I learnt early on (from a course about seduction) that giving value is the best way of having uplifting relationships. So, i trained myself to give value at all times.
But now after running emperor: the will to power for a while, I see that taking value is the basis of all human interaction. And I see that I’ve been getting taken advantage of by most people who just suck value (and i keep providing it (providing good vibes for free wid charm is one of my main ways of providing value)).
Here is what I see in all human interactions:
Guy A takes value (say he commands his subordinate: guy B to do something for him but he doesn’t do it tactfully or wid charm, he just commands rudely to another).
Guy B does what he is asked properly but he also does it while taking value (he replies rudely to the command).
Guy A berates guy B.
Guy B fires back.
But the work has been done properly and the interaction ends.
Here is what I thought should happen:
Guy A should command guy B wid persuassion tact to do the work.
The Guy B should do the work at the best of his capacity and show that he tried his best for the job.
Guy A should acknowledge guy B’s effort.
The interaction ends wid both giving value and everyone happy.
So, my question is to reiterate: Is sucking as much value as possible in any interaction by both parties in the conversation natural order of things and i’ve been living in lala land studying persuassion tactics when i should just be commanding people wid confidence to do my bidding?