Dreams while using subs are like the Alice in Wonderland story.
At the end of it, it’s revealed that everything is just a dream, but she is still benefiting from the character development she went through. Waking up as a better person after she worked through the knots that was resolved in the dream.
That seems fantastical, but getting a dream from subs is like experiencing a good fraction of it
You go through a journey in the dream, resolving many blockages in your subconscious, gaining clarity & positive traits. After that, you wake up more confident, robust, with new perspectives in life.
The dream i had a year ago about being in a loving romantic relationship is probably the most influential i’ve had. It opened up my view about what’s possible to experience. With how uptight i was, there was no way to show me such such a pure emotional perspective except for it to be in a dream.
i didn’t act on it immediately, it was only in the last few months that i let loose a little that it starts to influence my decisions. With my stack now, i have experienced that pure feeling in that dream more than once in real life. This is probably the most accurate i can write down what i experienced with WB.
It’s always hard to put it into words.
I can write it exactly as is, but it can’t convey what i went through the way i experienced it. But i think this is as close to accurate as i can express it.
A dream like experience that’s so out of what’s ordinary for me that it feels like i’m in my version of a wonderland. A pure feeling of closeness, openness, & bliss. I think i wrote once above that i like this more than the sexual results, and i still stand by it.
It would be cool to have a sub that focuses on this, but I can’t even put a label on what this is. It’s not really love, not really camaraderie, not really familiarity, it’s something i first felt intensely in a dream. I think “deep connection” is the best term to describe it? The closest equivalent i can think of, though not as deep, is when you’re sitting with your significant other in your living room in a sunday afternoon being in the moment just enjoying eachother’s company.