This!
Truth!
Thank you.
I needed to hear this.
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I’ve decided to start my wash out tomorrow. Todays my last listening day.
Feels like the best choice.
I don’t know when I’ll start up again, but considering a custom possibly going forward or the stack I was mentioning. No pressure & no rush to decide just yet.
Taking @SaintSovereign advice here!
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Day 20 of 21 day stack cycle.
Holy dream land last night.
I was highly energized before bed. Reading about prosperity.
Fell asleep with lots of dreaming to commence. Tossed & turned. Dreamed that @Trader was concerned. He was saying how quickly things have changed for me last few days. Notably my physical appearance. My first thought was I was going to die. Like I was wasting away. It was so strange.
I felt super conscious and became almost lucid. Shifted gears.
I’ve experienced dreams like before with other subs too.
Must be death of old self as I shift into my new identity.
I felt really “high” off life in the evening. Nothing was going to knock me from my state.
Woke up feeling it too.
My 3 year old is so pleasant this morning. All smiles at dance class. I’m enjoying a 3 mushroom coffee & it tastes divine.
Everyone’s being super lovely with me.
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To add:
My bf switched his stack to PCC & Primal Seduction. Dropped Rebirth & LB. I got triggered by this & wasn’t very kind in response.
He’s been providing financially mostly for the time being & it looks like he’s trying to make it transactional. Almost like a covert contract. If he does ________ he will get ______.
I am someone who just does things for people because it feels good.
I don’t want to feel like I have to do things for him in order for the financial support to continue while I’m studying & building up the business stuff.
I’d love some feedback here.
I didn’t realize relationships were transactional & if one expects something the other should be expecting things too. Hmm 
He acted like he genuinely wanted to support me the ways he is able to while I move through this new transition since leaving my career.
He periodically says that he worries I’m only with him for money or the main reason I am with him. On one hand he says he trusts me & on the other he says this. It’s contradictory.
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You look very pretty.
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Thank you 
I wish my blue light glasses weren’t glaring though lol
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Frankly, without them, you look better.
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Well number 1 sign of stack switching is definitely recon. I’d ask him what made him feel like he needed to switch. It sounds like something came up in his mind from rebirth, maybe some past history with people using him for his money or taking advantage of him. So he felt the need to hop on PCC to make sure it doesn’t happen again. And now he’s voicing these concerns with you. It definitely sounds like he’s stuck in something.
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I’m good on that 
I got through 1.5 cycles of DR1 last year. That was plenty for me. Bahahah
In that case, you are good, and no matter what is some semi-god Achilles and godly handsome man under the sun and another sun in the near galaxy telling you about 
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Any suggestions?
Thats your answer… and in my opinion most likely why he switched to PS. He seems to be looking for validation.
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He should probably listen to LBFH and be sure of himself.
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Is it possible Rebirth was too much for him?
Normally I’m against stack switching, but sometimes it’s necessary if there’s a wall you can’t get past or you need to decrease intensity a bit.
And like @Joa23 said adding PS might have been his attempt to shift from that mindset of only being valuable for his money.
But personally I think PS is a really roundabout way to give himself some self love or validation. It also kind of cements the idea of a favorable reaction from someone else making him feel worthy which is a slippery slope.
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It definitely was too much for him. (Rebirth)
I don’t feel PS was the best choice for right now.
We are going to be exploring couples hypnotherapy/NLP with a wonderful therapist i found online.
I’m just at a loss here for how to approach this with him. I want to be his gf, not his coach or therapist.
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We started dating when I listened to the experimental version. He listened with me & it was amazing while it lasted, until he felt like the subs were brainwashing him & I.
Last week before switching his stack, he made a comment that maybe he’s too effed up for me.
Just give him GLM to man up.
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That’s totally understandable. Is there an expectation from him that you need to support him more? Or do you feel an urge to that you have to keep in check for your own mental health?
This is really hard to deal with. I say this because I had to grow out of this mentality. The tendency to isolate and push away. There’s unfortunately nothing you can say or do to change those types of patterns. It has to come from within them.
It’s funny you mention he said LBFH felt like he was being brainwashed. It sounds like he was being taken so far out of his comfort zone of feeling broken he didn’t know how to respond. Maybe love bomb instead? The “for humanity” part can get tricky I’ve found if you don’t have the best relationship surrounding people.
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