hahahah, i almost felt that today or its like slowly happening i dont know how to explain
but being in control of your orgasm is pure presence and its way up high skilled
having sexual intercourse and not have your mind on just wanting to orgasm and finish with this good feeling, instead your enjoying the love rather than the want to end with a huge orgasm, if someone can do this kind of sexual intercourse where his focus is on the love rather than the after math
he has reached very enlighten sexual intercourse, we as humans generally are focused on the aftermath, sex is like a very animalsh thing, not animalsh in sense of act, but in sense of no brain when doing so
when having sex, your mind changes into this lust of just wanting to finish and cum and orgasm into a no-mind state,. but when its turned into this present intercourse of being in the moment and not worrying about the volacano happening anytime soon cuz you cant hold it, thats when it becomes something very lovely
as osho says, sex should not be in your head,
sex mastrey looks promising, its a bonus for me though its not something i was looking for, but sure more good is always good if it helps with my journey