Ok am not giving her enough attention and care, am always that on and off guy I play with her this moment I disappear for days I come back again and we talk/fuck I disappear.
I don’t what to commit to her I want us to be friends with benefits, we only meet and have fun
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that’s a wise observation.
what if they intentionally ask ‘why’?
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are you a muslim?
no I am not
Look her dead in the eye and tell her a boring excuse: “I was busy”.
She will know.
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it will be harder to do if she askes that by phone or online chatting.
personally, it’s better to masturbate rather than having FWB relationship.
Why ? Masturbating destroys my soul.
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there is a strange sense of
“the drama in the relationship
is what makes it fun”
that I never understood.
You like drama and all you ask is
“how can I play her into being my girl for sex while also having other girls even though she hates the idea in a way, where she proceeds with my visions”
I get what you’re going for… Good news… if you like drama, you will have tons of it on this journey.
Hope you’ll find it fulfilling I suppose
but having a sex with someone you have no feelings to - don’t?
IMO the main point is to make it NOT seem like u r hurt and r punishing her.
So, if u have cut em off, don’t make it seem like u r intentionally doing so.
U just had better things to do (or better people to meet) so she just naturally lost ur attention.
If u have done this properly, u can just say “I was busy” if she asks u via phone or text.
The subtext here is u r telling her to try harder and this isn’t enough to forgive her.
If this sounds stupid, note that i’m just sharing MY experience. 
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Don’t look for a sub to “give you this playboy spirit.” If you truly want to have a playboy spirit, you will develop it on your own, if not, you won’t. Your stack is fine and it seems like it’s helping you.
To add on to what @Lion said,
You say you only want her for sex, but now things are getting kinda messy. Cut her off, cut contact, and don’t tell her why you’re cutting contact. Don’t say a single word.
Either she will:
- Come back around to you
- Never come back
Whichever choice she makes gives you your answer. If she comes back then you can probably have her as a haram girl again, if she doesn’t come back then she wasn’t going to be what you wanted her to be anyway.
You win either way.
Try not to fall into the trap of getting emotional. That’s how we fuck everything up. Just cut contact and see how she reacts. You gotta cut contact for probably 3 weeks minimum for it to work. If you only cut contact for a week, it’s not gonna work and she’s not gonna take you seriously.
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Ehh, the pain is worth it. Nothing compares to the beauty of your face being a bike seat.
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What you’re pointing to is…yeah, it can be a problem. Men can pretty easily fall in love with the games that a woman plays, not the woman herself. The harder she makes him fight, the more exciting it is, the more he falls under her spell.
Men and women both can be very easily manipulated by our basest instincts 
Women do the same thing.
There is something about “toxic behavior” that just totally hacks the human mind and makes us act like idiots.
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bruh 
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Some serious kinky stuff 
But I vote for FWB over masturbation. Just more people are involved in it
that’s amazing!?!! Wow what a strange thing
Maybe it’s Stockholm, maybe it’s Maybelline? 
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