What do you think about your girlfriend having male friends?
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normal
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If i had a girlfriend and i could trust her i wouldn’t give a flying f*** lol. I am not a jealous person nor do i care about sheep. I also would have female friends that she would have to be ok with lol. I know my worth and know what i can pull… If she breaks that trust thats the end of that and i’d move on…
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Red flag. Break up with her : )
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What do you think about being friends with a girl who has a boyfriend?
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It really depends on the girl and the scale of her friendship. Does she have guy friends that she knows, and somewhat keeps in contact with but rarely sees? Or is she regularly hanging out with her guy friends without you?
Man either are fine. If you have a loyal girl, she can do anything. You don’t fuck someone on accident. Having friendships is great. No matter the gender combination. Talk it out together. Set a clear boundary of what you both are comfortable with and live on. Sure she can have male friends who will secretly wish they could fuck her but guess what… she can still talk to them and it’s up to her where to draw a line.
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To each their own. I wouldn’t date a girl who regularly hangs out with dudes. But everyone got their own preferences.
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This is key
Also boundaries are important in any relationship and friendship
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Look online , plenty of tests which prove male friends either couldn’t smash them upon meeting them first time or waiting in the friendzone for that golden opportunity 
Does she eat too bro?
Definitely a red flag, but doable if the sex is good. Just not wife material
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Is your girlfriend physically attractive? If she is, her male “friends” will try to f!ck her at some point. Men will be men. Those “friends” could be just waiting for an opportunity.
The only exception I would make is if they’ve been very long time friends or if they grew up together. Anything else than that, those guys are waiting to f!ck your girl. She might pretend not to see it, but you should be aware of what the situation is.
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That’s a great perspective, because I do trust her I just don’t like the idea
She is the most beautiful girl in the world, objectively 8/10.
She have 2 male friends, one is gay so whatever and the other is her best friend her first friend from childhood who never tried anything on her and he him self been with many other girls but never tried anything with her.
So saying it like this I should probably just let it be
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Even if any of her male friends wanted her, she has her own will. She can make her own decisions. I’m glad you feel secure with her in terms of trust. That’s very good. At the end of the day no guy is gonna fuck her until she’s gonna make that choice. Just like you won’t fuck a female friend or college unless you make that decision too. There are many good things about having friends. Male and female. Don’t shelter yourself out of fear.
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Less about her and more about you.
That’s not shame.
When a house’s foundations need reinforcement, every breeze that blows is a threat.
In that situation, it is wise to be wary of the breeze.
But even wiser to strengthen the foundations.
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The foundations are my self confidence and ability to trust?
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I do trust her completely, I guess I’m just old fashioned or maybe even primitive and it’s definitely out of fear.
Yeah I think that’s natural. The great thing is to know the difference from a feeling and what you actually know and see outside. To have more calm mind about it. Reinforce what you already know and question it. You’re doing great. No one here can tell you if her friends are a thread. We don’t know your situation. You see it. You know it. General advices don’t work as much as we would hope in terms of relationships. They are so diverse from person to person.
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Bruh, trying to get people to break up LMAO
And to ask answer the question no problem because if you have a problem with males friends then it’s a trust issues
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