Which actions can we take to get Women?

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#1

Hi,

I’m new here and on my first cycle of the Ascension program.

So we must take action for the things we want.
For example to get a new job, I can study and send CV’s.

So the question is, for getting sex or a new girlfriend, should I go to dating sites, and approach Women in Night Clubs?

I ask this because someone said to me that for now, I shouldn’t pursue Women, I should just let the subs work on me and change my aura, and that at some stage my aura will attract Women to me effortlessly. But if that is true, wouldn’t I also manifest job opportunities at some stage without taking action?

Thanks

#2

Whoever said this needs to get bonked on the head.

Take action, accumulate experience and skill, don’t wait around. Waiting around for the sub to just manifest results for you is wrong and very ineffective.

Take action and let your subconscious thrive with all that data.

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#3

Cold approach is 100% the way to go and it’s not even close. The fastest way to develop a skill is to get immediate feedback, I can not think of one other route where you are immediately getting direct feedback on how you need to adjust your behavior to get the outcome your looking for. Cold approaching has about everything you need to really drive and access flow states, which will significantly increase your learning curve.

Clubs, malls , college campus’s. Anything you can get a really high volume of cold approaches in. I’d recommend finding a friend to do this with, makes it a lot more enjoyable and can actually be a ton of fun.

I used to literally do over a hundred approaches per day, looking back on it, was probably the most fun time period of my life.

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#4

Guys I noticed some confusion regarding a previous discussion. It was more about focusing on personal growth and inner development before actively seeking external validation or relationships.The idea was not to wait passively for results but to take inspired action while also allowing the subliminals to work on enhancing various aspects of oneself. It’s about striking a balance between taking proactive steps towards one’s goals and allowing the transformative power of the subliminals to unfold naturally.By cultivating inner confidence, self-assurance, and a magnetic presence, one can naturally attract opportunities and people into their life, including job opportunities and meaningful relationships. It’s not about waiting for results to magically appear but about aligning oneself accordingly. Taking action and letting the subconscious thrive with the data gathered from those experiences is indeed crucial. It’s about synergizing personal effort with the transformative potential of the subliminals to create the life one desires.

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#5

Thanks for developing your thoughts @R.E.M.P.O

So basically what you recommend is to take action, only when I feel inspired?

For example, while I don’t feel inspired to go to Night Clubs, nor dating sites, I should just focus on doing the things I feel I should be doing now? For example today, I feel that I should keep packing my bags to go looking for a job abroad, and not be looking for relationships.

Or what you mean is that sometimes I have to force myself to take action, but avoiding overdoing it, as it leads to exhaustion, and might not let the transformative power of the subliminals to unfold naturally?

This part is done automatically by the subs, without the need to take action, right?

#6

It’s not about following a strict set of rules, but rather tuning into your own intuition and what feels right for you in the moment. Sometimes, taking inspired action means doing what feels natural and aligned with your current goals and desires, while other times it might involve stepping out of your comfort zone a bit.

As for your example, if you feel compelled to focus on packing your bags for a job search, that could indeed be a productive use of your time right now. Trusting your instincts and honoring where you feel drawn to put your energy can be a powerful approach.

Regarding the transformative power of the subliminals, they work in conjunction with your actions and mindset. While they can help enhance your inner confidence and presence, taking action in alignment with your goals is still important. It’s like a synergy between the subconscious programming from the subs and your conscious efforts in the external world.

Ultimately, it’s about finding the right balance for you, between taking inspired action and allowing the subliminals to work.

I want to emphasize that I can’t provide ultimate advice because everyone’s journey is unique. What I can offer is guidance and insights based on my experiences and understanding. Ultimately, the decisions and actions you take are shaped by what’s going on in your world, your goals, and your personal aspirations.

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#7

Sounds like you have an issue with taking action and are looking for any possible excuse to do so. In this case, you need to get bonked on the head instead. Either way someone is. :wink:

This is correct.

Motivation and inspired action is great, use it when it comes. But don’t depend on it. If you depend on it, you’ll never get where you want to go.

