I am not sure what this exactly means. Yum like good strawberry jam?
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It means whatever you want it to mean.
Yum for me is that feeling of satisfaction from a very tasty meal.
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Watch out for calories 
I don’t worry about that anymore. 
Yeah, screw that
So then Marry me
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I like that you can admit you weren’t truly a victim in these relationships now.
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I had to step off the triangle and ride the spiral 
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@Simon is right women just wanna have fun.
They will pick alpha chad in her early twenties to fool around and have wild nasty sex then in her late 20’s early 30’s she will settle for a regular decent guy (as best as she can get).
What these guys who date the older women who are still pining for chads dont realize is - she can be with you physically but she will be constantly in her mind thinking about her adventures dating and messing with Chad.
I had been the provider and i been the lover, i could see the difference in the behaviour and attitude when i was in each one of these categories.
Strive to be the lover - listen to wanted black 
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what if you could be both ??
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Chads are out, brooding creatives are in
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I really wish it was possible.
I mean, you can be a strong man that women inherently have respect for which is the most important thing in a relationship with a man.
Thing with relationships is, a woman has an inherent tendency to “change” a man.
What do i mean?
If a man has high status and strong frame and is capable, he usually has lots of options especially if he is in good shape.
Now when this man gets into a monogamous relationship, the woman knows he has other options and if she misbehave he can replace her with no sweat.
So subconciously she tries to “betatize” him.
Ie: make him eat more to gain fat, convince him to skip sports etc… in order to lock him down so he will only be for her and not desired by her competitors other women.
Or in other words turn the once lover hot shredded guy into a pudgy beta.
And then guess what? She loses attracrion for him. he is no longer a challange, he is predictable overweight and boring.
So that’s why there is clear distinction between the two
Unless a man is willingly keep working on himself even in relationship and do not fall for the “betatization” process and stays sharp and fit then he can be both, more importantly keep his frame.
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bro ur thinking too much
I promise you its not that deep
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I would not want my man to get fat or whatever.
If he was gonna leave me for someone else, so be it.
I learned a lot from being engaged twice. I used to try to control or prevent them from finding another woman. I think it’s a compliment if woman want my man but he comes home to me everyday. 
and tbh asking what women want is the most ironic question ever
women want a man who knows what he wants lol
so start by asking yourself what you want instead
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I’m sitting here thinking, what kind of man do I even really want.
Both my fiancés were tradesmen. One became a successful entrepreneur and the other is basically a foreman of the company he works for.
Would he have lots of female friends? If so, would I be jealous? Would I care?
It is a compliment if woman want my man.
I mean tbh you kinda had your chance with the entrepreneur and messed it up
I’d suggest to maybe not be hung up on his finances and status
Cause the last thing a successful dude wants is a girl that wants him cause of his success
Just build it up with a man who has goals and dreams
Dont be at the finish line cause its crowded
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And really ask yourself this:
Do I want a man who loves me or provides for me?
Chose Love.
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He wasn’t an entrepreneur when we were together. He was a truck driver who then became a diesel mechanic and years later became an entrepreneur.
We broke up in 2013.
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Got me thinking here!