I want to break up in way that wouldn’t look like I broke up because of her physicality and body structure.
Ah okay. It’s not uncommon for guys to have a porn habit in a relationship and have issues with comparing their girl to the ones in the videos.
Yes. But you have to be frank with her about being non-exclusive. Just tell her that you are not looking to be serious right now. And be ready whether she accepts it or not.
This is part of being outcome independent. If she doesn’t accept, you have to be ready to let her go.
If she accepts, she is free to date others too.
Don’t think too much about it. It will be a bit difficult the first time you do it. But I promise you, it gets easy after a while when you date more women and understand that she is not the only one who is attractive, feminine and have any other feature you want.
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Thank you.
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Never tried this method allowing the girl you make love to date other guys . Is it that easy to do ?
Can this be moved to the appropriate place?
It is when you are dating others.it is difficult when you are only dating her.
Yes. @SWITCH. Please move this thread to Questions and Comments section.
EDIT: I think the Emperor’s Lounge is better.
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Maybe I read this wrong so she cheated on you in the past and got pregnant ? If so especially with ur preferences it’s definitely time to move on
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As that point I cheated her too though.
The taught of me knowing that someone is having sex with the person am having sex with will actually leave me restless.
I would rather choose dating a girl at a time. I have tried dating multiple girls before though.
All relationships run it’s course some sooner then later this one sounds like it’s run it’s course
Up to you, my friend.
The thing about dating one woman at a time is that they control whether you have sex or not. If you date multiple women, then if one woman won’t have sex with you, you call another.
Anyways, you choose what you want. That’s up to you.
Regardless of what dating style you choose, please focus on other areas of your life.
Good luck, 
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I saw a few stories on YouTube about very slim girls who started going to the gym and bam they became hotties, baddies whatever you can call them.
So maybe you can create a mutual habit and go to the gym together. It will strengthen your bond and also create better looking bodies.
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This confused me, are you an imperial or metric system 
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First and foremost this is not a good approach, the need for a change must from her in the first place, not from anyone else.
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Metric system.
Her BMI is unhealthy. That’s a valid reason to improve but basing it on your buddies joking around is dumb. They shouldn’t disrespect you like that. Anyway, she slept around with someone else while sleeping with you. Obviously, it wasn’t just three times and they did it raw coz she got pregnant. She did it with you raw several times so why wouldn’t she with someone else? She’s a liar. That’s a dealbreaker for me. Do you want STD risks or raising a child you don’t know is yours? It’s not worth it. You don’t love her anymore. You are just keeping her for sex. Just break it off, man. You will find someone else. You will get laid. If not right now, so what? Just improve your life. It will come.
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You’re getting a lot of blunt input here.
1 I’m thinking her weight is something that is regarding her health, and her health status is something discussed between her and her health care provider. I realize some people are simultaneously healthy and naturally skinny, but again I think that is for her health care provider to discuss with her.
2 Your friends are disrespecting you and her. Don’t you want friends who are supportive and respectful?
3 I wonder if you have some inner conflicts about the following topics: valuing your friends’ negative opinions, how you feel about how she looks, and what’s important to you in a romantic partner. A number of people have indicated the importance of sorting this out.
4 My question to you is: what is/are the cause(s) of all this? For example, how did you end up with friends who are disrespectful towards you and her?
Have a think about it.
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They are my classmates.