Where do I go from here?

Questions and Comments
#1

Hey lovely peeps,

I had made a post asking about customs, I also debated on my stack as well.

I still feel at a loss about what’s the best thing to do going forward that can aid in producing great results with daily action, minimal recon. I want to feel good from the inside out, impact millions around the world directly & indirectly, balance family business and self/romantic love life, keep at my passions. Fulfilling abundant life.

A little bit about what’s been going on for me…

Subs helped aid me in finally leaving my career late 2022. Subs helped aid me to become a yoga teacher. (Almost done) subs helped aid me to finding love (1 year in July). Subs have helped with my self image, physical and emotional healing ~ I’d love to continue working on and maintaining this. Subs have helped me play my instruments more, but I’m still having confidence issues/some sort of block with being able to actually perform for people without screwing it up. I can sing in key and pitch alone but once the music is on or people around, I mess things up. I started recording myself singing as a hobby when I was 13. I played in metalcore bands in my youth.

I want to take my life experiences and share them with the world through art in some form… I thought of finding someone to write my thoughts for me, but that may be the lazy route. I thought of turning my story into a movie or tv series. Book series maybe. It’s overwhelming thinking about it. I had this idea back in 2007 & procrastinate.

I need to make a website. I enjoy blogging. I love making videos. I want to create content that can be sold as packages somehow.

I have 3 kids. I’ve been trying to build some sort of business or businesses where I produce wealth in many ways but work half the time. I believe if I enjoy what I am doing then it doesn’t feel like work though. I want to have a healthier relationship with money and wealth production.

I’ve been basically relying on my bf financially since leaving my career. I’d like to contribute financially as well. Not dependent on him solely. I do a lot of course but it feels a bit uncomfortable.

I thought of the idea of just being a house wife and mom who side hustles.

I’m certified at the Master Reiki level. I am certified as a high performing coach. I’m almost finished my certification for yoga teacher. I worked with youth for 12 years plus. I worked as a cook for years. I worked in customer service.

I’ve done years and years of healing work on myself.

I realize where I would switch subs frequently and cause myself unnecessary recon. I was pretty good at finishing my stack but then I would switch main titles. Take long wash outs & start feeling paranoid about subliminals. Confusing and overwhelming my nervous system too.

There’s gotta be something perfect for me that I can follow and commit to so I can get really clear and go after whatever it is that will be fulfilling for myself and my beautiful family. I have always been an ambitious highly motivated and high performance person.

This isn’t very fun right now how I am feeling.

Where to go from here :slight_smile: hit me where it hurts if needed! :joy:

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#2

If I were in your shoes, I would focus on picking one of the topics (or, possibly, pick 2 that dovetail nicely together in a unique way) that solves a genuine need for people, and create a course around it. Teachable has a super easy-to-use platform, and there are many others.

Then you can blog, YT, podcast, etc around the concept to drive traffic to it, which serves your desire to be a creator, while also working toward the goal of passive income.

In terms of how, check out Gillian Perkins on YouTube. You can’t go wrong with her. Solid info.

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#3

I’m on teachable for my yoga teacher training right now!

So I’ve become somewhat familiar with the platform.

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#4

My one YT short (15 seconds) has 9K views.

Maybe it’s time to head over and explore TikTok. :flushed:

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#5

Pick something to build first, then you’ll know what kind of content to create and what kind of audience to build.

My YT channel is languishing… my top video has nearly 140K views, though most are around 2k-10k. I built the channel without a plan for how to monetize it, so I just quit… as while it was a lot of fun, it was pointless without a plan.

Another project I did years ago ended up with 25k+ actively engaged fans… but we abandoned that one too, simply because there was no obvious path to profit and it was taking up a TON of time to produce the content.

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#6

This is gonna be really blunt so excuse me for asking upfront. Have you been diagnosed with ADHD at any point?

#7

No I haven’t.

#8

Was just curious. I was reading your post and it kind of lines up with more ADHD brains. What follows is a very very rudimentary observation so metric tons of salt should be taken with it.

