them, and making your holiday season a little more difficult that you wanted to. Because you might experience the whole spectrum of negative emotions.
If you struggle to control and transmute intense negative emotions, it’s possible you could lash out and act like an asshole. But, you of course always have a choice.
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This
5char!
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My experience is solely based on Stage 1. I have just finished my second cycle of Stage 1. It definitely doesn’t turn you in to an A - hole. I feel and act pretty much the same as I always have except that I am now coming from a place of confidence and power. I worry much less than I used to, I don’t worry much about what people think of me anymore, (I used to alot). Overall I think it’s probably made less of an A - hole. Better emotional control, I don’t feel the need to prove myself anymore and leaves me less likely to get involved in petty arguments to prove a point to myself or other people. That said I still stand my ground when I need to but in a more quiet and confident way.
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It depends on the person.
Some have a smooth ride from the start,
others have tons of emotional ups and downs first few cycles. it depends on how much needs to be healed and a bunch of other stuff. I guess you can’t know until you won’t try.
You could wait until new years (but I guess you already know that)
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There is a massive difference between being assertive and being an asshole.
Khan is more about becoming a person who achieves whatever the fuck they’re ambitious and driven about despite external circumstances. Sometimes that may require being abrupt or assertive and the people that are used to who you are now may not be very receptive to who you know you can be and that can create unnecessary conflicts. Through running Khan you will know how to handle these situations with confidence, maturity, and grace
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You saw @yazooneh’s recent results. That’s what Khan does to you.
Recon might make you an asshole.
Having no self respect and lashing out at people when you’re sick of not getting what you want can make you an asshole.
This is more likely something you would do WITHOUT khan, opposed to with khan. Khan might just un-repress your asshole-ness for the first week or so, because you’ll be in a state where you are sick of being stepped on, but don’t yet have the political-social skills required to get what you want elegantly. And how would you have developed those skills? Until Khan , you’ll never have practiced.
Setting up boundaries with people who have been trampling them for years might make me seem like an asshole to the people who want to control me.
But Khan doesn’t make you an asshole. It gets you respect and power. The only people who have thought I’m an asshole on khan were the people who had “collected” me as one of their friends because they only surround themselves with people pleasers.
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Well said James. This sounds like it is coming straight out of product copy 
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Awesome replies all.
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If you’re being your true and authentic self, the you’re going to be an asshole to somebody whether your trying to be or not. It’s best to be assertive, but if you had to choose, I believe it’s better to be an asshole than a pushover.
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Sometimes people think I’m an asshole when on Khan, but after a lot of introspection and retrospection I came to the conclusion that the people who thinks I’m an asshole are just pussies.
Real masculine man I know never think I’m an asshole, only weaker man.
Also females don’t think I’m an asshole, some say I can be bad sometimes.
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I would say exercise caution if you’ve not been living life already as a powerful person. You will have things to resolve, thus recon. It can be sneaky and you might be more explosive at times. But that depends on the individual and their make up.
I tried it made it to stage 3 at one time. I was going from feeling powerless with people and it was hard. I also felt at times I was more angry and would let it come out since I’ve seen many “adults” in my life be angry and had some bad bosses.
I haven’t been apt to take up the challenge again. I’d say if anything Chosen during the holiday season would be excellent. Positive attention and you feel good, less chance of that harsh recon and being angry.
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