I haven’t kept up with my journalling as of late but I have still been on my journey.
I finished cycle 2 of Khan Stage 1 so for now I’m dropping it for a while whilst I begin cycle 2 of Khan Stage 2 and EoG Stage 1. I’m dropping the former in favour of only running two stages rather than 3 in total. I’l come back to the healing eventually, it’s a necessity.
Anyway, I’ve noticed more confidence in myself and more self belief. During my healing stage I was getting things coming up such as anxiety, especially during dance performances, and Stage 2 is allowing me to fight back on that.
Rather than do what most do and just accept it, not necessarily embrace but accept because they don’t know better/feel helpless already, I’ve started affirming the opposite of whatever that anxiety or problem is telling me and I’m pushing towards my solutions without taking no for an answer. I’m not letting things stop me anymore.
Ultimately this is just a mental diet. It’s not ‘being positive’ all the time as that to me tends to mean a suppression of emotion however what I’m doing seems to be persistent in against what is shown or told to me using the mental strength I seem to be gaining from Khan.
I’m also able to say no easier. Something I always struggled with prior. Something I don’t want to do? No. I’m not doing it. Not anymore. Not people pleasing.
I’ve also been able to post on social media with Khan more now. I’m letting go of what people think about me. I can’t say the thoughts are completely gone because they aren’t but I’m posting regardless. The world can see me shine whilst the haters and those who think they know more about my life than I do can watch me soar.
It’s been magical so far and so much easier to run. Especially in comparison to Khan when I ran it in 2020 (I believe?). Recon city that. Especially Stage 2. I’ve barely had any recon if any, at least it isn’t noticeable.
I’ve also started to reinvent myself. I’m changing my style up, something that normally happens when I have a new sub such as Stark, Emperor or WANTED. I’m letting my hair grow out longer and seeing what I can do with it to enhance my looks. I’ve always let my hair be quiet short, for me, and unstyled because I didn’t ‘fit’ in but who cares about that now?
I’ve also started getting tattoos. I got a tattoo today (they were a gift on a voucher) and I’m starting to grow into a new style, the real style of what I want to wear regardless of what people think. I’m happy with it.
Just these little things are noticeable so far. There’s definitely more but either haven’t noticed or can’t remember however…continuing my journey on Khan. I think I’m going to stay on Stage 2 for another cycle after this one. I’m on cycle 3 of my Khan journey so far so I’m happy.
EoG I can’t speak much about but I know it’s working on my beliefs, along with my mental diet. Like I said, I’ll probably be sticking to Stage 1 for a while, I’ve got some things to work on with it. However I know it’s going to be just as transformational as Khan will be and currently is.