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Why isn’t it possible to heal in a less traumatic way?

Can’t healing, growth, and transformation be a pleasant process, tinged with joy all throughout and marked by a feeling of levity?

This is the pivot I began making a few months ago, thanks to my therapist incessantly banging on the drum of being less demanding and perfectionistic with myself, and now Regeneration is further hammering home that it IS possible for me to grow through happiness and joy and in a relaxed way, rather than through pain, trials, and tribulations.

They are two different paths that end at the same destination, but one is a march with a ruck sack through the dark, winding road in the scary forest, while the other is a stroll on the beach with your toes in the sand, the sun on your face, and the sound of the waves carrying you forward.

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I’m talking specifically about me. You can heal in whatever way you see fit.

And it’s not traumatic, it’s liberating, if you have the courage to face it. And it IS about courage, because the strength for that is in everyone.

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I understand, I’m not trying to get you to change, only bringing a different perspective to the conversation and sharing insights I’ve recently stumbled across.

Wholeheartedly agree with you there.

Pain will always be a part of life, and HOW we respond to it is important.

We can face pain and struggle with courage, faith that we’ll come out the other side stronger, and inner peace.

Or we can let it steam roll us and still come out the other side stronger eventually…

Sometimes there is no choice and it steam rolls you whether you want it to or not.

But how you approach it colors the outcome, no doubt.

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I understand where you’re coming from – this is a philosophical issue that I grappled with myself. I have always experienced intense growth, these almost unsurmountable obstacles that I somehow managed to fight through and experienced massive inner change afterward.

However, I began to recognize that it wasn’t the trial itself that generated growth, but rather the wisdom I developed when self-reflecting about the trial. I recognized that if I develop my own consciousness and awareness of the patterns in my life, then I could derive meaning from the mundane events of life. That the everyday “boring” moments in life carried just as much wisdom as those intense experiences.

Crisis arrives after an individual has ignored a problematic pattern for too long, leading to a moment of breakdown, where emotional catharsis assists to release that pattern. But if I become calm, focused and aware, I could sense the pattern within the mundane before it builds to crisis and just as much meaning could be derived from that peaceful resolution. Hyper-intensity or breaking myself down to zero over and over becomes less helpful than having a stable, balance base to build upon.

For example, why would a person need to spend 10 years with an energy and life sucking narcissist to recognize that they need to have boundaries? Would having awareness of the pattern to attract these individuals, and using that developed awareness to transmute the pattern prevent it from happening in the first place?

It is the corporations and elites that perpetuate the idea that life must be intense for growth to occur, because a populace that cannot relax and grow is constantly distracted, immersed in societal drama, looking for meaning. The individual who has trained their nervous system, their mind, to remain calm regardless of what’s happening externally has true power, because we begin to see through the illusions of the world and turn back within the self for meaning rather than what’s out there.

There’s always something to be afraid of. 3I/Atlas or whatever. SNAP benefits ending as of this weekend. Mass hunger scare for the United States. Always some intense shittiness keeping your attention out there instead of what’s within. And then, we turn around and perpetuate that same thing to each other, forcing moments of intense breakdown and being convinced that this is the only way to grow. So, Dragon Reborn: Regeneration’s method of action metaphorically presents a very deep question: What if you said NO?

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Yes I have noticed some outward manifestations. I was actually thinking about this last night while I was at work. For the first time in a good while it feels like the universe is working for me rather than against me and things that benefit me just seems to happen.

I think its more so addressing the negative thoughts and paradigms that we have within us, which ends up making it easier to attract more positive things/events into our lives.

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Just to be clear, this kind of thing isn’t what I was talking about. But I understand your response was general, intended for everyone.

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Yes – to be clear, that wasn’t directed at you specifically, just making a philosophical connection between the way the collective tends to view growth and those at the top who perpetuate it.

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@SaintSovereign going through the most painful breakup of my life for almost a month, it doesn’t get better, is this the best title for it ?

Theoretically, yes. But you would have to proceed exceptionally slow, with deliberation and skill. Use microloops – a very short one of 10-15s to gauge your response.

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Everyone’s healing journey is unique, no two ways are the same.

I’ve heard long ago that progress is like a spiral, and it has been verified in my own experience.

I see it as a swim, I’m always going forward but sometimes I’m under the water holding my breath lost in the depth and the dark, it’s harder to swim, I’m not sure if I’m still going the right direction, it’s uncomfortable and cold and at some other times I come back up above water and see the warm light of the sun, I know where I am, where I’m going, how far I’ve gone, see everyone else around swimming and I’m having a blast breathing fresh air.

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Ok so this is kinda interesting and I’m gonna be keeping track of it.

But I noticed my coworkers around me all had way more calls today. Our phone system assigns to individuals who are idle the longest but a couple of times it skipped right over me.

I found myself thinking I wasn’t doing enough work and then quickly corrected that thinking and said to myself I’m just gonna hold this state that I don’t have to be part of that hectic busy energy and just have less phone calls today.

So like not only am I feeling more relaxed and at ease about not being “productive”, my external is starting to match that more.

I’m gonna turn this into a game for myself and see if I can keep manifesting easy work weeks consistently. It’s like being busy and working hard is put on a pedestal all the time and I’m sitting here like nahhhhhh not for me. Everyone else can get sucked into that, I’m good. I still feel this twinge of guilt and I know that’s just conditioning. Once I let go of that I’ll be free to perform this job at my own pace. If I have this magical bubble that swerves any incoming chaos or stressful events and people I’m all for it, I’ve learned what I’ve needed from those events and I don’t continuously need them in my life.

