Hey @Azriel
This is probably reconciliation, but how do you find HoM regrading women attraction. The first attraction and MAINTAINING that attraction(the push pull and the emotional roller coaster stuff and everything, overall the seduction).
On HoM I am positive, laughing…I worry if it kills the attraction hahah
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My focus is not on attraction or dating at all.
With HOM I’m on EOG stage 2and Emperor and lately on True Sell.
Pre- True Sell- my attraction and interest was strong, on true sell is even stronger.
I get a lot of interest at the gym and at times have been super engaging with the woman I’m attracted to there. They light up and are super receptive.
HOM doesn’t kill attraction, if anything it can influence a relationship towards whatever direction you want -(from a distance or close) even romantic, the status also helps, it doesn’t have any sexual umph or seduction though.
You were not here at the time, but I ran HOM with PS once and a girl I used to know ended up knocking on my door cause she had moved to the neighborhood, heard I lived there and want help getting into her locked out house, we ended almost getting into a huge fight on the porch, I des-escalated it, then she just looked at me and was like ’ I want you right now’ we ended up hooking up and she spent the night.
So HOM is great with other seduction subs, in and of itself it’s not a sexual drive.
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Niiiice bro, Thanks for your help.
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Lot’s of great updates coming soon. As well as new journal
That said I’m here to move something for my alchemical process
I have to consciously vent and get some emotion out.
THIS IS A RANT AND RECON just letting it out:
I am so FXXXING annoyed. I keep getting incredibly close to really nice- to game changing
wins- and it occurs like nothing is landing. I’m still floating a few thing but stuff keep slipping through.
I don’t know what it’s going to take to finalize some of these projects, deals, contracts
but I am really pissed off. I’ve been working on many things for months, and some new things more recently and literally nothing is just landing or closing. I’ll look at myself and my performance as I have been but I find myself in uber judgement mode of the situations, of my self, and just have to vent it subliminals
I keep saying ‘with this edge and firepower’ this shit should land given all other factors. I put in the work, I take action like crazy, I recalibrate, I work on quantity and quality. I don’t know wtf is up.
My big contacts and great relations are being flaky.
Opportunities are coming in and I know a part of that is subs- and then I’m judging myself for not being able to make the most of it. Anyone just getting that out
I’m aware I may be seeing the worst right now
EMPTYING OUT 
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thanks @Tobyone
Emptying out good
closed $25K in sales today. With pendings and new leads on my way to 50k+
Day 2 week 1
average is 6-10K in first 2 weeks for new people.
It’s crazy- first step of victory in this area
now out to cause victory in Biz dev.
So my goal is 100K sales a week in one role -sales
and 5 million in capital sourced in the other- Biz Dev
Out to cause victories in both this week.
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hey bro,
i came across some interetsing posts you made about nofap.
you said this just over 2 years ago.
do you stand by this in the ZP era?
also, are you saying nofap helps you get better subliminal results overall on all titles or only on sex related titles like primal seduction, libertine.etc…
or are you syaing you get better results even from subs that have nothing to do with sex when on nofap?
also, what is your definition of nofap?
and how long after you are on your version of nofap do you start to see increased subliminal results?
can you please share what you are talking about here?
@TheQuestion I’m sure I’ve made this joke before but
You really live up to your name
I’ll get to all of this
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Keeping this journal from non direct pupose/new stack related musings
Not sure if Emperor bloom, but I am horny AF!
I feel like I’m just winning at everything. Maybe a testosterone thing.
I’m actually present to where I judge myself as a loser and practice labeling that as my Judge.
This helps with winning momentum. Credit the book *Positive Intelligence ***
There are people who say reading is key to success and people who say it’s a waste of time just focus on what matters. I can’t tell you how valuable I find reading. I read/ listen- (often both) 4-6 books a month and it just makes connecting everything in life easier. And then of course you get your practical nuggets. I plan on re-reading a lot.
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thank you bro.
and please do not hesitate to let me know if you start to feel im annoying with all the questions.
as i ahve said before almost all my time in recent 1-2 months here has been spent reading your old posts.
i have found them super helpful even resulting in me suddenly getting significant results form titles that at first did not do much because i read a post where you explained what the title does and then it seems to make something click in mind and knowing what to expect then seems to get results.
stark sat on my computer for nearly 2 years and after reading some of your posts on it, it might be the best title i have ever used if things keep doing the way they have recently.
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Your totally good man.
That’s one of my 
powers
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bro i honestly cannot believe how good you are at explaining things.
im honestly in awe the more i read your posts.
i literally spend 99% of my time here reading your old posts and i cannot overstate how helpful it has been.
regarding the above:
you have again verbalize perfectly something i have known for a while but never could explain in such an eloquent way.
what title would you recommend if i want to experience this physical visceral sexual attraction more often when im around women?
I have experienced it randomly a few times and like you said it kills approach anxiety completely but i can never experience that state regularly. what title is best for this in your experience?
in the past i have mostly tried to achieve this using various nofap protocols and it did not really work but maybe combined with the write title it is possible.
