I’m going through change. I made a major decision yesterday for me. And I’ve not posted about it since I’ve given in to other’s suggestions here repeatedly.
Part of me still craves other’s acceptance, but a growing part of me is not backing down.
I woke up yesterday listening to my feelings. No major crisis looming. I just felt a little fragile. So I skipped CFW and AC, choosing to listen to Ascension by itself. I needed some strength.
I had little awareness of changes throughout the day…but I had no desire to go home and deny reality by doing usual behaviors.
I imagined the public library where I used to hide a lot years back. I dismissed it a couple of times, but while driving home I chose to listen to this, so I went. I thought “why not?”
I increasingly wanted to feel safe. I found a small study desk, and I planted myself. I was in the mindset to stand up for myself by making different choices.
And with this mindset, I also needed to feel safe. I remembered I had room for another loop, and I was immediately drawn to DR. I’ve been drawn to it multiple times, and I ignored it since I’ve always sought other’s advice on my choices.
I felt insecure thinking of other people’s disapproval if I went with DR. But I turned on an ultrasonic loop and let it soak in. I listened to AC right after.
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I’m tired of acting and believing like I’m a child.
That’s why I’m using DR. I’ve allowed this to happen, and noone else is responsible for changing this.
My defensiveness will drop in time. Not today. I’ve got to grow through this.