What sub would you/someone still need if you truly love yourself? 
Interesting. Haven’t read that book, but it doesn’t surprise me. One of my best friends is healing his inner nice guy atm, and he’s plagued with lower body pain similar to what you’re describing. So it’s almost like the “nice guy” mind set causes your body to reflect how you feel about yourself?
i agree with this. after using LBFH I’m not afraid to be nice anymore. it’s a great experience sharing love with people in various ways.
LBFH shows me how to be nice while still respecting myself. like ouroboros said, with LBFH, you’re not going to be nice because you lack something like validation. you’re going to be nice because you’re overflowing with abundance. it’s a really unique form of freedom.
being nice will feel really good, help you grow, and the people around you will respect you for it