"Yeah those questions that hit deep are always annoying and a pain in the ass.
I’m going to ask more follow up, probably a thorn in your side, feel free to tell me to pound sand. Someone asking me uncomfortable questions gave me clarity and has accelerated my growth along with subs.
- What is your definition of unrecognizable level of freedom, abundance, and choice?
What does it feel like, look like, smell like, taste like, etc.
What current emotions do you feel when you think about this vision? What emotions do you want to feel when you have embraced this vision and have become it?
- Same exact questions for #2
I apologize for further recon hell. Questions tend to do that."
Azriel:
No recon hell, certainly not from any questions.
A deep question is not a problem or a pain in the ass to me.
Will consider these and journal on them. I’ll tag you if I do it here.
(edited for simplicity )
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100%. It is crazy how much stronger subs are for me with ‘no fap’.
No fap to me is the wrong term though. No porn and no to minimal ejaculation is sufficient.
Periods of no self pleasuring and no porn can ramp up the intensity. But I find minimal ejaculation- 1x every few weeks to be sufficient.
I actually was getting pelvic pain, and in my balls and all over the region. And this super hot female urologist gave me a long explanation of how important blowing my load was and showed me how to best where my underwear. Not joking it was hilarious.
Anyway I took her advice and found that to be optimal for me.
If your lying in bed and want to edge a little before you pass out fine. But if you find yourself going to masterbate throughout the day it’s too much. For the purposes of what I find beneficial at least.
I find this harness the energy of subs and I see and feel them much more strongly.
I don’t want people getting in their head about porn having such an impact. it might not for other people but for me, non-extremely consciously chosen ejaculation and porn drop my powers for sure for a bit at least.
This is on ALL TITLES for me. Not just sexual. In fact sexual titles are the least effected by this in my opinion.
Except my energy and intention are so strong now, it’s like I can direct people straight into my internal world. This may be a consequence of HOM and True Sell, but everywhere I go it’s like everyone is my best friend, and their super receptive to me or I can ‘open’ them quite easily.
I find when I have just a smidge of shame or offness- I can feel people feeling it and the incongruence. Porn can lead to a kind of ‘grasping’ energy and the more powerful you are energetically, the more this becomes an issue.
Multiple woman I’ve slept with have made the comment laughingly about knowing when I’ve gone on porn or not during different times we knock boots.
I always see results or recon right away.
The above mentioned pelvic pain. I believe I could go without ejaculating now though with the level of intensity of my workouts. At that time I was not in the gym much.
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Just reviewing your custom: The Wolf.
And then your HOM custom
You said
" When I got back to my office I had a client who I thought I lost waiting at the door, and closed the deal. About an hour later had the same thing happen, a client who I thought I had lost came back and I had closed it within 15 minutes. This is all within about the first two hours of my work day and I had already tied my record of 3 deals in one day. Ended up with 4 by the end of the day as after the deal theirs a lot of paperwork/ finance to go through which takes up the bulk of my time but still my record of deals on one day! Pretty stoked as I thought switching my sub to something more purely financially based instead of social skills would affect my sales ability, when in fact I felt sharper than ever. HoM is really the perfect sales sub I felt my ability to build rapport, and connection while still leading and being in control and closing the deal was at its absolute peak."
This has been more my experience with HOM.
I’m dropping HOM this week and testing RICH, True Sell, and EOG stage 3.
I have a feeling it may be a great stack.
EOG stage 3 seems great for sales as well. Super intentional and productive. High octane.
Keep my in the loop on Stark. Very curious. And would love to run that over HOM with it’s other bells and whistles.
when you say few, do you mean 2 weeks or 5 weeks.
few can be a big range at least the way i look at it.
can you please be more specific?
3-5 weeks.
You have to test yourself though.
My friend masterbates to porn twice a day and blows his load.
He gets laid like a rockstar and has a poly amorous life.
Does sex parties and everything.
Could he be even greater without that, maybe.
Maybe it works for him.
You can try my method, but find what works for you.
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i agree 100%.
i would never just assume what works for someone else will work for me.
and honestly, i have no plans to try this anytime soon as for me nofap has almost always counterproductive.
but i was just curious how it went for you.
thank you for clarifying the timeframe.
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For sure.
To me it’s not a matter of abstaining or taking any discipline. It’s what my body wants.
What works best for you in this domain?
if im trying to work on my finances/career then what works best is ejaculating 5-6 times per week. anything less then that and my mind is too preoccupied with sex and negatively impacts my ability to focus on money.
if im trying to work on sex/women then it’s more complicated and i still im not really sure what works best but if i was forced to choose i would say ejaculating at least 2-3 times per week is best. but again for this aspect i need to do more testing.
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my hope with nofap when it comes to women/sex if to find a way to constantly stay in the physiological state you described here.
btw, what title helps with getting in this type of physiological state for you?