Well if yesterday was any indication, a pregnant woman on the train almost did. Followed me home until she realised what she was doing 
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Feeling into the DreamBoi vibe so intensely and at the same time so chilled. I realise that the nervous system based confidence is revealing something interesting about feeling open.
I love this sub, I love being down to earth and “authentic” (crap buzzword), however the world still pushes their masks onto others. I’m not interested in macho bed notching shit, I prefer deep connections and even though I find that at work and play, some are wearing masks of deceit. Not everyone wishes you well, in fact some are just crabs in a barrel. I haven’t felt the need to push back against this… up until now. Maybe I’ve been too passive and not taking up my rightful space in life. Let’s see…
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I’ve joined a dating app.
What in the actual fuck have I done? 🫣
Said I’m open to a short to long term relationship. Don’t know who or what prompted this info to credit for this unexpected step up.
Edit: now I’m looking at the bloody instruction manual and it specifically states:
Open pathways to romance: join dating apps.
Now I’m spooked out.
Exactly. All results are good results.
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Now you’re on a dating app. Can you describe the sudden shift in confidence, self esteem, and your over all mental attitude? Also how is WDBs belly fat physical shifting compared to Ascension?
Easy - self love.
If you want a more precise answer: I am deserving of self love and I believe I have something of worth to give, where before the goal was to fill my own cup.
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lol. Nothing to offer on the physical shifting question?
And you attribute that self love to WDB?
Not really.
Absolutely. Nervous system calm does a lot for confidence.
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That’s interesting. Cause when I used Ascension briefly I lost belly fat. When I stopped it came back eventually. Same with Khan.
Yeah I figured that. But what does that have to do with self love?
From the short amount of time running WDB
It’s working…
I think (not sure) Wanted PhShif was stronger but TBH I just ran New Wanted for longer…
You should be happy with it I guess
You need to eat well and workout too!
Even if it’s once a week lifting in the gym
And some running or walking twice a week
You’d be less stressed and so less critical
Never felt PS with Khan but you probably made it work! that’s great
Try wanted
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I didn’t have to do exercise for Ascension or Khan to trim belly fat. WDB seems like it would fit me more than the other Wanted titles.
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COOL!
I did minimal exercise and it worked
Yeah they all work use what you like they work well
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The DreamBoi lifestyle.
Where I’m working alone in an office I find a cluster of women who decide to sit near or facing me. When I’m travelling on the train, absolutely sure that no one will sit facing me, up pops one or two women. In the supermarket I’m certain there’ll be at least one woman who checks me out and decides to follow me.
This is now my reality, not hand waving it away for forum approval.
The challenge
To remain in the chooser seat. I know deep down that there’s a void to fill, that’s my desperate need for a relationship to manifest and I’m sure it has slowed down my results, even though attraction is still a given. I’m also reintroducing (microlooping) Genesis: Joy to get that foundation stable. So far it’s working a treat and the two titles synergise very well. Women pick up on desperation so to hold steady whilst vibing on authentic presence is the ticket.
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Have you tried LB long-term? I’ve ran it for 8 months in 2024 and started in early January again and it’s a wonderful experience.
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Honestly, I don’t have the patience.
Joy gives me an immediate self worth foundation which for me is the biggest reason running it. From what I remember running LB it felt a little airy fairy, I actually prefer the grounded skills based subs (GLM, WDB) plus on Joy I feel free to actually express myself without fear of rejection. Speaking out still remains an issue.
Plus so far Joy seems to gel well with DreamBoi seamlessly.
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At least you’re honest.
As my fiancee said today “the P in my name (@CurlyGirl ) stands for patience.”
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Yea, I love love. But being more of the shy, quiet type, I got a lot of flack from others for feeling good. Being self fulfilled kind of thing. Like how are you free of the masks, and inauthenticity, and able to feel good for no reason? Well, that’s how we’re supposed to be. And to get back to it wasn’t easy. I had to do the opposite of the rest of the world. So got outcast a bit.
You bring up a good point. I was going to switch over to LB. I got a job where I don’t deal with anyone at all. So I’m able to feel however I want without the unwanted attention stuff. But I think GLM and Primal also help with that. So I wasn’t able to get myself to switch off either title for LB. And they both have optimism, joy elements. I was just looking for a little hit of the self love.
I would love to see a module about love flooding oneself though. That would definitely work, without needing to go full LB.
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It’s not in the description, but Synergy: Venus Unveiled could do the job in my opinion.
through
Chosen of Venus you’ll develop an outward expression of love
But we know *As within, so without".
And the modules description goes more in depth
You will experience how it is to be filled with love and radiate it – yes, Chosen of
Venus contains aura manifestation as well. You can now truly become…
the Chosen of Venus.
With Depths of Love you’ll
create the inward expression of this phenomenon, where a greater inner
understanding will unfold within you. You’ll let go of traumas that stop
you from loving and make all the love you feel much more
transcendental and potent
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Ahh, I should have not opined. I previously got the same response when I made a similiar statement.
I did run Syngergy: Venus Unveiled modules seperately in the same custom. But perhaps you are correct. The synergy may do that, rather than running the individual modules all together.
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@Parsifal I couldn’t explain it without using the same words over again, so I used Chat.
Chat explains that Joy was suggested over LB because I understood very early on that:
- Love = performance
- Acceptance = soothing others emotions
- Safety = being polite and agreeable
- Worth = usefulness
- Stability = not pissing off anyone
So the aim is to rebuild the nervous system so that not “being a good mature little boy” and fulfilling the above list didn’t threaten my existence so bad.
I don’t need to be warm
I don’t need to change how others see me
I don’t need to convince anyone how genuine I am
I don’t need to soften myself
I don’t need to push for romance for “validation”
I am valid even if there’s no one to save.
@ABC333 LB would have doubled down on the romance without securing the bag first. CFW and LBFH possibly might have flooded with self love. In my case internal safety was more important.
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Did you try running Divine Self-Image?
From the description, it feels like it might help with self-love?
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