Develop, cultivate, cherish and be absolutely ferocious with discipline. Bite into it and never let it go. You’ll see yourself - when you have ferocious discipline, these bursts of motivation and inspired action as is common to call it now will make you unstoppable.

Any good martial arts school will help you work on this. Working out/gym can help, but if you are just starting on working on your discipline, martial arts would be better.

Subliminals will support this whole process and make things massively easier; not necessarily simpler however - one needs to gain experience and knowledge of working with our subliminals, but in return they gain much greater momentum and potential.

Stop looking for excuses to not take action. You’re just lying to yourself and wasting time.

Develop discipline, listen wisely, journal.

Take action.

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#8

Subs are enhancers that multiply the progress you put in… the more the better

If you want to be popular with the ladies… start with small talk whenever possible, dare to talk to strangers… dare to fail… do it with a smile and never take things personally. Dare to try, dare to fail and make movment your priority, never self critcism…

NSE will take care of the rest. Dare to believe in more, You are world class and dont know it yet

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#9

Nice to meet another Saiyan in this community @Saiyan4Blue! :wink:

OK, so this is my compromise for Saturday: going to a night club, approach someone and invite someone to dance with me.

At this stage, I talk to Women at the gym, and I go to shopping malls pretending to buy things just to talk to them (and I get many smiles). But this actions I already took when using the previous vendor subs.

During quite some time I lived in another country where it’s usual to approach Women in bars, and I’ve done it so many times that I lost the count. But after about 1,5 years of always failing, I quit. At the time I didn’t have subs, so probably there was something on my subconscious mind sabotaging me, and I hope that the subs this time will help me not to send those negative subconscious signals to Women anymore. Anyway, I look more attractive now, than a few years ago when doing these approaches. In my country is not common to do cold approaches in bars nor night clubs, but If I believe in myself, I think I can pull something off.

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#10

Just to add that at the gym, some girls looked interested on me in the past. I would catch them looking at me, but as soon as I would look at them and show interest in my eyes, they would just look away, and I never understood why. Anyway I was not using these subs, so I hope it was some subconscious signal from me that is not being sent with these subs.

I’ve also noticed something similar that I think is in line with what @R.E.M.P.O said about not pursuing relationships nor validation, but let me know your thoughts: if I’m going through a shopping mall focused on some task (for example to have lunch, but focused on tasks to get my next job) I catch lots of Women looking at me, but if I go to a shopping mall because I want Women to look at me (for example to raise my self esteem), them almost no one looks at me.

#11

It sounds like you’re noticing some interesting dynamics in your interactions with women, both at the gym and in public spaces. Let’s break it down a bit. :wink:

Firstly, when women show interest but quickly look away when you reciprocate, it could be due to various factors. Sometimes, people are shy or unsure how to respond when their interest is acknowledged. Other times, it could be that they weren’t expecting you to notice their gaze, and they feel self-conscious when you do. It’s essential to remember that attraction is often subtle and complex, influenced by both conscious and subconscious factors. In essence, the interplay between conscious intentions and subconscious desires shapes how individuals express and interpret attraction.

Regarding your experiences at the shopping mall, there may be a difference in the energy you project when you’re focused on tasks versus when you’re seeking validation. When you’re engaged in activities that align with your goals and purpose, you emit a confident and purposeful vibe, which can naturally draw people’s attention. On the other hand, when you’re actively seeking validation or attention, your vibe might come across as needy or desperate, which can be less attractive.

Remember, true magnetism isn’t crafted from scripted lines or contrived tactics, but from the authenticity of your being. Cultivate a presence that speaks volumes without uttering a word, effortlessly drawing others to you like iron to a magnet. Women are drawn to men who exude confidence and purpose, who know what they want and go after it with determination.

As for the role of subliminals, they can certainly influence your subconscious mind and contribute to your overall energy and presence. However, it’s essential to recognize that they’re just one piece of the puzzle. Your mindset, beliefs, and actions also play significant roles in shaping your experiences with attraction and relationships.

