If it matters or not depends upon you, can you take something out of it for you so your life gets better or is it just a distraction.
By role model or mentor I don’t mean putting somebody on a pedestal or build a shrine and worship that person. I know that every person is of flesh and blood, every person has positive and negative aspects.
For example take David Goggins, amazing what he has accomplished on an athlete level, where he came from and where he went. But I would not ask him for advice on relationships. It is more like “this thing I think is hindering me from my success” and then take another perspective from the mentor or role model and see how they would do it, what solutions come up from their thinking.
Of course that is an exercise for which you have to be flexible with your thinking, you have to leave your own truth and accept that there are other truths out there (and by truth I just mean beliefs of how the world works).