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I aspire to this level of inner calm lol

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Had an insane moment where i stumbled upon a prompt to use on chatgbt… but i used it on QWEN 3.0 since it has no limit and doesn’t get as dumb after many chats in the same conversation

” Ask me 10 questions that reveal things about myself that i am unaware of. Ask them 1 by 1 and don’t explain the reason behind them ”

If the prompt feels like it could reveal things about you… give it a try… you will feel many things, regretting the time and honesty you gave will not be one of em

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If you ever see me interacting with a computer in this way please shoot me no questions asked.

This idea a computer can tell you about yourself is spreading like a virus and so many gullible people are just getting hypnotized by the fancy sentences these programs can throw at you.

That reminds me of another mass hypnosis that happened not too long ago.

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As much as I am critical of some aspects of AI use, I think that what Saiyan4Blue means here is that you can use AI profitably the same way that you’d see a therapist. A therapist also doesn’t have direct access to your consciousness, but he can sometimes make suggestions or observations about some of the patterns you make visible that will be of surprising use to you. You do have to give it some info though, and be aware of the averaging nature of statistics in AI.
The computer is not telling you about yourself directly, but rather your mind can use what it spurts out to kickstart a revealing line of inquiry into yourself.

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@SoulFire The prompt isn’t about it guessing things about you. But asking questions about things one never considerd before

You would get that if you actually read what i said but i see you got other things going on. You can disagree and type whatever you want without sounding pretentious & insufferable

Don’t bother replying. I won’t be reading it

My comment is not directed at you, I’m simply sharing a perspective on the subject you mentioned, no need to get all heated, moving on.

Nine days later with DR:Regen.

The topic of loss is at the forefront of my mind right now. The pain it causes and the realization that you will lose everything over time. All the loved ones I have already lost and the pain associated with that. DR:Regen helps me to process and transform this pain.

Since I started with DR:Regen I have been dreaming about it a lot and experiencing this pain in my dreams. Now I can allow myself to feel it more consciously during the day.
It is not easy and it makes me very sad, but I can feel how this overwhelming pain is changing and transforming.

I also feel that everything is taking place in a safe emotional environment. I feel this sadness very clearly in my body and can even locate it. This allows me to assess its intensity well. I hope that in the next few days this intensity will diminish or transform into something else.

I find it very difficult to describe the process precisely. I am not particularly motivated to post here because so much is happening on an emotional level that I would rather be an observer. Nevertheless, I feel the need to share my experience here.

All in all, it is a very healthy and beneficial process that I am currently experiencing.

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Well, vacations are over and Im back at my hometown.
Heres an update of what DR Regeneration has been helping me uncover.

There were during my vacations, many moments in which I teared up at simple things, watching the ocean, watching the sun, walking on the wet sand, looking at palm trees, drinking some coconut water at the beach, you get the idea.

Those experiences held a deep, profound meaning a key to something that was closed and hidden within.

I kept living my life and enjoying my vacations with my friend, we had some deep talks and also laughed about some stupid non sense, I know her for over 2 decades and she was struggling hard emotionally, darkened by all the baggage.

I found myself enjoying life like a kid more and more, I grew up on the beach, so at one point it got pretty intense, the key opened up a part of me that was suppressed for so long I forgot it even existed, my very essence, the shoeless kid running on the beach, smiling free, unburdened by the world, untouched by any pain or any wound. Just fully and totally pure.

It was so strong and vivid I couldnt hold my tears, I remembered, I was free, the spell was gone, the decision of becoming a man, which implied saving others, fulfill others expectations, get approval from others in order to be of any value, was gone, the weight was gone. Just like that.

If that wasnt impressive enough… during those 2 weeks my friend was increasingly lowering her defenses, not because I did anything, but because I was there, present, listening, irradiating my essence. She began acting more and more as a little girl herself, giggling and having fun.

I could see her repressed essence too, also opening up. It was like she was unaware of the process of using her own key, to open up and awake herself. She was joyfully going for the ride.

When I was waiting on the plane yesterday morning it all became clear to me, all the pieces of the puzzle fitted together. I wrote her a long message of gratitude for inviting me to her home and explained her what happened to me. I also told her what I saw happening to her. She was moved to the very core, I saw her naked soul and confirmed what was intuitive to her.

Im reborn, I feel decades of tension melted away. I have no idea where all this is going to take me, but Im happy to have the opportunity to enjoy the ride.

As someone who has decades of experience on many different techniques and practices from the more “scientific” to the more “woo”. I can confidently say that the true meaning of enlightenment is way more simple and way more powerful.

Lose all the weight and let your essence express in full force.

Lets see where the ride takes me next.

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I feel like your post really highlighted the power of this part of the title:

Aura of Regeneration

Aura of Regeneration is a quiet energetic field that radiates from within—subtle, soothing, and deeply restorative. It isn’t performed or projected; it’s simply lived. By anchoring into your own calm, safety, and embodied ease, you emit a natural aura that helps others soften, slow down, and return to themselves.

In daily life, it works like a ripple — without words, without pressure. People feel safer near you, more relaxed, more able to access their own inner stillness. In inner work, it becomes a practice of quiet leadership: restoring not by force, but by presence. This is the spa made ambient — a felt sense of peace that moves outward, simply because you’re living it within.

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