In terms of pursuing relationships versus focusing on personal growth, I didn’t suggest refraining from pursuing relationships. Instead, I emphasized finding a balance that works for you. Sometimes, it’s beneficial to prioritize self-improvement and inner development before seeking external validation or relationships. Other times, you may feel ready and aligned to pursue connections with others. It ultimately depends on your current state, goals, and aspirations.

If you’re unsure about where you stand or what steps to take next, it might be helpful to reflect on your journey so far. Are there areas of your life that you feel need more attention or growth? Are there past experiences or beliefs that might be influencing your interactions with others? By gaining clarity on these aspects, you can make more informed decisions about your path forward.

Keep in mind that attraction and relationships are multifaceted and deeply personal experiences. Trust yourself and stay open to the possibilities.

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#12

I think I know what was going on. I have a theory, but I’m not going to say anything before I prove it.

Would it be interesting to read about this, so that I could practice it better, or will I figure things out just by taking action and processing the data, without the need to be educating myself about these subjects?

So I guess what I have to do is to maintain that aura and purpose even when approaching Women. Talking to them, but reminding myself that I have a mission to accomplish related to my purpose. And my purpose is to keep always evolving and getting better at all things in life, as a person, and with my skills. Pushing myself beyond my limits, overcoming and removing those limits!

About the mindset and actions I understand, but I thought the beliefs would be influenced by the subs. Actually I thought the subs would remove limiting beliefs from our subconscious.

I totally agree with you and the balanced approach.

At this stage I feel that I know what to do and I feel a very strong conviction.

Thanks for your support.

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#13

Supplementing your real-world experiences with insights from literature on attraction and relationships can offer invaluable wisdom, enriching your personal journey. Remember, knowledge finds its true potency when merged with practical application.

Cultivating a confident and purposeful demeanor in your interactions is vital. By grounding yourself in your aspirations and principles, you naturally exude magnetism, drawing women towards you.

Subliminals represent a significant facet of our subconscious journey. However, it’s the harmonization of these subtle shifts with deliberate actions and mindset adjustments that amplifies their potency, fostering profound personal growth.

Remember, true empowerment lies in integrating knowledge with action, propelling you forward on your path to success.

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#14

Interesting. You actually do this?

#15

Yesterday, I was feeling really bad and anxious for going out at night, but I dressed up anyway, and I was forcing myself to go.
I got ready before time to leave the house, so I started watching TV a little, and the worse happened: I started feeling very sleepy and couldn’t drive in that state. And so I slept.

I feel really bad for not having kept my promise :disappointed:

Either way, I think I should listen more to my intuition: I needed rest (my subconscious found a way to give me some rest), I’ve been forcing myself last 2 weeks to fight and do things I don’t want to do. During the last 2 weeks, I tried to go too many times out of my comfort zone, and I reached my limit. There has to be a balance to how often I force myself to do things.

Also I have to establish an humbler goal next week: just go out to that new club (I have never been there). The bouncer might not let me in because I’m alone, and if I get in it will already be a victory next time.

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#16

Yes, it works to raise my self esteem. I worked on my looks, so I get lots of hits.

Edit: And my inner confidence with Women also has raised a lot during the last 20 months, which contributes for the hits :wink:

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#17

Here’s my update on this: Super Saiyajin Power! (and Journal) - #15 by SuperSaiyan

#18

Another question:

At the gym, I regularly meet the same women. Should I keep approaching them 3/4 times per week, just to make conversation, to receive and process all the data/feedback from those women, or should I just approach them once in while, since approaching almost every day (and not seeing interest in the other side) might come as needy.

@AnswerGroup

#19

Which Sub are you running lately?

#20

@Niles makes a really good point. I find that the easiest way to get into the flow state is to ignite conversations around you with random people and banter with them.

Perhaps its a british thing but us british use banter and sprinkle in sarcasm to connect with people.

So long as you can randomly open your mouth and talk without too much thought you will meet women.

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