As I have mentioned previously in a post long time ago, I was confused about prioritising dating and money. And majority of people seemed to go with money first idea. But the problem is when I go for money , the idea of not having the women I want bugs me when I can see them all around and others enjoying. And if due to this I go for completely focussing on dating, then I can’t even make my first approach. I am stuck in this cycle and can’t understand what to do? How do I break it?
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What I would do is play Wanted and Ecstasy of Gold St1 for an extended time. You get Wanted to break down your neediness when it comes to women, and you’ll become a lot more attractive with the mystery aura and physical shifting. Then EoG St1 for an extended period to go deep and break down all your past limiting beliefs around money and wealth. I would not add a third program just to keep it light and more effective.
With these two you get both worlds and after clearning up more and more in both areas, you will get more clarity on what to focus on down the line. Just my opinion and what I would do.
EDIT:
If you just go money and wealth, from my own experience is that you’ll get frustrated in the women compartment easily, and the other way around as well, and ending up switching subs all the time, and never getting any real progress at all almost. But make one of them a bigger priority in your stack while still playing both.
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Ever tried to date while being broke? It seriously sucks. 
Here is a good rule for life, building your wealth, your success and your life should always take priority over women. ALWAYS!!!
For a good reason:
You’ll run out of money chasing women but you’ll never run out of women when you’re successfully chasing money!!!
Print those words, put them on your wall and read them everyday!
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I’ll second what Tobyone said but I would add Limit Destroyer to the stack to speed up destroying your limits around money and women.
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Well I have been running Wanted for a year almost but didn’t get the results I thought I should get, partly because lack of action and very less to no washouts.
Try AM and Libertine then.
I don’t agree with this, if I did i would already be motivated enough
Libertine wouldn’t give those results ig because it needs internal growth in sexual department and I don’t think I have that as I can’t even make my first approach. i may really sound annoying but I am confised
Whether you agree with it or not doesn’t really matter.
It’s a widely known fact in pretty much every part of the world and every culture that women are attracted to status and wealth. 🤷
In my opinion it’s just status or else all people with money should have flocks of women going to them. Status is not necessarily money as it is relative social standing between people. This is the reason PUA guys get girls. They show status, not money!
I believe from what I can pick up on from what you are saying and your earlier posts on the forum, is that you don’t actually believe that the subliminal works on a deeper unconscious level. It’s alright to seek inspiration from others, but it seem like you are looking for answers outside of yourself, and thus further reaffirming your self-limiting doubts in that these subs actually works for you.
Many of those that you see have crazy results in here and have that “flow-factor,” is those who has gotten out of their own way, and just trusting the process. If you have been running Wanted for a long time and now you are disappointed with the results, how is that mindset helping you?
Turn it around and say to yourself instead that I will run it for as long as it takes. The program is trying to reverse your actual belief systems 180 degrees, that’s the paradox in it. Luther explains it pretty good in one of his old posts that I bookmarked 
Simply by not believeing it to work and get frustrated, is the reason for it not working and taking so long time to see results. This is just constructive feedback from me, and obviously just my opinion. But I have been there too where I always were doubting my results… and that doubt is for sure making your subconscious ignore much of the script.
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That is a really good perspective. And please don’t hesitate with going harsh on me as I feel I may need this at this age. I need that tough love sometimes haha!!
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This is an interesting topic because I’ve heard people contradict this by saying,
‘You don’t need money for women as long as you are an ambitious, strong man and she can see you will be something in the future.’
But both sides have truth to them. If your young, would she expect you to have loads of money?
Start looking at ways of improving your mindset towards subs and your belief in them. Look at Yazooneh journal, he has really started to kick some ass with the subliminals lately. He talks a bit what actually changed for him, and also how he started to incooperate daily gratitude exercises and other things. Look into different kind of meditation and journaling, be creative, and be open minded.
