What women want (a quick discussion)

I have at points for sure, lately -woman are the last thing on my mind

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While this is an interesting Q, I just think: run subs (especially the ZP ones when they’re ready), study a little, don’t worry about it.

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On the fresh and fit podcast, Myron gains will ask women on the show what do they have to offer besides sex and the women on the show can’t come up with a answer

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amen, i went from having quite a few seduction modules and my next custom will have none other than sphaera magnetica for no other reason than to give my sexual impetus an exhaust system to dissipate into my aura, leaving less bottled.

its funny how you only need something like Khan for long periods and youll have this growth in this aspect, but i must be honest, my knowledge on game was steroided hard due to CHARISMA AND FLIRTING MENTOR. It sent me to the deepest darkest places to learn proper game and start asking myself WHAT DO I WANT

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I don’t really have read many books on game but I am interested in hearing more about it, how has it helped you when you were seducing someone?

Have you also tried Instant Seducing Tactician?

both for 6 months

instant seducing tactician, is very light and focused and it wasnt very good, because it helps you understand instantly whos a good girl for you and not and honestly, i can find that out myself slowly, the module makes it very quick

it helped me because everyone thinks that charisma mentor only works when youre talking to girls

IT DOESNT

it helps you there, and also helps you LEARN game at home, and understand it better and internalize it

its like informaticon for game

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@Floridianninja you want to answer this? If I remember correctly, your answer in a previous post was quite fascinating.

I can’t speak for other places but in the US look at tinder. Tinder is pretty eye opening in how women mate select. They don’t have to feel judged or shamed for stating what they actually want. It was found that women swipe right on the top 20 percent of men on tinder. Men who are 6 feet tall, great career, great body, has High status Etc. Tinder is the unfiltered truth of how women pick men and what most women find attractive

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Haha that’s sad for the women in that show, but clearly not a representation of all women.

Because the answer is so simple these girls must be somewhat daft.

Just say “being a good mother” and you’re already ahead.

Then again, sex is what most men in this society want since they don’t have higher goals, so it’s a good fit, isn’t it?

What do people on tinder seek? Sex.

Naturally they choose for the best physical mate.

You don’t search “ugly hag” on a porn site, do you? Same thing.

You’ll never find wife material on Tinder :rofl:

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on ‘paper’ how they pick men.
I’ve seen an experienced too much for myself and from others-how ‘presence’, energy, situational status, and dominant character- let alone connection, chemistry, and how a man can make a woman feel with words- effect what’s possible with woman though. So all the statistics can be true and it still doesn’t matter or need to be a limiting factor.

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A man’s energy is the absolute key.

You can be a broke loser, but if you make her FEEL she’ll do a lot for you.

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You rang? lol

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Self depreciating humor is btw also the worst mindset you can have :wink::grin:

Ditch that immediately.

You’re the prize, chief!

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I’m the senate

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The word ‘want’ has two related usages: one is the sense of ‘desire’. I desire peace and I desire money. I want them.

The other usage is ‘lack’. As in: “You have been judged and found wanting.”

Combined together, these usages clarify the nature of appetite and of want.

People want something when they feel that they do not currently have enough of it.

When you’re hungry, you want food. But after you’re full, you don’t want food so much anymore.

Does that mean you’re some kind of dysfunctionally unstable, irrational person? No. Just the opposite.

You got food, so you don’t want it anymore. That’s appropriate. Our wants and desires are functionally unstable.

All appetites work this way, so you can expect the same thing to happen with sex and mate selection.

That’s probably why this conversation has thus far stayed restricted to dating, sex, and initial choice of relationship partners, and not to anything that lasts much longer than that. In that context, a whole range of different factors apply.

How long will you continue to want the same person after you’ve ‘gotten’ them and/or received what you wanted from them?

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If one removes the words self-depricating I feel it is the other way around. Maybe it’s more about transparency.

In that way humor can be divine in a way. If one can make fun of oneself without being triggered in any way, then no one has anything on you, because you are not putting up any resistance. You are free in that sense.

I’ve noticed that myself lately after having let go of my old life and circumstances over the last year. I just made a list of people that I knew and told them everything that was bothering me.

It might be more a spiritual way that I’ve grown in, but it feels very liberating, and it is a way of completely owning my shit. Nothing is hard to talk about because it has already been said.

They say you cannot truly lie to yourself beacause deep down you know. But what I’ve noticed is that one can bullshit oneself, and that after a while becomes so heavy that it influences all your actions in negative way.

It feels sometimes that’s all commercials are doing this to us, hey you buy this car with a bikini model lying on the hood. My mind knows it’s bullshit, it makes no sense to buy the car because of that, but still the next time I see that car the connection is made.

Very hard to write creatively at the moment, because I’m being smacked in the head with blue Play-Doh by a 5-year old as I’m writing this :joy:

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When it comes to tinder, bumble etc it’s not on paper it’s actually how women pick men

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your missing the point. The point is how women actually mate select and what there are actually looking for in men without being judged or shamed for in their answers. Look at the bios for women look who they swipe right on.
10 to 20 percent of men on tinder are being swiped right on most women on tinder, while 80 percent of men are not getting noticed.
Online dating is a small reflection and unflattering way of how the world actually works.

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I understood that. But it’s missing many points. That was my point.

On a base level this is certainly correct.

Much like all men swipe right on hot women no matter the personality. Real world works different though. Otherwise reality would look exactly like tinder. Which it doesn’t, right?

Outside of that, it doesn’t hurt to be the best man you can be :sunglasses:

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