It depends on your living conditions and financial situation.
If you’re homeless, then you would obviously prioritize money.
Do you live comfortably? Are you financially independent? Are you struggling to pay bills? If you don’t have your life put together as a man, then you shouldn’t be focusing on women.
When you prioritize money, it can happen really fast because of focus + sexual transmutation.
Most people who financially struggle are pissing away their sexual energy when they don’t understand how powerful it is in helping them meet their financial goals. It’s literally one of the most creative, motivating and driving forces that we all have access to and when harnessed you become a goal sniper.
Abstinent people are dangerous, lmao. Tesla and all of them, hahahaha.
Anyways, this is my opinion of what you should do.
Dating and Money. That’s basically wealth and sex life.
2 areas of your life, right.
You need clear goals.
Dating goals:
- Make first approach
- Get a girlfriend
- Have sex once
Whatever you want, just have something clear that is a marker of progression in this area of your life.
Money goals:
- Make X amount of money
- Get a job raise
- Start a business
Again, whatever you want.
Now, you can split up your focus into 50/50 and attain both. Then you wouldn’t have to prioritize. There are men who improve their financial life by day and improve their dating life by night. You don’t necessarily have to be tunnel-visioned on one or the other. There are subliminals that encompass multiple areas of your life, such as Emperor for example.
That can work for some people but not everyone.
If you are the type of person that prefers to focus on 1 area of your life at a time, then I would commit to a progression strategy where:
Say you have zero income and zero sex life.
Money = 0
Dating = 0
I would focus on money, since security is higher priority on Maslows.
Meet a benchmark/checkpoint of progression (landing a job, landing an income, making x amount)
Then switch over to dating.
Meet a benchmark/checkpoint of progression (asking someone out, getting laid, getting a girlfriend)
Then switch over back to money.
Meet a benchmark/checkpoint of progression (doubling income, getting a raise at your job)
Switch over back to dating (develop sex skills, get another girlfriend)
Basically you keep alternating your focus on areas of life, keep meeting new goals and ultimately keep progressing.