There’s also the more hardcore way of going deep into healing titles only for a while, takes longer but cleares a lot of things for you. I did a full run of Dragon Reborn back in 2021 which really helped me a lot.
@Melody : This is true but then the guy is on the clock. If after some time that money is not coming in, she’s out. Why do you think money (or lack thereof) is one of the main causes of divorce?
@WinglissStark is talking about status but status has an expiration date. A guy can be as high status as he wants, if there is no financial stability, the clock is already ticking.
EDIT : Kanye West said it best: I ain’t sayin’ she’s a gold digger but she ain’t messin’ with no broke!
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look… i say this with love… but…
you sound like a somewhat needy/attached person.
there’s an extreme amount of uncertainty within yourself. when you try to focus on money, it seems like you look at dating and your lacking-in-life there… when you focus on dating, you feel a lack of confidence because of your money and think constantly about how you’re lacking in life there…
even both of these statements show how you’re not trusting yourself, and are asking other people not just for advice, but for the “truth” as if what they say is right, and what you say is wrong.
heal THAT tendency. forget about dating, forget about money. focus on your internal sense of self.
run ascension, exclusively… not even ascended mogul.
ascension will give you the fastest results in confidence, and it will give you a core to start making your own decisions from.
this is the issue. ESPECIALLY the no washouts thing.
so… ascension will help with that too, wanted kinda makes you lazy.
run ascension, make a clear plan for your life and goals, and make 1 professional goal and 1 personal/social goal (some hobby to join)
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Also, LBFH would be good for that.
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100% true, just trying to keep things simple.
One recommendation is better than a stack, and ascension will help the confidence and money and dating DIRECTLY while LBFH will help confidence directly, but money and dating only indirectly, so ascension is the best solo stack.
However if u wanna add onto the stack, lots of great options exist… LBFH, GLM, and Chosen come to mind.
It depends on your living conditions and financial situation.
If you’re homeless, then you would obviously prioritize money.
Do you live comfortably? Are you financially independent? Are you struggling to pay bills? If you don’t have your life put together as a man, then you shouldn’t be focusing on women.
When you prioritize money, it can happen really fast because of focus + sexual transmutation.
Most people who financially struggle are pissing away their sexual energy when they don’t understand how powerful it is in helping them meet their financial goals. It’s literally one of the most creative, motivating and driving forces that we all have access to and when harnessed you become a goal sniper.
Abstinent people are dangerous, lmao. Tesla and all of them, hahahaha.
Anyways, this is my opinion of what you should do.
Dating and Money. That’s basically wealth and sex life.
2 areas of your life, right.
You need clear goals.
Dating goals:
- Make first approach
- Get a girlfriend
- Have sex once
Whatever you want, just have something clear that is a marker of progression in this area of your life.
Money goals:
- Make X amount of money
- Get a job raise
- Start a business
Again, whatever you want.
Now, you can split up your focus into 50/50 and attain both. Then you wouldn’t have to prioritize. There are men who improve their financial life by day and improve their dating life by night. You don’t necessarily have to be tunnel-visioned on one or the other. There are subliminals that encompass multiple areas of your life, such as Emperor for example.
That can work for some people but not everyone.
If you are the type of person that prefers to focus on 1 area of your life at a time, then I would commit to a progression strategy where:
Say you have zero income and zero sex life.
Money = 0
Dating = 0
I would focus on money, since security is higher priority on Maslows.
Meet a benchmark/checkpoint of progression (landing a job, landing an income, making x amount)
Then switch over to dating.
Meet a benchmark/checkpoint of progression (asking someone out, getting laid, getting a girlfriend)
Then switch over back to money.
Meet a benchmark/checkpoint of progression (doubling income, getting a raise at your job)
Switch over back to dating (develop sex skills, get another girlfriend)
Basically you keep alternating your focus on areas of life, keep meeting new goals and ultimately keep progressing.
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Would that apply to a 22-year-old man?
and that’s funny