But I’ve found the way society tends to be structured is very linear based. One subject at a time, focus, discipline, habit, repetition. All this is like kryptonite for an ADHD brain. I find it’s more like a web. Bits of info here and there, randomly synthesized with another topic in the brain, then sporadic rotating bursts of interest in one topic. Being locked in to one thing usually doesn’t go well, there needs to be flexibility and freedom. Rigid concepts and paint by numbers approaches are uninteresting (even if bringing in results) because it can leave out that desire to connect seemingly unrelated things and pattern match past experiences for new ideas.

Of course when your brain DOES work differently nobody ever shows you the strengths. But you get beat with a metaphorical stick for deviating from what’s typical. So you end up doing things that work well for others but not yourself. And when you stray from what’s most natural and effective for your brain, it’s like getting hit with that stick and switching back to inefficient stuff.

I don’t know if any of that made sense.

But you’ve touched a lot of stuff in your life. And you’ve expressed the desire to create in all sorts of mediums. You don’t want to be constrained to just one it sounds like. Maybe something like Renaissance Man would help

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#9

I’ve been assessed by psychologists and doctors over the years because of my neurodivergence & multiple traumatic experiences.

I believe we can all fall somewhere on a spectrum for ADHD.

Not everything is grey area to me. It’s rainbow.

I feel sad about this question but it’s okay.

#10

Yea. This has been my whole life.

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#11

I can’t really answer where you want to go career-wise, it seems like you can try to create multiple avenues for money and thrive that way, since you’re very multi-faceted. Freelancing could be a good place to start, and you can scale that into a multi-faceted consulting business eventually. That corp could be quite helpful from a tax perspective, and help you market yourself to bigger clients eventually. But again, I have no fucking clue about what I’m talking about, just parroting things I’ve heard before that might peak your interest in the way it peaked my own.

From a sub stack perspective I can definitely say that Mogul is one of the most underrated titles in the shop and something you should definitely look into. Running that sub supercharges my life from a money perspective, I absolutely love it.

You also mentioned in your journal about having an increased desire to start an OnlyFans since you started HoT. Running that with Mogul can definitely give you direction in that field. @enigma12 might be able to share some of his expertise in that field with you.

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#12

Didn’t mean to bum you out, it was more of a lead in question.

I guess sometime with subliminal selection there can be a tendency to focus on shortcomings that can be improved vs capitalizing on strengths. And it can lead down a path of subliminals that are farther out from our own sort of natural tendencies.

#13

I grew up with a sister who has ADHD & my mom too. My oldest has ADHD. I’ve also worked with many who have this diagnosis.

I don’t like how I associate ADHD with such a negative experience inside of me.

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#14

Yes. This idea is still there. My bf brings it up sometimes. He had a dream about it last night, specifically foot modeling. :sweat_smile:

#15

I was randomly thinking about this sub earlier today.

#16

Can you elaborate on that? If not it’s ok. Just trying to understand what you meant there

#17

It’s an incredible sub, and not spoken about enough. Running it in a custom with 2 other cores and in 6 weeks, my finances became stable, I became credit card debt free, I purchased my first car, I stared trading crypto and was able to triple my initial investment.

Since stopping Mogul (because I wanted to test out Genesis), I lost all of my profits and racked up a decent amount of credit card debt again. Needless to say, I’m patiently waiting for my new custom with Mogul to come in so that I can get my shit back on track (by this week theoretically).

Mogul is a life changer. Seriously, check it out. If you get it in a custom, Mogul combined with Victory’s Call is a fucking potent combination.

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#18

I associate ADHD with some not very loving assumptions from my experience growing up with a sister who has it.

Doesn’t feel very great.

Edit: finding it difficult to put words to the feelings. :sweat_smile:

#19

Nice! Thank you :pray:

#20

I think I know what you’re talking about here. Maybe lol. Well I understand when something knocks around in there like that and causes some inner tension.