Si Señor - exactamente 
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I agree with others that you should heal your traumas, release and forgive yourself and others. Then don’t think about it anymore. When you think about an unpleasant situation from the past you are essentially giving it energy. Focus on what you want. Write down what you want in a partner. What you focus on today prepaves what is coming in your future.
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Did you give Heartsong a try?
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I didn’t, in the future I will, right now I should heal myself first.
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To add to my previous post, yes healing subs will help. If you were to make that your main focus my preferred M.O. would be a full run through DRR/LB one cycle per stage and go from there.
Attending a healing ceremony/retreat combined with the guidance of a therapist that you resonate with would be an extra form of “Taking Action” to support the subs. A guided breathwork session can do wonders too.
That sure helped me heal a core issue that I thought I would need ayahuasca for and now I don’t need to go that route. My outside help didn’t come until DRRST4 but knew my healer lady long before that.
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Yes I did one cycle of Emperor and now I’m starting Emperor + Dragon Reborn stage 1.
I don’t really believe in therapy since I tried many different therapist and cbt and they never helped.
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Ever tried Wanted Black 
?
Yes I did, helped me attract another crazy girl
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Well Heartsong got healing too. Maybe read the copy and decide if that would resolve your situation. If not DR or Khan TB it up.
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You like 'em, ehh? 
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Maybe they like me
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That implies the existance of trauma free girls, Im not sure that exists 
Jokes aside…
I dont ask that type of question to myself anymore, I assume that theres things that need to be worked on and that the process is on-going. So Im always improving myself in some kind of way.
What happens is the more balance you get in your life, the less you are interested in trouble, in any way, shape or form.
Things that attracted you unconsciously are no longer attractive, things you didnt care much before, become interesting and desirable.
Where are you meeting girls? IIRC you work as a bartender, right? Meeting girls in bars is more likely that you meet girls who like to party, get drunk and hook up, more often than not, those girls are trouble.
There are other places in which you can meet woman that are more resolved and see self growth as a path in life.
Again IIRC you were going to do that a while ago, then days later you said F it and changed to WB or something like that.
Which to me speaks about running away from doing the work.
This is all my opinion and I reserve the right to be wrong.
Hope it helps.
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I work as a waiter but I don’t flirt with customers, I kept my ex gf on my last job place she was a waitress too and the last girl I met on my current job she is a waitress too, maybe the problem is waitresses.
From recon I wanted to change my stack, opened a journal but at the end I stayed on the stack, I’m currently on my 2nd cycle of Emperor and first cycle of DR stage 1 (I mean I did one cycle of DR stage 1 a month ago I think)
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Are these women with traumatic pasts ready and willing to work on themselves? Healing is an ongoing journey that has greater success with honesty, openness, and willingness to change!
I don’t think there’s a single person in this world that hasn’t endured some form of trauma in their lives and I feel like a lot of people aren’t even aware of it and run on auto pilot with these unconscious programs in the background. 
If you find a woman who is honest and open and willing to put in the work, then I think she’s a catch…
When I worked with a therapist before, I got really clear on my nonnegotiable and negotiables in a relationship, and that helped me gain more clarity and to prioritize when meeting men.
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Well the girls I were with didn’t work on it or wanted to
Don’t let this become your identity though, this is a version of yourself you would like to shift from. Visualize a future-self liberated from what you want to be free of, instill pleasent feelings into this vision.
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So you can do some revisions to your self concept…
Ask yourself: What am I agreeing with about myself and my relationships?
Get totally honest with yourself and then make changes within.
LB and Phoenix really helped me with this!
Edit: pulled a card for you:
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Betrayed heart… Seems about right.
My heart have been broken and betrayed many times, not even mostly by romantic partners but by family, friends and my father.
Can’t trust anyone.
Follow the heart healing prompt for 7 days?
Didn’t you listen to love bomb & Phoenix? Or am I mixing you up with someone else
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Yes I will thanks 
I did Phoenix for one cycle when it came out and also did LBFH for one cycle with GLM but that was on the first month of 2023.
Right now I’m doing Emperor + DR.
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