If in the rare case they ask why, you can calmly tell them “I don’t do drama”. And then don’t explain anything after that. Simple and to the point.
If they argue it, you know that is someone who doesn’t respect you, so you cut them off.
Khan, WANTED, Wanted Black.
Sounds like a valid stack there
I recommend to you @SWITCH to read :
both by Robert Greene
Khan + WANTED or Khan + Wanted Black. Saint did say that stacking both the Wanteds would be too much but someone might want to try it lol.
yeah Khan Black and Wanted black are enough imo
I will try this, I will cut contact and watch what she plays,
The day I discovered she begged me not to break up with her even though she fucked up .
Do you know that after discovering about him and confronted her I still fucked her that night like 3times , the next morning like two times before she left she cried and cried about how she wanted to be left alone.
In the past I have cut her off for 2wks one day when sleeping someone knocked my door lo and behold it’s her. We had some rough sessions of sex even the last time I told her am ashamed of walking with her in public because she isn’t becoming beautiful as I like the next day she came to my house and fucked my brains out.
I have read that Art of Seduction in the past.
What’s your view on Sex and seduction X ? Over Wanted black?
After running Khan Black St1 and New Emperor I will switch to Khan black ST4 and maybe with Wanted black.
I had feelings for her even up till now but I have lost trust in her so what’s the essence?
The thing is that I always hurt her by telling her she needs to develop big ass ,boobs become more flesher and all that. I will tell her I don’t like how she looks and all that.
Bro, that sounds not good. Are you a narcissist?
I wonder what would you do if some hottie with who you will be with told you that you have a small penis and you have to do something about it.
This is the “Stick Girl” huh? Behind the smoke and mirrors, she wants you to keep you while exploring other men. Some are ok with that but that’s a hell no for me and it seems to be that way for you too. At this point, I can only describe both of you, with no offense meant, as emotionally immature fornicators. Do you value your sexual gratification more than your dignity and congruence? Young men are often blinded by their dick so I can’t blame you entirely. We all go through that. But what is the fantasy here bro? Think of your goals and your future. 1 yr from now. 5 yrs from now. 10 yrs from now. What is she to your life? Part of your harem? Wife? Ex-GF? Examine your life and desired path then pursue that wholeheartedly. It can change later but approach it with the same authenticity.
The things that stand out to me most are the drama, hurt, and confusion.
I would encourage you to reflect on the amount of empathy, respect, and compassion you have towards her.
I would also encourage you to consider this question: “If there were 5 women who looked similar to her, who had more of a body you might be interested in, and who were interested in what you had in mind (perhaps more of a FWB situation), would you go out with them instead”?
Have you considered Sanguine: The Elixir, or Regeneration?
mmm… and you are surprised that she’s seeing another man… lol
For starters this whole situation sounds pretty messed up and like you groomed a 16 year old lol. With that being said if my girlfriend was texting another guy around me at any point I’d pretty much end it right there if I was serious about her. There are no such thing as guy friends, and that behavior is pretty unacceptable. On top of that, you took her back after she got pregnant with another guy because she only slept with him 5 times, and also changed that number? Bro grow some standards for yourself and let her go, she will never respect you from this point on it’s virtually impossible. I can’t think of a time in my life where I was texting a girl outside of work matters/family/etc that I wasn’t trying to put my penis in.
Brother, this sounds like a pretty bad situation. For both of you, by what you’ve said, I think you need to do some thinking about yourself and these patterns. A little hot and cold is one thing, but this sounds a little intense and probably unhealthy.
Porn&Masturbation VS hooking up with random Girls/FwB
As you said yourself, masturbation destroys your soul. That’s a reality many men face.
Most religions and spiritual traditions know this and therefore recommend not to masturbate. As a catholic Christian I grew up, knowing it’s a sin, experienced it as such as a porn addict. On a more eastern understanding, your wasting life force. Your body need huge amounts of energy/ nutrients to replace the semen. And if your hooked on porn, you ejaculate usually much more often than a normal guy from sexual intercourse.
On a more medical point of view, we know that Porn, Masturbation and Orgasm (PMO) are just as addictive as cocaine. The changes in the brain are astonishingly similar.
Casual Sex on the other side has other downsides. Firstly, you waste your semen as well.
Secondly, I know enough cases were at least one sided startet to feel something for the “Friend” even it was never an intention. Thirdly, you can base this on neurology or energetic practices like yoga/ tantra, that whenever you sleep with someone there’s an exchange of energy. Since sex is originally focused on procreation that makes a lot of sense. During sex, your brain segregates Oxytocin and the pheromones of your partner are copied into your system. That way her scent triggers emotions in you. On a more esoteric point of view, your energies mix and stay within the chakra of your partner and vice versa. But you’re not only connecting to her energies but also to those left by her other lovers.
So it always has its cost to sleep with random people.
Statistically, happy couples have much more and better sex than singles with lots of FwB.
Sex has everything to do with trust. Trust doesn’t come through casual sex. It needs time.
Some people say that the sex turns boring after some years, but that’s their problem. If your open to learn about your partner, his passions and kinks, sex tends to get better and better over time, provided both work constantly on the relationship.
You met a 16 year old when you we’re 20? That’s the first problem I see as mentioned by @Niles
Sounds like you guys are both in a toxic relationships and need some serious healing.
So she cheated on you and you still think of not moving on, seriously? If she cheated you, the answer is simple move on. She’s a 19 year old kid, let her live her life and you go and live your life.
You both seriously have issues, I won’t bs that. Like seriously, this is clearly a toxic relationships, friendships, whatever you want to call it and you clearly both need to move on and see different people.
Then leave. She cheated, you move on. It’s that simple.
If you can’t see the issue in both of those quotes then I don’t know if anyone can really help you sorry. It’s clear you guys both have really big issues you need to fix and both are unhealthy for each other.
I know I sound like a douchebag with my message but like there’s no way of saying this nicely you guys both need figure your stuff out.
As @Niles who is nicer then me. Grow some standards and move on.
That all sounds kind of fucked up dude
I think you can find someone better
Disengage your emotions from her for now, keep having sex if you want, but start looking for another/other women
