What women want (a quick discussion)

Questions and Comments
#82

yeah the same way men like porn and hot woman-great
I used post it notes based based on a webinar I learned about with 1 shitty picture on tinder and for 2 years got thousands and matches and tons of dates and sex.
the point for me is you have the hand your dealt and you can make the most of it.
You (the proverbial you) can make a profile that’s as effective as possible for how you look.
You can get in incredible shape if your short, you can make a better bio.
You can have a higher status better paying career
I’m interested in what I empowers my life or what I can do. Everyone knows woman like taller man, higher status, more wealth.
Life is not fair on a lot of levels, and woman have a bias for a certain kind of man/look-great.
For me personally-to what degree does that serve my life to know or stay fixated on?

not just not being judged and shamed- also in the absence of any other influential factors that man can offer.

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#83

We are having 2 separate conversations.

One is a discussion on "What Women Want?"
Other is "What a Man can do to Maximize his Sexual Success/Happiness?"

No one here is actually disagreeing with the other. They’re just answering two different questions.

:hugs:

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#84

True dat, well distinguished

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#85

You go shopping for a body, but what you end up stuck with is a soul.

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#86

Can we get an amen.?

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#87

Whats your advice for men that have truly been given a shitty hand.? Short,ugly,naturally small and they do everything in their power to improve and yet they are still below average at best.?

Im curious how others will respond to this question.

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#88

And then there is my point.

WANTED ZP.

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#89

Off the top of my head
All this is is fairly trite on one hand lol but also if you really get it-very powerful

  1. Decide right now whether you want to resign yourself to being a loser and less because of ‘the hand you were dealt’ or if you want that to give you strength, depth, and character and just go crush life. Stop trying to ‘overcome’ anything and just go do your thing
    1.subs are a game changer for sure
  2. start defining your own standards
  3. look at what the limiting belief of what woman prefer is costing you-I promise the reality of whatever statistics show and whatever woman naturally prefer has less impact on success than believing one is ‘lesser’ because of it.
  4. Find role models even if online or from afar or other people who are similar to them in some attributes but still successful in ways they care about
  5. Practice not giving a fuck and letting go of emotional hurt about ‘inferiority’, self pity, bad luck etc-life is fucking short-you never know what could happen-and there is only now-like for fucking real- this time is all you got-it’s your choice on how you spend it. Do whatever you have to feel your best, subs, therapy, friends, activities etc. Choose yourself over and over again. Even in the face of what may seem like ‘rejection’
  6. still have a life you love
  7. Focus on purpose and meaningful career
  8. Focus on generating wealth if that’s something you value or feel empowered by
  9. Be open to being surprised with what woman actual like and let go of thinking your out of the game because you know something or your not enough. What was the old saying ‘there is no reason your not enough’
  10. Work on style and physique
  11. Work on cultivating masculinity- whatever that means to you-I won’t go into it here. But taking Jiu-Jitsu and/or MMA definitely helps as does the right kind of meditation.
  12. Study game/dating from good sources if it helps. PM me if you want but wont put references.
  13. Keep looking if your interested in a woman not if she is interested in you
  14. Have as much fun as you can with everything you do.
  15. Cultivate being comfortable with yourself, your insecurities, and owning them. No need to hide.
  16. Stare at yourself naked in the mirror until, your body your eyes etc until you’re at peace with and love what you see.
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#92

I want to be able to look a man in his eyes and trust him with my soul, I want to fun, laughter, but be taken seriously when it’s needed. I have bouts of depression and guys who don’t know what is don’t deal with it very well - if anything think it’s funny you can’t remember things like where your bank card is or if you took your meds or the fact that you don’t know why you are crying but you just want to be held. I have always hoped the guy I dated would be my best friend. Ok so there are some things us women are better off sharing with our lady friends as you guys are better off share with your male friends. So far I haven’t felt that any guy I’ve dated would be there for me. I came close to one but as we got to know each other somehow it all changed.

Women are better at feelings and men are better at sorting things. But sometimes just sitting and trying to understand each other makes the relationship more. Otherwise I sometimes feel its just surface level nothing more.

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#93

David Deangelo ?

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#94

You described a female

It’s okay to say what you want but the caveat of this topic is what does a man who is on his purpose do to get a woman on his level, if it were as simple as being a woman’s Prince Charming then we’d all resign to seeing who buys girls more flowers as the winner

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#95

women want emotional stimulation !

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#96

A girl i met in the ukraine once said to me if only i could find a man who can be a father, friend and lover to me.

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#97

father ? :sweat_smile:

even though a bit weirdly expressed, she has some good self awareness

So laying down the rules and enforce them, then at times empathizing, relating and having fun wither.

And also a good sex, switching between romance and animalistic like.

#98

Father = Role Model someone she can lookup too, someone who can protect her and go to for advice, someone who can tell her when she is wrong.

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#99

They use the word father since it’s a symbol for strength, power and protection.

Again don’t listen to what they say!

:joy:

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#100

@pacman

You are spot on mate !!! :slight_smile:

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#101

an ATM.

Daddy … as in …

Sugar Daddy.

:face_with_hand_over_mouth: :rofl:

My kinda girl.

:wink:

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#102

:rofl: :rofl: dying of :rofl: :rofl:

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#103

Yes !
But get in her pants before you get used and left :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:

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