Nice, I like your suggestion. But isn’t it meant to be heard by both?
Wife has told me this before. “I do it sometimes to keep you happy”.
On a more negative mood day, she said she did it “So you’ll stop bugging me for it.”
Which, of course, felt like being stabbed at the time.
No real way to say something like that without it sounding like an insult.
Khan Black and Wanted Black have helped somewhat. She’s more physically affectionate but no real increase in actual sex.
So KB and WB can help for sure.
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Using KB, have you experienced a deeper sense of well-being, independent of whether or not you had sex?
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No. I still wanna dip my wick. I feel calmer about it. But it’s still there.
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Sounds like it’s not TOTALLY resolved but you did experience some deeper sense of well being? Feeling calmer about it is a level of improvement, if not total relief
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More a “choose your battles” mindset right now.
About not spinning my wheels.
Maybe in your next conversation about this, you can mention that sometimes you just like to touch her and feel her and that every time you show her physical affection doesn’t need to lead to sex, and as a matter of fact you don’t even expect it to, you just like loving on her
I think this will do a lot in decreasing that sense of internal pressure and anxiety she feels about whats going to happen next
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SUPERIORRRRRRR! 
Good book for this situation
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What?
Yes you are right. I’ve done this multiple time, in words and on a physical level (only sometimes, I feel frustrated as I said before. And I think it’s more the fear of finding myself in the same situation I was in with my ex)
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I did that as well.
I stepped into my relationship as a full porn addict, being completely open about it.
I worked my way out of the addiction with her help (we’ve met at our life coach training). When I had a relapse (2 times) it shattered her trust in me. Sex without trust is a no go for her, so no sex for 2 months.
Now, I’m sure that it’s a thing of the past, we were very close again, when she doubtet me again and her trust broke because of a misunderstanding.
So I decided to add in SSX to bridge this gap and it worked pretty fast. I was able to talk to her and get to her on a deeper level. I attribute this to NRE scripting. We’re almost as close as before whereas it normally would have needed a few weeks to get so far.
Edit
I just asked her about it. We’re even closer them before this incident happened. Superior scripting
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Nice!
I’ve opened a support ticket too, cause I’m still unsure on what title would be best for me
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If the question isn’t to personal, it would be nice if you shared it in the support ticket thread once it’s answered
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@prioritas made a good suggestion and it reminded me of advice from the book “the way of the superior man” which is a really good book for a combination of personal masculinity and relationship communication balancing masculine and feminine
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I was listening to his program yesterday 
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This won’t be a problem with SSX. Not to mention, it helps heal and address any sexual issues. Mix it with KB and you have a powerhouse of healing that feels amazing – while developing your energetic channels.
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Thanks for your answer.
Regarding Divine Diamond that was suggested, should we both listen to it or is it enough for me to listen to it?
I would talk to your partner about it first and see if she’s interested.
My approach to talking about subs with my partner at first was pretty simple. I don’t go too in-depth. I just said hey babe I got a Hipnosis track that’s good for connecting, I can play it by myself, but if you’re cool with it, I’d like to play it around U2 every once in a while. You don’t have to do anything, it just sounds like reign, you can’t hear the hypnosis, do you wanna hear what it sounds like so I can show you?
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This was actually the reason for my question
I wouldnt call it hypnosis i would go with positive affirmations